Nine wonderful years have passed since you tied the knot and we bet there have been countless memories that have paved your way to this wedding anniversary. This is the perfect opportunity to take the time to look back at some of the special moments you’ve shared during the last nine years.
Obviously next year is going to be a biggie in terms of big round anniversary numbers. But I think it’s super important to make the most of every day you can. Nine years is a massive achievement in itself so be sure to celebrate together and have a peek at some lovely gift ideas.
Best 9th Anniversary Gift Ideas
Show them how happy you are to celebrate nine wonderful years together with a perfectly-picked pottery gift. From a mug for her morning cup of joe to workshops for creative souls, we’ve put together a few of our favourites.
Hand-Formed Wavy Cheese Plate
The rim isn’t straight, it *waves*. Like it’s mid-curtsy or just finished a particularly satisfying cheese pun — either way, it’s intentional, and it’s the whole point. This hand-formed ceramic cheese plate leans into imperfection with a satisfyingly uneven edge and that under-glazed, satin finish that pottery nerds nod at with quiet respect.
It doesn’t shout, but it does suggest you know how to lay out a decent Manchego without breaking into performer mode. Whether your anniversary celebration involves wine for two or a tiny tapas-sized feast in your living room, this plate knows its job and looks gorgeous doing it. Charcuterie hero. Cracker runway. Brie stage. You get the idea.
Nine years in, your relationship has earned a little wavy weirdness — in the best way. And this plate gets it. Handmade, humble, and a little bit “I could’ve been in a gallery, but I chose this kitchen.” A subtle statement piece that says, “Yes, we’re grown-ups now. Pass the chutney.”
Hand-Painted Photo Bowl
The photo is fired *into* the glaze — not printed, not slapped on with a sticker, but actually sealed inside the ceramic. Which means your face (or your dog’s face, or your beach honeymoon moment) becomes permanent décor on a handcrafted bowl. It’s giving “I cherish you” energy, with a side of “I paid attention to the details.”
This piece isn’t screaming romance — it’s whispering something better. Something about inside jokes over cereal and slow Sundays with fruit and coffee and time to spare. We don’t usually assign emotional weight to tableware, but this bowl might make you soft. It’s usable, personal, and utterly unnecessary — and that’s what makes it kind of perfect for a ninth wedding anniversary. You’ve already got the essentials. Now you get to gift something totally extra, on purpose.
It’s sentimental with taste, handmade without being too clunky, and heartfelt without dragging out a sonnet. Just pottery, memory, and a small everyday object made weirdly sacred. Nine years in, that tracks.
Delft Blue Gold Kintsugi Necklace
The porcelain pendant is repaired with gold — not metaphorically, but literally — down the crack, kintsugi-style. The result? A piece of classic Delft blue that wears its break like a badge of honor. Which, ironically, is kind of the whole point of a ninth anniversary. You’re not just celebrating the glossy surface moments; you’re celebrating the chips, the fixes, and the choice to keep showing up beautifully flawed.
This necklace isn’t dainty in the “blink and you miss it” sense. It’s quietly striking, with a gold seam that would make a potter smirk in approval. And yes, technically this counts toward the traditional pottery gift brief — porcelain is clay’s posh cousin, after all. But while pottery sits on the shelf, this one stays close to the heart. Subtle symbolism, wearable sentiment. No inscribed dates, no schmaltz, just an elegant nod to the art of staying together — cracks, gold, and all.
Handmade Textured Pinky Beige Vase
The textured surface is what gives this vase its whole quiet confidence—it’s intentionally imperfect in that artisanal, “yeah I was thrown on a wheel by a human” kind of way. And the color? Pinky beige. Not pink, not beige—*pinky beige*—which sounds like a joke but looks like a design choice you paid a premium for in a very specific boutique.
This isn’t your standard factory-perfect vessel. It has the kind of subtle character that makes it feel like a tiny sculpture, not just a flower-holder. Which makes it ideal for an anniversary gift—specifically your ninth, when pottery steps into the spotlight. You’ve spent nearly a decade building something beautiful together…you deserve décor that gets that. Even if all it ever holds is eucalyptus you forget to replace for three months.
This vase won’t shout for attention from the middle of the table. It will sit there quietly, elegantly, like your marriage on a random Tuesday night—unfussy, intentional, and still putting in the work.
Handmade Ceramic Coaster
The outline of Arizona is carved directly into the clay — not printed, not stamped-on, but actually *glazed into the surface* of this ceramic coaster. So even if your spouse isn’t the sentimental type, the craftsmanship basically insists on being admired. And yes, if they’re from Tucson or just bonded with you in a Phoenix dive bar that one magical night, it counts as wildly romantic.
Each piece is handmade with just enough human imperfection to remind you it’s not mass-produced — kind of like your relationship, honestly. Durable enough to take the heat from coffee or cocktails (your anniversary, your drink), this little slab of stoneware pulls off “minimalist” without being remotely boring. It’s thoughtful without trying too hard, pottery without the cliché mug, and exactly the kind of gift that says “I love you, and I actually paid attention.”
Framed Burlap Ninth Anniversary Keepsake
Framed burlap. That’s the headline here — not linen, not cardstock, not yet another brushed metal situation — actual burlap, hemmed inside a rustic wooden frame like it’s starring in its own folk-arty documentary about enduring love. There’s something quietly bold about taking a fabric usually reserved for potato sacks and elevating it into a statement piece. You’ve been through nine years of marriage, after all — you’ve earned some texture.
This framed keepsake is a marriage of form and sentiment: your names, your wedding date, and a heartfelt message, all printed with crisp precision onto woven burlap. It’s tactile. Intimate. Slightly rugged, in the best possible way — kind of like a spouse who still insists on hand-washing your favorite mug. It doesn’t scream, it lingers. This is the kind of gift that settles into a shelf or a wall like it’s always belonged there, quietly reminding you both that love isn’t flashy — it’s dependable, cozy, and sometimes mildly scratchy (again, nine years of marriage).
Concrete Backflow Incense Fountain
The concrete build gives this incense fountain its weight—literally and vibe-wise. It’s not fragile, it’s not fussy, and it definitely doesn’t look like a fairy garden. Instead, it’s giving “zen bunker.” The kind of thing you’d expect to see beside a minimalist samurai’s bedside table or dead center in a moody, architect-designed reading nook. Which is exactly why it works.
When lit with a backflow cone, the smoke doesn’t rise—it *falls*. Pouring down the stepped channels like it accidentally wandered into a lava lamp’s slow-motion cousin. It’s a visual party trick dressed up as tranquility, and even if your partner isn’t a full-on incense person, watching the smoke cascade down concrete is weirdly hypnotic. Ideal for setting a scene, calming a mind, or just proving that your anniversary gift game has evolved past scented candles and stress balls.
Nine years of marriage has probably seen its fair share of rising tension. So yes, this is symbolic. The stress goes downward. The air smells better. And your guy finally has a reason to use the word “karst” that doesn’t involve a geology podcast. Functional sculpture, low-key ritual, and pottery-adjacent in the coolest way possible.
9th Anniversary Hand Rolled Mug
The clay on this 9th Anniversary Hand Rolled Mug has been—wait for it—*actually* rolled by hand. You can see the subtle twist in the shape, like the potter just shrugged and said, “perfection is overrated,” and we fully support that vibe nine years deep into marriage.
It’s giving cozy, lopsided charm in all the right ways—thick-walled, satisfyingly weighty, and clearly made by a human, not a factory mold. There’s something grounding about sipping your morning brew from a mug that didn’t exist until someone sat down and literally shaped it into being. Like your relationship, it’s a little imperfect, totally functional, and built to last longer than most trends (or lease agreements).
This one’s for the partner who still starts their day with two hands wrapped around a mug and you, somewhere nearby. It’s pottery with heart and zero pretense, which makes it a fitting little love letter for your ninth go-round the sun together. No monogram, no frills—just something honest, earthy, and solid. Sound familiar?
Bronze Ceramic Pint
Hand-thrown in Vermont and finished with a metallic bronze glaze that catches the light like it knows it’s showing off, this ceramic pint doesn’t try to be clever — it just *is.* It holds a full 16 ounces, no measuring needed, and manages to feel both chill and ceremonial, like the kind of cup you’d use on a Tuesday night *and* your ninth anniversary. That’s range.
There’s something low-key epic about sipping from something literally sculpted by hand. Handleless and heavy in the best way, this pint has that just-right weight — solid enough to feel intentional, but not so bulky it’ll crack your countertop. It’s pottery, yes, but dipped in a bit of modern swagger thanks to that bronzy finish. Which, by the way, means he gets to say “it’s art” every time he pours a beer.
Nine years in, your shared rituals mean everything — the Netflix marathons, the surprise takeout, the quiet end-of-day drinks. This pint slides effortlessly into those moments, elevating them without trying too hard. It’s functional, handsome, and clearly built to last — which also makes it a decent metaphor for your marriage if you’re into that kind of symbolism.
Nine Tally Anniversary Tumbler
Nine little tally marks are carved straight into the side like a caveman’s calendar — which is honestly charming, considering how far you two have come in nine years. Hand-thrown, glazed, and 100% pottery (not porcelain, not “ceramic adjacent”), this anniversary tumbler doesn’t dress itself up, it just shows up — sturdy, honest, and exactly what it says it is. Like someone else you know.
The tumbler is smooth in the hand and heavy in that comforting, made-to-last kind of way. No handle, no unnecessary frills — just one symbolic notch for every year you’ve survived, celebrated, and maybe occasionally clashed over IKEA instructions. It holds your partner’s morning coffee, your evening wine, or their suspiciously murky protein shake with equal commitment. Functional? Yes. Sentimental? Quietly. Like a love letter written in clay instead of ink.
As a ninth anniversary gift, it lands hard on the pottery theme without getting all performative about it. No cursive font. No glitter. Just a beautifully minimal piece that says: *we’ve done this for nine years, and we still show up for each other*. Some things are worth carving into stoneware.
Personalized Tally Pottery Vase
Five hand-etched tally marks run down the front of this ceramic vase — subtle, symbolic, and only slightly smug. Each stroke counts toward your nine-year marriage milestone (don’t worry, there’s one on the back too). It’s literal in the best kind of way: no hearts, no florals, just a quiet record of time passed and love endured.
Hand-thrown and personalized with your initials or wedding date, this stoneware vase feels more like a time capsule than a home accessory. It’s not flashy. It doesn’t beg for fresh flowers. It just sits there, confidently holding space — like the strong, silent type of anniversary gift. The kind you don’t have to explain but kind of want to show off anyway.
After nearly a decade, your relationship deserves something that says “we built this.” This vase does that — not in loud declarations, but in five tallies, a name, and a shape that holds everything gracefully together. Just like the two of you. (Except, mercifully, less susceptible to arguing about IKEA assembly instructions.)
Engraved 9th Anniversary Pen
Engraved with “Happy 9th Anniversary” in a no-nonsense typeface, this pen does its job with just enough ceremony to say, *yes, I remembered*. It comes tucked inside a velvet-lined case, like it just graduated with honors or delivered a particularly stirring TED Talk. (Spoiler: it’s a ballpoint.)
The gift is part sentiment, part practicality — which, frankly, feels very on-brand for year nine. You’ve spent nearly a decade together, so giving him a functional pen with a personal touch is less “I love you like a rom-com” and more “I love you like someone who knows your calendar is chaos without a good writing tool.” It nods to the milestone without screaming romance through a megaphone made of rose petals. He can toss it in his work bag, keep it on his desk, or use it to sign the next mortgage payment like the stylish grownup he is.
No pottery here, but if a sleek, click-top pen engraved in your honor doesn’t say lasting commitment, what does?
At Home Pottery Studio Kit
Two pounds of real air-dry clay, and zero need for a kiln, wheel, or a degree in ceramics to use it — this kit is designed for beginners and chaos-free creativity. It comes fully loaded with tools, paint, sealant, instructions, and just enough mess potential to make it feel legit without destroying the dining room table.
It’s not pretending to turn you into a museum-level potter overnight, but it *does* let you spend an afternoon with your partner shaping lumpy little bowls and calling them “rustic.” And honestly? That’s kind of perfect for a ninth anniversary. After nine years, love isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, getting your hands dirty, and laughing when your ‘vase’ looks more like a mushroom.
This gift is a nudge to slow down and make something with your hands, side by side. Even if the results are objectively weird, the process is pure gold. Or at least a lovingly uneven soap dish.
Geometric Formation Mug
The crisp facets of this mug weren’t rounded off in someone’s hurry—every geometric edge is intentional, and kind of stunning. It’s like the sculptural ceramic version of “still waters run deep”—low-key at a glance, but actually one of the more interesting mugs on the shelf. Slightly asymmetric, deeply tactile, and confidently carved, it’s the kind of object that makes your everyday tea feel like a design choice.
There’s something poetic about gifting a hand-thrown vessel on a pottery anniversary. Especially one that doesn’t scream “souvenir shop” in large italic script. This mug has heft without being clunky, art without being delicate, and—crucially—style without needing a coaster to pull it off. It’s a gift that feels earned at the nine-year mark: familiar, unique, and made to last.
State Silhouette Spoon Rest
Shaped like your favorite state (yes, even Delaware), this glazed stoneware spoon rest is unapologetically specific — and that’s exactly the point. It holds your sauce-covered spoons with regional pride, because nothing says “we’ve made a home together” like pottery in the shape of your shared geography.
It’s not trying to be delicate or abstract. It’s your actual state, with borders and all, in a form functional enough to catch every drip from Tuesday’s chili or Sunday’s stir-fry. Handmade and proudly low-drama, it sits by the stove like a tiny ceramic love letter to wherever “us” ended up planting roots.
For a ninth anniversary gift, it nails that sweet spot where sentimental meets actually useful. It’s pottery (tick), personal (tick), and just a little unexpected — kind of like your relationship after nine solid years. Who knew you’d be excited about a spoon rest? And yet, here we are.
Lapis Lazuli Teardrop Monogram Necklace
The gold monogram is hand-stamped onto a teardrop of deep blue lapis lazuli — a stone so rich in color it was literally ground into ultramarine pigment by Renaissance painters. So yes, your marriage deserves gemstone-grade poetry too.
The lapis is raw enough to keep some edge, but polished just enough to wear like you mean it. Set in minimal brass hardware with a delicate gold-plated chain, this necklace delivers sentiment without veering into the Valentine’s aisle. The initial is subtle — not full-name bold, just enough to whisper “mine” in a nice, grown-up way. It’s the kind of piece she’ll put on unintentionally every morning and start to miss when it’s not there.
Nine years in, you already know the anniversary gift doesn’t need to be flashy. It just needs to feel like it was picked, not stumbled across. This necklace works because it’s timeless and personal without being precious — the fine jewelry equivalent of knowing exactly how she takes her coffee. Which, frankly, is way hotter than anything heart-shaped.
45 Second Omelet Maker
Made of actual pottery and microwave-safe to boot, this handmade clay omelet maker cooks breakfast in 45 seconds — which is roughly how long it takes to convince yourself you don’t *need* another coffee before 9am.
There’s something deeply satisfying (and, frankly, wildly efficient) about cracking a couple of eggs into a ceramic pod, tossing in cheese or whatever’s wilting in the fridge, and zapping it into a proper breakfast in under a minute. No pans to scrub, no stove to man, and minimal effort involved — which feels like an appropriate metaphor for year nine of marriage: work smarter, not harder.
It’s a practical, pottery-based gift that’s oddly romantic in its own way. You’re saying, “I love you, and I want you to eat something besides toast with regrets on weekday mornings.” It’s one small win for his breakfast routine, and one giant skip over the grim purgatory of scrambled egg cleanup. Happy anniversary, kitchen hero.
Bohemian Porcelain Dinnerware Set
Porcelain with a boho soul — yep, somehow they made that combo work. This dinnerware set blends fine translucent porcelain with a laid-back, hand-painted pattern that wouldn’t look out of place at a vintage market or under a canopy of string lights. If your ninth anniversary is feeling like a good time to retire the random Ikea plates and lean into “grown-up bohemian” as your couple aesthetic, here’s your cue.
It’s not just pretty — it’s durable enough for daily use, which means you can eat Tuesday-night tacos on them without feeling guilty. Consider this set the dinnerware version of your relationship: elegant, intentional, and still standing after years of unexpected spills. You’ve made it nine years — the least you deserve is plates that show up to the table with some personality.
Handmade Geode Cactus Wall Hanging
The ceramic cactus is cracked open to reveal a shimmering geode center — a surprise twist that’s part desert art, part geology flex. It’s intentionally fractured, like that one time you both tried couples yoga and almost broke something (other than your dignity).
Made by hand, this wall hanging brings a little earth-tone drama without veering into kitschy Southwestern motel décor. It’s got texture, sparkle, and a weird little charm that makes people stare just long enough to say, “Wait, what is that?” And then they look again because — yeah, that’s a cactus, but also a crystal formation, but also pottery. You’re nine years into marriage; you appreciate layered things.
It’s a piece that’s technically art but doesn’t take itself too seriously — like your partner, who maybe still quotes movie lines at 7 AM but knows how to load the dishwasher *correctly*. For a 9th anniversary pottery gift, it hits that sweet spot between heartfelt and cool without leaning on clichés or shared calendars. Wall-worthy and marriage-level weird in the best way.
Kiln Altered Blue Porcelain Tea Set
The deep cobalt bloom on this porcelain tea set isn’t just glaze—it’s the result of being willingly warped by fire. Kiln-altered, in fact, which sounds dramatic because it is. No two pieces are shaped quite the same, and honestly, that’s the charm. It’s like a tea ceremony collided with an art installation, and now you get to sip from it daily.
This set is made from fine porcelain, which technically isn’t pottery (yes, we read the footnote too), but we’re going to let that slide when it looks this good. The smoothness of porcelain gives it an elegant finish, but the wild curves—thanks again, fire—keep it from feeling too precious. It’s earnest, imperfect, and obsessed with tea… kind of like a long-term relationship.
For a ninth anniversary, it nails the brief: handmade, meaningful, and built for two. You didn’t make it to nearly a decade with microwave mugs and mismatched saucers. Treat your mornings like the ongoing love story they are—ceremonial, weird, and somehow just right. No monogram required.
Personalized 50 Reasons Book
Custom illustrations of the two of you, right down to the hoodie he won’t stop wearing and your “this is fine” coffee mug. The Personalized 50 Reasons Book doesn’t just spell out why you love your partner — it narrates it, page by page, like the world’s most flattering comic strip.
You get to craft each reason (up to 50, in case the title wasn’t clear) and pair it with scene-stealing cartoon versions of yourselves. Yes, it’s corny. That’s the point. After nine years of inside jokes, shared playlists, and questionable IKEA builds, you’ve earned the right to be obnoxiously cute about it. Plus, it’s not another “Live, Laugh, Love” wall sign — this one actually says something *about you.*
This is the sort of gift they’ll keep forever, mostly because you made *very* sure to include that time they brought you tacos while you cried over a bad haircut. Sentimentality, with a punchline — just like real marriage.
Kyanite Black Geometric Mug
Matte black glaze, crisp geometry, and unapologetically angular lines — this mug doesn’t just hold coffee, it holds court. The faceted design feels like it belongs equally on a minimalist architect’s desk or in a moody pottery exhibit, and we mean that in the best way. It’s handmade, too, which gives it that rare combo of precise symmetry and subtle imperfection. Like your nine-year marriage: sharp, complex, deeply considered.
This isn’t some dainty cup you baby through hand-washing instructions and emotional fragility. It’s sturdy stoneware with a distinct “I know what I’m about” energy. The kind of gift that says, “I respect your caffeine rituals *and* your taste.” Perfect for your partner who owns more than one black turtleneck and has opinions about pour-over ratios — or just likes their morning routine to come with a little edge. A solid nod to the traditional pottery anniversary theme, no floral motifs required.
Lace Pedestal Jewelry Stand
The pedestal stand is made of glazed stoneware and finished with a lace pattern that looks like it could’ve been pressed from your grandmother’s vintage tablecloth—in the best possible way. It’s pottery with a bit of drama. Equal parts heirloom charm and functional clutter-saver.
And yes, it’s technically a jewelry holder, but we all know it’s really a shrine to the everyday sparkle you’ve (almost) earned after nine years of marriage. Rings go in the center, earrings nestle along the edges, and if your partner happens to use it for their AirPods too, well—love is compromise.
For the couple who’s still figuring out whose side of the dresser is whose, this stand quietly announces, *mine (but lovingly so)*. A little elegant. A little ornamental. Entirely more satisfying than digging for a lost stud earring while late for dinner. It’s a sweet, striking upgrade to that “dish by the sink” situation—and a gift that, like your marriage, holds up beautifully over time.
Level 9 Anniversary Tee
Cotton-poly blend, classic fit, and a pixelated “LEVEL 9 UNLOCKED” design that looks like it stepped right out of your husband’s Xbox dreams. This is the anniversary shirt for the guy who treats marriage like a co-op campaign — and somehow still has full health.
It’s cheeky without being cringey, and the kind of wearable in-joke he’ll actually enjoy throwing on. Less “matching couple awkwardness” and more “I beat the boss and got a commemorative tee.” The vintage-style print adds that perfectly nerdy charm without going full Comic Con cosplay (unless that’s your thing — no judgment).
Nine years is no cakewalk, but you two clearly make a solid team. This shirt winks at that fact — a level-up you’ve both earned. Bonus: It’s soft and machine-washable, just like all the best relationships.
Minimalist Ceramic Heart Vases
Matte off-white ceramic and just enough intentional imperfection—these minimalist heart vases prove that subtlety still has game. Each one’s shaped like a heart but flattened slightly, as if even the pottery knew not to make a fuss. They’re small (think single-stem or dried sprig scale), which makes them wildly low-maintenance and borderline adorable, in a clean, adult way—like if your love life was curated by a Scandinavian florist.
You’re married now. You’ve already done the grand gestures, the chaotic bouquets, the surprise vacations that required mild logistical meltdowns. These vases aren’t competing with any of that. They’re a quiet reminder—set on a shelf, a windowsill, or the bedside table—that some things, like your relationship, look simple from the outside but carry a whole lot of heart. Pun accidental, but accurate. For a 9th anniversary pottery gift, they do the job beautifully without trying too hard. Frankly, they’re cooler than most couples after nine years. No shade.
Mr & Mrs Full Moon Lamp
The moon is 5.9 inches across and comes engraved with “Mr & Mrs” — just in case you forgot who you married. This isn’t some generic glowing orb pretending to be sentimental. It’s a fully textured lunar replica with a warm, ambient glow and just the right amount of kitsch to be charming instead of cringe.
It charges via USB (because it’s marriage, not rocket science), and sits on its little wooden base like a trophy for not driving each other entirely insane over the past nine years. And no, you don’t have to leave it on one boring setting: it cycles through soft white and amber tones, aka “anniversary lighting.” Moody, but in a good way.
As a nod to both romance and outer space weirdness, this is the kind of gift that says, “We’ve orbited the same sun together nine times and still want to hang out.” Practical? No. Necessary? Also no. But meaningful? Somehow, totally. A little lunar drama for your nightstand never hurt anybody.
Paint Your Own Ceramic Jewelry Dish
The dish is already made — you just get to paint it. No need for a pottery wheel, a kiln, or a charming local artisan named Janice. This ceramic jewelry dish arrives pre-formed and ready for your color genius (or your partner’s, in this case). It’s a blank little canvas with curves in all the right places, designed to catch earrings, wedding rings, or that one rogue bobby pin that keeps escaping.
As far as 9th anniversary gifts go, it’s a playful wink to the traditional “pottery” theme without making you trudge through an actual pottery class. It’s hands-on, but not messy. Sentimental, but not saccharine. And once it’s painted, it becomes a piece that’s completely personal, which is a lot more romantic than one more store-bought trinket destined for a drawer.
Give it to your partner as a surprise creative date night, or paint it yourself and gift the finished product (preferably with a ring in it — no pressure). Either way, this dish is small, sweet, and surprisingly meaningful — kind of like your relationship, honestly.
Personalized Ceramic Cookie Jar
One gallon of classic ceramic heft, with your last name front and center like you’re starring in an old-fashioned bakery sitcom. This personalized cookie jar is equal parts wholesome nostalgia and subtle brag — you made it nine years without losing your mind or your sweet tooth. Both deserve a commemorative sugar vessel.
The jar is solid, white ceramic — not too fussy, not trying too hard — with clean lines and a sturdy lid that invites more than a few late-night raids. Your custom text (the family name, or something a little more sarcastic if that’s your brand) gives it that “we’re really doing this grown-up life thing” vibe without falling into catalog cheese. Given that the traditional 9th anniversary gift is pottery, this lands comfortably between thoughtful and actually useful — which, let’s face it, is a rare combination for any anniversary gift.
Call it the cookie jar of domestic achievement. It won’t solve your snack debates, but it might settle the “who forgot to buy more Oreos again” argument with a well-timed eye roll and a comforting clink of the lid. Which, honestly, is its own kind of romance nine years in.
Personalized Family Character Cookie Jar
The lid fits snug with a satisfying ceramic *clink*, and the real magic? Your entire family rendered in tiny cartoon characters across the front — haircut, glasses, pets, and all. This personalized cookie jar doesn’t just hold treats, it basically moonlights as a pottery portrait studio for your domestic chaos. Every name, every quirky hairstyle, right down to that suspiciously smug cat — it’s all baked in (figuratively, thankfully).
It’s the kind of gift that looks sweetly nostalgic on the outside, but delivers a quiet mic drop on the “we’ve built a life together” front. And sure, it’s technically a cookie jar — but it’s also a celebration of all those everyday moments you’ve somehow made into a family. For your ninth anniversary (aka Pottery: The Commemorative Edition), that feels ridiculously on-brand. Functional, meaningful, and just the right side of funny. Like the people who live in your house and keep raiding it for Oreos.
Personalized Solid Wood 9th Anniversary Plaque
Solid alder wood, laser-engraved with your names, your wedding date, and the exact number of days you’ve endured—sorry, *celebrated*—married life together. That’s 3,285 days, if you’re counting. (This plaque is. Religiously.)
This personalized 9th anniversary plaque is doing more than just sitting pretty on the wall. It’s quietly shouting, *“Hey, we made it nine years without one of us becoming a Dateline episode.”* The rustic wood means it’s got that ‘heirloom without trying too hard’ vibe, and the customization makes it undeniably yours. No generic Target-home-deco energy here.
Perfect for the person who doesn’t need flowers (again) or another kitchen gadget “you’ll both use,” this is a solid—literally—reminder of how far you’ve come. And since you’re only one year away from the big 1-0, consider this your warm-up cheer. Stick it somewhere visible. You earned it.
Playful Ninth Anniversary Candle
This candle comes labeled “9 Years, Still Lit” — which is either a compliment, a wink, or a warning depending on who’s reading it. Either way, it’s giving flame emoji energy in a soy wax package.
The scent is a soft sandalwood and rose blend, which sounds elegant and romantic but is also the exact combination that says, “No, I didn’t forget our anniversary — I ordered this three days ago *on purpose.*” It’s a laugh-first gift, but one that still smells good and looks decent on the coffee table. So your spouse gets to chuckle, and you look cute *and* competent. Win-win.
This one’s for the couple who got through year nine with their sense of humor intact — maybe even sharpened. It’s cheeky, charming, and secretly kind of sentimental. Just like your marriage.
Stone Blue Enameled Tagine
The stone blue enamel on this tagine looks like something you’d spot in a design magazine and convince yourself costs twice as much. Spoiler: it doesn’t. The color reads like a Moroccan sky just before sunset — unexpectedly calming for something that’ll be bubbling with lamb, prunes, garlic, and celebratory spices in about twenty minutes.
It’s functional art — a tagine you can actually cook in, not just admire from across the room (though it also happens to do that job well). The conical lid isn’t some aesthetic whim — it’s designed to return condensation to the dish, keeping your food moist without babysitting. So yes, it will make your kitchen smell like you *actually know what you’re doing*. Bonus tip: minimal hands-on time = more time sipping wine while taking credit later.
As a ninth anniversary gift, it checks the pottery box and then some. It’s thoughtful without being cloying, stylish without being sterile, and wildly more romantic than another mug. Because nothing says “we’ve still got flavor” like a vessel literally built to simmer slowly and get better with time. Sound familiar?
To My Wife Keepsake Blanket
Super-soft microfiber and big enough to wrap her up burrito-style — this keepsake blanket doesn’t just talk about love, it physically demonstrates it. The message is printed right on the fabric in a mix of bold and script fonts, reading like a low-key romantic manifesto. Subtle? No. Effective? Also no — it hits like a sledgehammer to the feels, and that’s kind of the point.
Is it a bit cheesy? Absolutely. But so was your first date (in the best possible way). This is the kind of gift that gets used on the couch, folded at the end of the bed, and maybe sniffled into a little during those “what did we do to deserve each other?” moments. Practical enough to pass the usefulness test, sentimental enough to make her melt — which is basically anniversary gift gold. Or, in this case, blanket gold.
What is the Traditional 9th Wedding Anniversary Gift?
The traditional gift for your 9th anniversary is pottery. Such a good reminder that gorgeous things can come from simple beginnings. It also gives you a great excuse to pick up some seriously stylish homeware and kitchen accessories.
Now, if you want to be faithful to the traditional gift, be sure to keep an eye on the kind of crockery or other clay goodies you’re buying because some might actually be porcelain, which isn’t the same thing.
Porcelain uses a particular kind of clay and is treated a certain way so that when it’s finished, it’s translucent. Hold the ceramics you’re thinking of buying up to the light, if you can see it through the edges, you’re looking at porcelain. If you can’t, you’ve got some genuine pottery!
Modern Ninth Anniversary Gift
According to modern gift guides, the 9 year anniversary is for celebrating with leather goods. If that sounds like something that’s right up your alley, you could head along to our post about 3rd year anniversary gifts – it’s packed with leather gift ideas.
- Bird of paradise (aka Strelitzia spp.): The strong colour and dramatic shape of this lovely flower is a great way to express the joy your marriage gives you both. It also represents travel and adventure, which speaks to many more great journeys together ahead.
- Lapis Lazuli: This vibrant blue mineral is the traditional choice for the 9th anniversary gemstone. It’s often veined with hints of green and purple, giving it an extra special dimension. It was favoured by Pharoahs in ancient Egypt as a stone associated with truth, making it ideal for highlighting the honesty in your marriage!
Happy Anniversary!
Until next year (hint: it’s Tin), thanks for checking out our list of pottery anniversary gift ideas. Congratulations on your ninth anniversary and we wish you all the best in the years to come!
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