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After the Wedding Checklist: 16 Things To Do and When To Do Them

Does your to-do list conclude with the reception? Well, as much as I would love to tell you that it should, your obligations don’t end when the last guest walks out.

After the big day, there are still a few crucial tasks brides and grooms need to take care of, from settling up with vendors to writing heartfelt thank you notes.

Essential items, like formally changing your name (if you choose to do so), aren’t difficult to remember. But you won’t want to overlook any of the small things, such as freezing your wedding cake for your anniversary or preserving your wedding dress.

We suggest compiling your post-wedding checklist now, so you’ll remember to dot your I’s and cross your T’s after the “I do’s”!

Table Of Contents

Immediate To-Dos
Important Stuff
Fun Stuff
Post Wedding FAQ

Immediate To-Dos

Your guests will understand if your thank-you cards arrive a week or two late – newlyweds deserve to honeymoon, after all!

Unfortunately, your vendors aren’t likely to be as accommodating if you don’t return your rentals ASAP. Here’s a breakdown of everything you will need to complete immediately post-wedding.

Tip & Pay Your Vendors (ASAP)

This is a significant priority that you can’t overlook. Wedded bliss likely won’t be so blissful if you have collections calling. Be sure that you have fully paid your vendor expenses as soon as possible after your wedding.

This is especially true if you plan to go on your honeymoon and unplug from the rest of the world. Ensuring vendors have been appropriately tipped is essential too! Thankfully, most vendors require payment in full just before the event, but it doesn’t hurt to double-check.

If you are worried about this getting done between the wedding and the honeymoon, you can always put one of your parents or even the trusted maid of honor or best man in charge of handing out the checks while you jet off into the sunset.

Return Any Rentals (ASAP)

It can be challenging to keep track of what’s been rented, borrowed, and bought. Having a list can be helpful. If you have rented an item, it likely came with a due date for return. Before you take off to a tropical destination or settle into your new married life, be sure to return everything you’ve been loaned. This can include:

tuxedos
chairs
tablecloths and linens
centerpieces
décor

If you’ve borrowed the items from a friend or family, you probably have a bit more leeway. Again, enlisting a trusted friend or family member to help you with the returns is a tremendous help – especially if they are the same person who picked up the rentals in the first place!

Freeze Your Wedding Cake (1-2 days post-wedding)

Tradition says that couples should freeze the top tier of the wedding cake to enjoy it on their first anniversary. I wish I could have frozen the whole thing and enjoyed it every day for a year! But I digress.

If you want to take part in this tradition, expediency is critical. Decadent wedding cakes can spoil, and that delectable frosting will melt. Try to freeze the top tier of your cake as quickly as possible, but certainly within one to two days post-wedding. It’s a good idea to look up instructions on exactly how to freeze your confection if you want it to last a full 365 days and still taste delicious.

Send Thank You Cards (1-2 weeks post-wedding)

Hopefully, your guests understand that you two deserve some time as the new Mr. & Mrs. Nevertheless, sending thank you cards is expected and greatly appreciated. Within a few weeks of your ceremony, it’s a good idea to get your cards in the mail. Experts recommend having your cards posted three months after the wedding at the very latest.

While sending a virtual thank you is fine, we love beautiful stationery with a heartfelt message. Therefore, you’ll want to keep in mind how long it will take you to write, stuff, and address all your thank-yous when considering your to-do timeline.

Deposit Monetary Wedding Gifts (1-2 weeks post-wedding)

There isn’t a hard and fast deadline as to when you need to cash in, but to help move the rest of your post-wedding checklist along, you might not want to wait. You may need to buy those last few unpurchased wedding registry items!

Not to mention, some… older members of your family who still balance a physical checkbook may be waiting for you to cash the check, and may continue to send reminders until you do. (Not spoken from experience or anything…)

When you return from your honeymoon, it’s a good idea to head to the bank, usually around two weeks after the wedding. This to-do can be tricky, depending on who the checks are written to and whether or not you have already changed your name. If you need to wait to get your accounts in order, just carefully organize and store your gifts so nothing gets lost.

Important Stuff

Take a breath, but don’t fully relax – these items are important but not immediate. Still, failing to do them could cause quite a few problems, so don’t brush them aside!

Complete and Finalize Your Marriage License (3 – 4 weeks post-wedding)

This first one isn’t even your responsibility (woohoo!), but sadly, you’re not entirely off the hook. It is often the officiant’s job to take the completed marriage license to the county clerk after the ceremony. Most couples don’t have a problem with their officiant following through, but you can never be too careful.

You should receive a copy of your marriage license in the mail in a few weeks. Though, in some circumstances, you may need to pick it up in person. You’ll need these copies for changing your Social Security, insurance, and more. You can always get more in the future, but we recommend requesting three copies to start.

Begin the Name Change Process, if you desire (3-4 weeks post-wedding)

Many couples choose to change the bride’s last name. However, this isn’t the standard anymore! Some couples hyphenate their names, have the groom take the bride’s name, or choose to leave everything as is.

If you do decide to make any changes, you’ll need to go through a somewhat long and definitely dull process. There are companies, like newlynamed.com, that will do this for you (thank goodness!), or you can save the money and apply on your own. Unfortunately, changing your name isn’t as easy as filling out a form and sending it off.

You’ll need to apply at each government agency and company that uses your name for official purposes. That includes Social Security, your driver’s license, passport, bank accounts, insurance, and most likely your work. It can be beneficial to create a list of everywhere that uses your legal name before beginning the process.

Some places might allow you to mail in the forms, while others require you to appear in person. You’ll need a variety of documents, including those marriage certificate copies you should have gathered in the post-wedding list item before this!

This process can be a pain, but hopefully, you’ll only have to go through it once! Pro-tip: make sure your honeymoon tickets match your passport. Don’t change your passport until post-trip if you purchased your airline tickets and reservations with your maiden name.

just married couple looking at sunset on beach

Update Medical Insurance (1-2 months post-wedding)

If you and your spouse plan on using only one insurance plan, you’ll need to update it. It’s easier to make this change after all the name corrections have been taken care of.

For many insurance plans, you’ll have 30 days after your qualifying life event (marriage, in this case) to make any changes to your plan. If you are adding your new spouse to your plan, note that you will likely need to show a copy of the marriage certificate.

Along with updating your medical insurance, you might want to file your new insurance with your medical offices. Taking care of these things from the get-go can make future appointments much smoother.

Set Up a Joint Bank Account (1 – 2 months post-wedding)

You don’t have to share any more finances than you did pre-wedding. Yet, most couples like to have at minimum one shared account, typically a savings account. You will probably need to visit your bank with all your new documents to change financial accounts.

This is another step that is best completed after your name change. Additionally, you and your partner should plan on attending together. Most banks only allow a member to be added to an account with the account holder present.

Complete Minor Contact Changes (2 – 4 months)

Some of these you’ll discover long after your wedding. Because many changes aren’t urgent, you don’t need to fret too much. If you still have your mom as your emergency contact, consider updating it to reflect your partner. This applies to your work, doctor’s office, and even your gym. There’s something slightly delightful about updating all your information to “Mrs.” and making your primary next of kin your beloved spouse!

Also, if you didn’t live together pre-wedding and you’re moving into a new home after the “I do’s,” you should probably update your mailing address. This can be a bit tricky, as more places than you think are likely to have this address on file. However, it’s vital to receive bills and necessary documents, so don’t wait too long with this task.

Fun Stuff

Finally, on to the fun stuff! While this stuff is certainly more pleasant than many other tasks, it doesn’t make them less important. Primarily because time is of the essence for a few of these items.

Preserve Your Bouquet (ASAP)

Yes, you may only be drying flowers, but there is still no time to waste! Regardless of how you plan to preserve your bouquet, starting when your flowers are as fresh as possible is key. This will keep their colors brighter and prevent them from breaking.

One way to preserve your bouquet is with the age-old method of drying. You can hang your blooms upside down in a cool, dark, and dry place for about one to two weeks. After this, they should be thoroughly dried and able to be used as a décor arrangement or place them in a shadowbox. Or, you could DIY dry them in silicone beads. This helps draw out the water and leave your bouquet looking fresher, more vibrant, and less dry.

Some couples choose alternative methods of making their flowers into a keepsake. You could have a few petals or small blooms preserved in an acrylic piece of jewelry, press the flowers in a notebook, or have them professionally preserved by a company like keepsakefloral.com.

Preserve Your Wedding Dress (1 – 2 months post-wedding)

The sooner you can preserve your dress, the better. Many experts advise that you shouldn’t wait longer than six weeks. The key to successful preservation is preparation. Your gown needs to be cleaned first to rid it of all the makeup, sweat, and possibly spilled champagne accumulated on your big day. Then, it should either be immediately preserved or stored in a cool, dark, dry place until you’re ready.

There are online companies who you can send your dress for professional preservation. Or, you can order a kit and DIY your gown storage at home. Either method usually keeps your beautiful dress clean, dry, and safely tucked away until you are ready to enjoy it again (or let someone else enjoy it)!

Don’t forget your veil either. As treasured keepsakes, any accessories you want to hold onto should be professionally cleaned and preserved.

Create a Wedding Album (4 – 6 months post-wedding)

There are so many ways to create a wedding album these days! We highly suggest saving yourself hours of time and using a professional company. You can be as involved or hands-off as you desire.

Shutterfly, Mixbook, and Artifact Uprising offer various services that let you upload photos, design, decorate, and personalize your own wedding album (or let their experts do it for you!). You can keep it digital or have it printed when you’re done.

Even if this task takes you a bit of time to get around to, reliving your wedding day never gets old.

Return Duplicates and Clean Up Your Registry (4 – 6 months post-wedding)

Most retailers, thankfully, have a pretty long return window for gift returns. This means you shouldn’t have to worry too much about getting rid of all those duplicate wedding gifts. While you’re double-checking your receipts, consider taking a second look at your registry.

If any items you had your heart set on have been left, you might consider purchasing them yourself. Maybe using some of those wedding funds you deposited earlier!

Word to the wise: if you don’t think you’ll use an item, it is best to return it. Five years post-wedding, my husband and I discovered a great Kitchen Aid mixer that we had never used nor needed. Instead of buying a new mixer, we decided to give the found one a go. It had a terrible wobble due to a manufacturer’s error, much to our surprise. Needless to say, it was long out of warranty. I wish I would have more carefully gone through our gifts instead of packing them away after the wedding!

Leave Your Vendors Reviews (3 – 6 months post-wedding)

We love this thoughtful post-wedding checklist item. It’s a sweet way to share the love from your wedding day. If you have a vendor you were genuinely thankful for, consider leaving them a kind review on social media.

Alternatively, if you had a vendor you weren’t crazy about, you can always offer some criticism. Online reviews are how most of our population chooses who to do business with. If a terrible experience significantly impacted your wedding day, consider letting other brides know so they don’t make the same mistake.

Send Your Parents and In-Laws a Personal Gift (2 – 4 months post-wedding)

If your parents and in-laws are like the majority of moms and dads, they likely provided you with tons of help with the wedding. Whether they paid for a significant chunk or stayed up long hours making sure everything was perfect, a personalized gift is a great way to recognize their efforts.

A pretty yet practical gift is a great choice! We love personalized wine or whiskey glasses as well as customized cutting boards. Alternatively, you could treat them to a delicious gift basket or indulgent spa box to thank them for their love, support, and contributions.

Post Wedding FAQ

What should you do the day after your wedding?

We’ve tried to put a lot of helpful timelines in this article, but it can still be a bit overwhelming. The day after your wedding, take a deep breath and enjoy the sensation of waking up beside your new spouse!

Then, ensure you’ve checked off those “immediate” items. This usually includes paying and tipping your vendors, returning rentals, and not missing your flight for your honeymoon!

How do you get over the post-wedding blues?

If you find yourself having a hard time getting motivated to accomplish post-wedding to-do’s and feeling a little deflated, know that the post-wedding blues are a real thing. Sometimes we trade all that wedding stress for sadness, which can be a bit shocking. However, it can be normal to experience a low or letdown period after an extreme high, like the excitement of getting married.

If you think you have the post-wedding blues, let your spouse know. Talk to your friends and family if you feel comfortable, or reach out for professional help. Thinking about all the things you have to look forward to, like a new set of family members and small daily moments you get to share with your partner, can help you see the positive side again. Hopefully, you’ll shift away from wistful and back to blissful soon!

First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage…

Then comes a few post-wedding checklist items that will help ensure things get off to a smooth start. Thankfully, there aren’t many things that need to be done immediately after your wedding, though a handful of to-dos are more crucial than others.

If you can enlist friends or family members from your wedding party to help, it can make a big difference. Finding services that can perform specific tasks for you, like preserving your gown or changing your name, can also help relieve some stress.

You’ve accomplished a lot on your journey to the altar. Taking care of a few things afterward is like crossing the finish line!

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Wedding Party Roles: Who’s Who and What They Do in a Wedding Ceremony

Planning a wedding? Ready to pull your hair out trying to figure out what wedding roles you need to fill and who should occupy them?

You’re not alone. It’s definitely something that causes lots of brides and grooms anxiety, mainly because the social engineering of making such decisions is stressful. (For most of us, anyway.)

But that’s ok – we think once you understand exactly what the responsibilities are of each member of your wedding party, it’ll help you navigate the waters of filling those wedding roles.

That’s why we’ve put together this guide to wedding roles, responsibilities, and tips for how to choose wisely.

But first…

Do I Even Need A Wedding Party?

Thaaaaat all depends upon how big your shindig will be.

Suppose you’re hosting a cute micro wedding in the backyard or an intimate gathering at a small venue? In that case, you may not need ushers and attendants and whatnot.

You may have already decided to keep the wedding party short and sweet or avoid one altogether, and that’s A-Okay. The purpose of a wedding party is to assist and divide the many responsibilities that go into a sizable event, so if your event isn’t sizable, don’t worry about it.

Unless you want to, of course. In which case, read on.

Responsibilities For Everyone

Even though members of your wedding party will have responsibilities unique to their roles, there are some things that multiple individuals should chip in and help with.

These responsibilities often begin well before the big day and continue throughout the shindig until it’s time to take off those shoes that are killing you and go home.

Planning and Hosting

Members of the wedding party usually host pre-wedding parties like the engagement dinner, showers, bachelor and bachelorette parties, etc. But they should also be ready to help you find vendors, taste cake, handle invitations and RSVPs, pick out wedding décor, and much more.

It takes a village, people.

Attire Shopping

Traditionally, everyone in a wedding party wears coordinating stuff or special occasion attire that requires some shopping. Your wedding party should be prepared to get their own threads, either as a group (bridesmaids and groomsman, for instance) or solo.

Rehearsal

There may be some people in the wedding party who won’t need to come to the rehearsal, but if your ceremony is a planned presentation, most wedding party members need to practice their part for the ceremony.

Besides, there will likely be a rehearsal dinner afterward with beverages and dessert. Everyone loves beverages and dessert.

Pre-Ceremony Prep

No bride is an island. She’ll need her squad to help her get into the dress, do hair and makeup, bring her champagne, etc., all before she even thinks about walking down the aisle.

The groom may need help in this department, too. But let’s face it, the bride probably needs it more.

Also, let’s not forget the moral support and damage control.

Words of encouragement can go a long way for a nerve-wracked bride and/or groom. Chances are, they’ll both need that.

Unfortunately, things can (and often do) go askew on the wedding day. There aren’t enough chairs, the flower girl threw up on her dress – the possibilities are endless. Your wedding party are the perfect folks to recruit for putting out any fires that may arise. (Hopefully, that doesn’t include a literal fire.)

Pictures

Everyone in your wedding party should be ready for pictures. Whether it’s convening after the ceremony for official pics, or candid shots throughout the wedding prep, you’ll treasure those pictures forever. They’re an essential part of the experience.

Common Wedding Roles in Traditional Ceremonies

Let’s get to the question on everyone’s mind first, shall we?

Who Pays For The Wedding?

You’ll notice we haven’t assigned this very, very important responsibility to any one person/group here. That’s because times are a-changin’ and the bride’s parents don’t have to be held solely responsible for paying for the wedding anymore.

Now, if the bride’s parents want to stay traditional about it, fantastic. Problem solved.

Otherwise, it’s a good idea for the bride and groom to communicate with the appropriate persons (usually the parents) about the very *minor* detail of divvying up the bill. That includes any portion the bride and groom will pay, if applicable.

Bride and Groom Responsibilities

Some things aren’t suitable for anyone but the bride and groom to take care of. These shared responsibilities include:

Budget planning
Choosing a date and location
Meeting with and paying the officiant
Acquiring and paying for each other’s wedding bands
Writing vows
Choosing maid of honor/bridesmaids and best man/groomsmen
Choosing wedding party attire
Compiling a guest list
Sending thank-you notes after the wedding’s over (although you may be able to recruit help from friends and family for that one)

Traditionally, the groom is expected to make a speech right after the bride’s father at the reception, but it isn’t required.

Parent(s) of the Bride

Traditionally speaking, the bride’s parents are expected to send out engagement announcements and host the engagement party.

The bride’s parents host the wedding and wedding weekend activities such as brunches and gatherings for the guests.

They usually stay until the reception is over to say goodbye to guests and handle payments for any applicable extras like parking attendants, coat-check, entertainment, the bar, etc.

The bride’s mother is a great secondary contact for vendors, planners, and anyone else involved in the wedding operations. She also should play a key role in helping with any issues around gift and registry details. She’s a great point person for handling the floral decorations/arrangements, too.

She’s also involved in bridal gown shopping, arranging and attending dress fittings, and arranging the hair and makeup appointments for the bridal party.

At the wedding, she assists in preparing the bride for the ceremony. Sometimes the mother-of-the-bride will deliver a speech at the reception, but not always.

The bride’s father is expected to escort her to the ceremony and down the aisle. He’ll deliver a speech accompanied by a toast at the reception, too.

Both the bride and groom’s parents should help with the guest list, offer moral support, and pick up planning slack as needed. They’re are also responsible for choosing (and getting fitted for) the formalwear they’ll don for the wedding.

Parent(s) of the Groom

In addition to the responsibilities shared with the bride’s parents we listed above, the groom’s parents are traditionally expected to foot the bill for the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding.

If the families aren’t well acquainted yet, the groom’s parents are usually the first to reach out and organize a gathering for them to get to know each other.

If applicable, they coordinate with the bride’s parents about wedding expenses and travel arrangements and greet the guests upon their arrival at the ceremony.

Maid/Matron of Honor

Now here’s where wedding roles and their responsibilities can help you decide who to appoint if you’re having a hard time.

The maid of honor has lots of responsibilities and she can expect to be quite busy throughout the wedding planning and execution. If you’re on the fence about who your maid of honor should be, keep that in mind.

She must coordinate the activities involving the bridesmaids, including but not limited to organizing the bachelorette party, bridal shower, and dress shopping and fittings/fitting luncheon.

Good to know: The cost of bridal party activities is usually covered by the maid of honor and the bride’s mother. The bachelorette party is divided between the maid of honor and the bridesmaids.

She’s the ambassador assigned to communicate details with the groomsmen and best man about attire, scheduling, and anything else they’re involved in.

She’ll likely help choose wedding décor and decorate the venue. She’ll help pick the bridal party dresses and bridal accessories like a veil, hair accessories, jewelry, etc.

On the big day, the maid of honor will help make sure the bride has everything she needs to get ready. If the bride is dressing for the wedding at the venue, her maid of honor will accompany her there.

She’ll help the bride get into her dress, put on jewelry, organize the bridal party’s hair and makeup if a professional has been hired to help, and more.

During the ceremony, she arranges the bride’s veil and train, holds the bride’s bouquet at the altar, and is documented as the bride’s witness on the marriage license.

She’ll usually give a speech and organize the wedding party for pictures at the reception.

After the reception, she’s responsible for keeping any keepsakes safe, too. Examples include the guest book, bridal bouquet, and the dress if the bride changes after the reception.

After all of that, she breathes a heavy sigh of relief, then goes home and soaks in a hot bath with a bottle of champagne.

Bridesmaids

Bridesmaids help the maid of honor with planning duties for things like the bridal shower and bachelorette party (and help with the costs for those, too).

If possible, they go to the dress fittings and have a hand in helping the bride choose her dress.

A bridesmaid may also help with tasks like addressing and sending out invitations decorating the venue, and assisting guests at the event as needed.

Junior Bridesmaids

Junior bridesmaids usually fall between eight and sixteen years old. They can help with age-appropriate tasks if they’d like to, but it’s not expected. (No bachelorette party planning, but the bridal shower is a go.) They also get to wear super cute dresses. Bonus.

Flower Girl

The flower girl is usually under seven or eight years old and is tasked with walking ahead of the bride to scatter flower petals down the aisle. She should be included in the rehearsal to make sure she’s comfortable and up for the task. She should also be invited to the rehearsal dinner. (As we’re assuming her parents are bringing her, they should be invited too!)

Best Man

The best man’s roles are similar to the maid of honor’s, only he doesn’t have as many.

Of course, it’s his job to organize the bachelor party, but he’s also responsible for the other events associated with the groomsmen. He’ll help coordinate the groomsmen and the fathers of the bride/groom for the formalwear fitting. He’s also responsible for preparing the groom’s attire before the wedding.

Many best men take responsibility for confirming the honeymoon travel details before the wedding and making sure the toasts are arranged before the reception.

He orchestrates the groom’s travel to the wedding venue on the big day and ensures he has everything he needs to prepare. He’s documented as the groom’s witness on the marriage license, and he makes sure the bride’s ring gets there safe and sound.

At the reception, he’s responsible for making a speech and raising a toast to the happy couple.

If the bride and groom are exiting the wedding via a “getaway car,” the groom makes sure it’s decorated and the couple’s luggage is ready to go.

Finally, after the wedding, he makes sure any rented formalwear is returned.

Groomsmen (Ushers)

Before the wedding, groomsmen mainly help with the bachelor party and formalwear fitting, and that’s about it. Unless they want to do more, in which case the groom probably won’t say no.

The groomsmen should get to the wedding early to greet and seat guests. They should also stay throughout the reception to help guests find their way to the bathroom, coat-check, the open bar, etc.

Junior Groomsmen

Junior groomsmen are usually around eight to sixteen years old and help with ushering duties on the wedding day as needed.

Ring Bearer (Page Boy)

The ring bearer is usually seven years of age or younger and follows the couple down the aisle carrying the rings, traditionally on a pillow. He presents the rings to the maid of honor and the best man to give to the bride and groom when they exchange vows.

The ring bearer should come to the rehearsal, as he plays a part in the procession. He’s also included in the rehearsal dinner along with his ride. (Usually his parents.)

Reader

The reader stands before the wedding congregation and reads any meaningful passages, poems, or religious texts selected for the ceremony. Usually, the couple chooses the material, but sometimes the reader selects what to read.

Guest Book and Wedding Program Attendants

Guest book and wedding program attendants greet the guests as they get to the ceremony and ensure everyone receives a program. They’re in charge of the guest book, the wedding favors table, and managing the gifts table as well.

They also assist with any guests’ questions and point the way to the restrooms, coat-check, smoking areas, etc., throughout the ceremony and reception.

The attendants should be among the first to get to the venue to ensure everything is set up and ready to go when the guests arrive.

Officiant

The wedding officiant works with the couple before the wedding to prepare any vows and other materials needed for the ceremony. They’re responsible for leading the ceremony, including leading prayers if it’s a religious ceremony.

Most importantly, the officiant is charged with making the wedding legally official according to the state’s marriage laws. You know, so you’re legally married and stuff.

What Are The Roles In A Religious Wedding Party?

So many religions have rich traditions regarding wedding roles and what they symbolize. Here are a few roles you may already know and some you may not.

Shushavim

While some modern Jewish weddings feature a bride and groom’s party, traditional Jewish weddings usually don’t. Instead, a close friend and/or family member act as shushavim to assist and support the couple on their wedding day.

(C)Huppah Carriers

A chuppah (also known as a huppah) is a canopy sheltering the couple as they exchange their marriage vows. It can be made with a simple silk cloth, a prayer shawl, a tapestry, or any other material the couple wishes. As long as it’s supported by four poles carried by four male friends or relatives (the chuppah carriers) to represent the community’s support.

Marriage under the chuppah (translated from Hebrew as “canopy”) serves more than a ceremonial purpose – it also confirms the legality of the union.

Hattabin

In traditional Muslim unions, a groom selects a Hattabin to act as a best man of sorts. He helps the groom prepare for the wedding and assists with any planning needs.

Koumbaro/Koumbara

Eastern Orthodox wedding roles include a Koumbaro (male) or Koumbara (female) to help out with the wedding ceremony and reception. They are usually a close friend/family member of the groom.

Candle Lighter

In some Christian weddings, the marriage altar is lined with taper candles used to symbolize the union during the ceremony. Candle lighters are friends or family members chosen to light the candles prior to the beginning of the ceremony. Candle lighters are children usually between nine and 12 years old.

FAQ About Wedding Party Roles

How far in advance should I ask someone to be in my wedding?

It’s recommended to ask eight months to a year in advance. That will give your wedding party plenty of time to prepare.

What are wedding attendants?

A wedding attendant is a blanket term for members of the wedding party charged with assisting the couple. The maid of honor and best man are referred to as “attendants of honor.”

Who are the hosts at a wedding?

The bride’s parents usually act as the official hosts of the wedding. They’re responsible for greeting the guests, taking care of any vendor needs, providing assistance to the guests as needed, and staying until the last guests have left.

How many people are normally in a wedding party?

That depends upon the size of the wedding, but it’s important to consider just how long a ceremony can drag on when a ton of people have to walk down the aisle before the bride.

It’s also harder to wrangle a large wedding party together when it’s time to take pictures, assemble for the rehearsal, coordinate responsibilities for pre-wedding events, etc.

All that’s to say, in addition to the parents, flower girl, ring bearer, and other roles, five or so in the groom’s party and the same in the bridal party is a healthy number.

Can I have two maids/matrons of honor?

Sure! If you have a sister and a bestie you just can’t choose between, there’s no reason you should have to. Also, the more hands to help out, the merrier.

Big Roles for the Big Day

You may only have a few roles to fill for your wedding, or you may go all out and fill every position there is. No matter what you decide, we hope we’ve shed some light on what’s traditionally expected from each wedding party member.

The members of your wedding party will contribute to your big day in more ways than just providing logistical help. They’ll save your sanity, make you laugh when you feel like crying, and shed tears of joy with you when it’s time to say “I do.”

That role is well worth all the responsibility that comes with it.

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14 Best Dress Shirts For Men in 2022: From Low-Key to Luxury

Zoom calls in your underwear were great while they lasted, gentlemen.

But as more businesses open back up, many of us are digging through the closet…only to find that our pre-Covid dress shirts don’t fit anymore.

Now, we’re glass-half-full kinds of people around here. We say, if that dress shirt for work doesn’t fit anymore, it’s a great excuse to get a new one!

We’re on a quest to help you find some dress shirts for men to herald your return to the office like a boss (even if you aren’t the boss).

We’ll also throw some info your way about picking a men’s dress shirt and introduce you to some men’s dress shirt brands we consider to be top drawer.

Note: When we picked the shirts for this post, we imagined the average guy with an average paycheck. (So we basically picked for ourselves.) A couple of luxury brands are included, but most we featured here are accessible and affordable.

Know Your Duds: A Quick Cheat Sheet Guide To Men’s Dress Shirts

Collar Styles

Button-Down
Pinned
Straight
Club
Spread
Cutaway
Mandarin
Wing
Tuxedo

Cuff Styles

French Cuff
Square Cuff
Large Rounded
Barrel Cuff
Turnback
One, Two, and Three Button
One and Two Button Cut
Envelope Cut
Italian Cut

Fit

Nothing beats a well-fitted shirt, but often, your average guy doesn’t quite know how that’s supposed to work. At least not until they’ve been around the proverbial block or two.

The best place to start is with a tailor. If a tailor isn’t in the cards, recruit an associate at the retail store where you shop. If that doesn’t work either, consult this sizing guide to learn how to measure yourself and your shirts accordingly.

How Do Dress Shirt Sizes Work?

When you see the two numbers listed on packaged dress shirts at the department store or your local TJ Maxx, you may be tempted to chuck the shirt in place of the S, M, L, XL variety. That’s not necessary.

The first number indicates the neck size, and the second is the sleeve length. Easy, right? (Only if you know your measurements, so get on that.)

If you’d like to translate those numerical measurements into letters, here’s a number-to-letter size translator from The Tie Bar. (Who happen to be on our list because they’re a brand that knows what’s up in the men’s dress shirt department.)

How A Dress Shirt Should Fit

Neck: If a shirt fits correctly, you should be able to fit two fingers under the collar after it’s buttoned.

Shoulders: The seam at the shoulders should hit as close to your shoulders as possible. The stitching will sag past the shoulders if the shirt is too large. If it’s too small, it’ll crunch up toward your neck and feel tight in the armpits.

Armhole: If the armholes of your shirt don’t fit correctly, chances are, the rest of the shirt won’t either. If they fit too loosely, the rest of your shirt will likely bag. Too tight, and you won’t be able to lift and rotate your arms without pulling the rest of the shirt. The armhole should provide you plenty of room to move without sagging too low under the armpit.

Sleeves: A well-fitted shirt will feature a sleeve that tapers to the cuff without ballooning. When buttoned, the cuff should hit the thumb’s base with your arms at your sides.

Chest: If a shirt fits correctly, you should be able to cross your arms in front of you without the shirt stretching across your upper back too tightly. Similarly, you should be able to extend your arms behind your back without pulling on the buttons across your chest so much that they gap. The Hulk is incredible and all, but you’ve seen what he does to his shirts – that can get expensive. Not to mention embarrassing.

Waist: A correctly fitted men’s dress shirt should stay trim all the way to the waistline. If the shirt is baggy when you tuck it in, it’s too large. If it pulls and gaps at the buttons, it’s too small.

Length: Ideally, a well-fitted shirt should be long enough to stay tucked when you lift your arms over your head but rest at the hip when untucked.

Types of Fit

Typically, dress shirts come in three fits:

Classic: Less tapered at the waist and sleeves, broader across the shoulders.

Slim: Tapered at the waist, trimmer across the chest, shoulders, and arms.

Regular: Still broad at the shoulders and less tapered in the waist, but trimmer than a classic fit.

Weave and Fabric

There are a few standard dress shirt fabrics, but cotton is the overwhelming choice for function and quality.

That said, what weave you choose is ultimately a matter of taste, but there are some guidelines about how to pick appropriately.

Poplin/Broadcloth Weave

Smooth, crisp, and lightweight, poplin (also known as broadcloth) is the fabric of choice for more formal shirts.

Oxford Weave

Oxford is rougher than other shirt fabrics. It stands up to frequent wear and tear and is an excellent choice for more casual shirts.

Pinpoint Weave

With a weave somewhere in between poplin and Oxford, a pinpoint shirt is made for flexibility. It’s at home both in the office and on casual occasions where a button-up collared shirt is the order of the day.

Twill Weave

Twill shirts are appropriate for both dress and casual occasions. While twill is soft, easy to iron, and relatively wrinkle-proof, it isn’t as crisp as poplin or pinpoint. Because of the weave pattern (such as houndstooth), it’s a bit harder to clean, too.

What Is Shirt Thread Count?

A shirt’s thread count is basically the number of woven threads in one square inch of fabric. Typically, men’s dress shirts feature a thread count between 50-200.

The higher the thread count, the better the quality. You’ll notice a correlating price difference, but it’s always worth it to pay a bit more for a shirt with a higher thread count.

What Does Ply Mean?

Most dress shirts come in one or two-ply fabrics. One-ply shirts are woven with one thread, while two-ply shirts are woven with two threads twisted around each other for more softness and durability.

Color

What go-to dress shirt colors should be in my closet?

This is a matter of taste as well, but unless you’re the most fashion-forward guy in the room and know how to rock a purple dress shirt, it’s better to keep it simple.

Most men’s fashion designers recommend keeping plenty of white and light blue shirts on hand because they look great with any suit color. If you’d like to branch out, very fine pinstripes or pale pink looks great, too.

For best results, the dress shirt should be a lighter color than your suit and provide plenty of contrast with the suit jacket and tie.

Where do the white collars and cuffs come from?

We’re glad you asked.

That, my friends, is called a Winchester shirt and was named for Oliver Winchester. While you may recognize the name more for guns than fine men’s dress shirts, he actually got his start as a clothing manufacturer.

By definition, a Winchester shirt is colored and/or patterned with cuffs and a collar in a contrasting color. (Usually white.)

The shirts were inspired by the detachable collars and cuffs of the Victorian era and are usually meant to be worn on formal occasions and as dressier office attire.

How To Recognize A Quality Men’s Dress Shirt

Collar Construction

A quality collar has a top layer, a middle layer that keeps the collar rigid (often called an interlining), and a bottom layer.

The layers are carefully stitched together and smooth flat when ironed in a quality shirt.

Cheaper shirts generally feature “fused” collars where all three layers are glued and pressed together (kind of like an iron-on patch) before a single pass with the sewing machine. Fused collars often bubble when ironed, and unsurprisingly, don’t hold up well with washing and wear.

Stitching

A well-made shirt will feature a high stitch per inch count and straight seams. To determine the quality of a shirt’s stitching, turn it inside out. The stitching on the inside should look as tight as it does outside.

The buttons and buttonholes should be firmly and cleanly stitched, as well.

Buttons

Plastic buttons are the most common type found on mass-produced shirts. If you can swing it, look for shirts with mother of pearl buttons. They hold up much longer and don’t melt under a hot iron like plastic buttons sometimes do.

Fabric

Many shirts are made from a poly/cotton blend, but 100% premium cotton is always best.

Button Holes

Buttonholes should be cleanly and firmly stitched, and perfectly fitted to the size of the buttons.

Fit

If a tailor-made shirt isn’t in the cards for you, find a dress shirt that fits as closely as possible to the guide we outlined above. A quality shirt should fit consistently and proportionately.

Flat Felled Seams

Turn the shirt inside out and look at how the seams are secured. If they aren’t stitched with the edge secured between a folded piece of fabric then stitched down together, you’re looking at a lower quality shirt. (A flat felled seam is the seam used to make denim jeans.)

Hand Sewn Cuffs

Just as with the collar, the cuffs of a well-made shirt feature three layers. Some shirts fuse those layers together and sew them all in one pass. In better-quality shirts, they’re hand sewn.

How To Properly Care For A Dress Shirt

How do I wash a dress shirt?

Dry cleaning is nice, but it can actually be a pretty rough process on your shirts. If you’d like someone else to handle your shirts, ask them to wash and press them instead.

If you don’t have the disposable income to pay for someone else to wash and iron your shirts, you can do it yourself at home with a few guidelines.

First, pre-treat any stains with a mild detergent. Unbutton all the buttons (cuffs too), remove the collar stays, and wash warm on the delicate cycle for white and light colors and delicate cold for darker colors.

It’s best to hang your shirts or dry them flat, but most dryers these days have a low setting gentle enough to dry a dress shirt. Iron with a warm iron.

Wrinkle-free shirts are a little lower maintenance when it comes to washing, and of course, don’t usually need a pass-through with the iron.

Hang your shirts with a padded or wooden hanger for best results between washes.

Men’s Dress Shirts Brands to Look For

For good quality and a great fit at an affordable price, look to our favorite men’s dress shirt brands.

1. Bonobos

bonobos jetsetter stretch light blue dress shirt — *Jetsetter Stretch Dress Shirt*

Bonobos began its clothing journey by perfecting the ubiquitous khaki pant and have branched out into all kinds of fine menswear since.

Their men’s dress shirt line has a great variety of style options, from crisp classic white to bold patterns. They’re also known to carry a broad range of sizes for every shape and stature.

If you like your shirts fitted with a bit of give for movement, this shirt manages to mix quality and comfort effortlessly. It’s made with a poly/cotton/lycra blend and comes in tailored and slim fits.

2. The Tie Bar

Unlike some of its competitors, The Tie Bar sticks to the basics regarding the dress shirts they offer. They also keep their prices low considering the quality of their shirts.

You won’t find a ton of variety of fabrics, but you will find three kinds of cuff and collar options to choose from, which is plenty for the average guy looking for work shirts. Also, their shirts are suuuper soft.

We really like this smart blue chambray shirt, and the semi-spread collar is versatile enough to fit whatever knot your tie can throw at it. It’s made from 100% cotton and comes in trim fit.

3. Nordstrom

blue nordstrom wrinkle free dress shirt — *Wrinkle-Free Solid Dress Shirt*

Of course Nordstrom offers a signature men’s dress shirt that makes anyone who wears it look like a million bucks. We probably don’t need to get into the intricacies of why their dress shirts are great – they’ve been around carrying luxury clothes forever. Just stroll into your nearest location and ask for directions to the men’s shop: you’ll see.

Not all wrinkle-free shirts are created equal, but this one ticks all the boxes. It features a curved hem, a pointed collar with removable stays, and 100% midweight cotton construction. Comes in classic fit with plenty of room through the chest, waist, and armholes.

4. J. Crew

Slim Bowery wrinkle-free stretch cotton shirt — *Bowery Wrinkle-Free Stretch Cotton*

Another well-known brand that’s been around forever, J. Crew can turn out a quality dress shirt as effortlessly as a knit sweater or Nordic hiking boots. Although we do have to say, we’re partial to their more casual dress shirts like the one we featured here.

Every guy should have a more relaxed, casual button-down shirt in their closet for less dressy occasions where you still have to look sharp. We think this one’s an excellent option with its buttoned collar and simple one-button cut cuff. It’s made from a cotton/elastane blend for a bit of stretch, too.

5. Luxury Brand: Turnbull & Asser

CLOUDY BLUE STRIPE COTTON REGULAR FIT MAYFAIR SHIRT — *Cloudy Blue Stripe Cotton Mayfair Shirt*

What can we say about Turnbull & Asser, except they make the sexiest, most masculine shirts ever? I guess we could mention that they carry a James Bond collection that will make you look like Sean Connery in his heyday. Oh, and they’re endorsed by British royalty.

If you happen to be in London, stop by their Bury street location and get fitted – they’ll create a custom shirt precisely for you.

It was hard to choose an example to show you from Turnbull & Asser because you’ll want every single shirt they make, so we decided to go with the classic of classics. This regular-fit shirt features the classic Turnbull & Asser style collar and three-button cuffs. It’s made from the most luxurious 100% cotton fabric, and the buttons are mother-of-pearl.

6. Brooks Brothers

Regent Regular-Fit Dress Shirt — *Regent Pinpoint English Collar*

Across the pond (with a more *ahem* reasonable price point), we have the iconic Brooks Brothers, creating luxury dress shirts for guys since 1818 from their flagship store in good old NY, NY. If you like your shirts crisp, smart, and with a side of heritage, Brooks Brothers has it.

This shirt has everything you need to take on the boardroom with moxie. It’s made from luxe cotton woven in Italy and features mother of pearl buttons, double-barrel two-button cuffs, and a sharp English spread collar. The shirt shown here is standard, but it’s available in regular and slim fits as well.

7. Land’s End

Supima Pinpoint Button Down Collar Dress Shirt — *Men’s Pattern No Iron Supima Button Down Collar*

Land’s End prides itself in creating comfortable, laid-back clothing with preppy flair – so it isn’t surprising that they make a dress shirt that fits that criteria. In addition, their dress shirts are made with 100% Supima cotton, making them stronger and softer while staying blissfully wrinkle-free.

We think the patterns available for this shirt look effortlessly classy. If you want a dressy yet semi-casual shirt with more personality than blue and white, this is it. It features a button-down collar and two-button cuffs in traditional, tailored, and slim fits.

8. Banana Republic

Slim Premium Poplin Dress Shirt — *Slim Fit Premium Poplin*

For many guys just starting out in the workplace, Banana Republic was where they went to find their first real dress shirts for work. Without mom’s help. It’s definitely a go-to place for quality, fashionable dress shirts that stand up to wear and tear like a pro. Their shirts may be a bit pricey compared to some, but they’re definitely worth it.

This slim-fit poplin shirt fits the bill for any work occasion in typical Banana Republic style. It’s made from 2-ply 100% cotton and sports a sharp spread collar.

9. Charles Tyrwhitt

Non-Iron Twill Shirt - White — *Non-Iron Twill French Cuff Shirt*

Another English clothier from Jerwyn Street (the mecca of fine menswear in London), Charles Tyrwhitt has the reputation to match their real estate. Some may not realize the tremendous value they’re getting when they order a Charles Tyrwhitt shirt, too. Look for their online sales, and you’ll see what we mean.

We did a serious whiplash-inducing double take when we saw the price of this luxe shirt. It’s made from 100% cotton twill and has a classic collar and square French cuffs. It even features brass collar stays. Honestly, you can’t get a better shirt with all the expensive bells and whistles for a price like that.

10. Everlane

*Slim Fit Japanese Oxford Uniform Shirt*

Everlane designs clothes with maximum style while staying classic. Their dress shirt collection is no different. We’d be remiss if we didn’t mention their 365-day satisfaction guarantee as well. If your shirt springs a leak (or pops a button, frays some edges, etc.), they’ll replace it.

We love this tailored shirt with a casual(ish) preppy twist! (In case you’re wondering, by the way, the “Japanese” moniker comes from the fabric made in Japan with 100% cotton yarn.) It has a button-down collar, back pleat with a hanging loop, and if you don’t love the blue and white pattern we picked, it comes in a few basic colors you’ll love.

11. Calvin Klein

Performance Herringbone French Cuff Dress Shirt — *Slim-Fit Non-Iron Herringbone French Cuffs*

Calvin Klein is a brand that consistently conjures visions of sophistication and style whenever you hear the name. Their men’s dress shirts are an excellent example of how they’ve managed to hang on to that reputation for so many years. Hip, stylish, and quality-made: all benchmarks for a great dress shirt.

Herringbone (or twill) is a beautiful fabric for dress shirts, and this one has the added bonus of low-maintenance laundering. It’s slim cut throughout for a sleek, modern silhouette and features French cuffs and spread collar.

12. Ralph Lauren

Slim Fit Poplin Shirt — *Slim-Fit Poplin Shirt*

You can find Ralph Lauren ready-to-wear clothing at department stores worldwide, and there’s a reason why they’re so universally popular. Their dress shirts are among the staple pieces celebrated for years. Besides, if it’s good enough for the US Olympic team, it’s good enough for us.

The ultimate in collegiate style, the trademark polo pony is ubiquitous among the young and upwardly mobile set. This slim-fit shirt features buttoned barrel cuffs, a button-down point collar, and box pleat for a perfect fit across the back and shoulders. Made from 100% cotton.

13. Eton

Continually pushing to make fantastic shirts even better, Eton has worked hard to make a dress shirt that’ll turn heads at the office. Eton has developed a process that organically treats its yarn to make it naturally wrinkle-free, unlike some other companies that treat the whole shirt with chemicals to achieve the same results.

This handsome shirt stands out from some of the others we’ve shared because of (among other things) the extreme cut-away collar perfectly designed for wider-knotted ties. We love the effortless cut of the cuffs, too. Made from low-maintenance wrinkle-free 100% cotton.

14. Todd Snyder

*Made in the USA Hamilton + Todd Snyder Dress Shirt*

A renowned designer of menswear, GQ called Todd Snyder “the man who taught men to love clothes.” One look at his clothing line, and more specifically, his line of dress shirts, and that accolade makes total sense. More affordable than some brands, a little less than others – they’re like the Goldilocks of dress shirts.

This shirt has it all: mother of pearl buttons, a hand-sewn moderate spread collar, and hand-sewn single-button cuffs. It’s also made from Egyptian cotton woven in Italy, then hand cut and sewn in the US. Not too shabby.

Look Out World

We hope we’ve helped you find the perfect shirt to make you feel good about emerging from the Covid cave of working from home. After all, a crisp dress shirt seems to make a man stand up straighter and stride through the day with confidence.

Look out, world – you’re bringin’ sexy back.

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32 Elopement Dresses: Escape to Wedded Bliss in Style!

Finding just the perfect dress for your elopement can be just as difficult as finding one for a big wedding. Even though you won’t have a bunch of guests to admire you, you still want to feel beautiful and confident. And you should!

Some brides dream of going out and trying on a million dresses to find the right one. But if you’re eloping, we’re guessing that isn’t quite your style. With an intimate wedding and a (usually) shorter timeline, you’ll want to be flexible in finding the best elopement wedding dress in time for your romantic escape.

Let this be your validation: you can totally shop for and buy an elopement dress online, and it can be amazing. There are so many high-quality options that can hit on the style that you’re looking for – and often at very reasonable prices.

From casual and flirty to elegant and memorable, check out our favorite elopement dresses. There’s something on this list for every bride!

What Type of Dress is Best for an Elopement?

There are a few things that you should consider when it comes to picking an elopement dress. Depending on location, venue, weather, if you want a traditional designer, and what your favorite style is, there is a huge variety of dresses from which you can choose.

If you are getting married in a warm or tropical situation, you may not want a full traditional dress. You could easily get overheated and sweaty, which is not what you want for your special day. The other problem you may have with a traditional dress is the timing. If you are planning on eloping quickly, you may not have time to order, receive and alter a designer wedding dress, or any gown that may need adjustments.

On the other hand, if your elopement ceremony will take place in a more temperate climate or if you have some more time, you could invest in a more traditional dress if that’s what you’ve always dreamed of. You could go with a classic look, lacy, modern style, jumpsuit, formal, mini dress, full skirt, separates, or something unconventional.

One of the best parts about an elopement is the freedom to plan every detail of your day, without having to consider the opinions of guests and extended family. This means that the wedding dress world is your oyster! You can choose from practically any dress cut out there, like a daring mermaid, a classic A-line, or even a modern two-piece. With elopement dresses, it is also helpful to be able to move easily, so consider lightweight fabrics and lace to move around better and stay cooler.

If you are planning on having a formal wedding or reception later, you may want to use the same dress or find a different one that’s more dance-floor-friendly. If taking pictures in your dress is important to you, you can do it the same day or later on at your large reception.

When it comes down to it, the final dress is your choice. You can pick whatever you want. An elopement is still a wedding, and you deserve to wear whatever you like. Fortunately, there are many, many options to choose from.

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Our Favorite Elopement Wedding Dresses

1. Two Piece Tea Length

by Cocomelody

For a memorable wedding outfit you can comfortably move around in, turn to Cocomelody. This unique tea-length two-piece is a beautiful option when you’d prefer something with pants. This outfit is light and airy but still looks like a wedding dress thanks to the stunning floral detailing and dreamy fabrics.

It is available in all ivory or a combination of ivory and nude for a different look that is reminiscent of modern wedding dress bodices.

2. Molinetti Tiered Maxi Dress

by Lulu’s

For a lovely and cost-effective option, check out this sleeveless dress featuring tiers of white floral lace. We love the plunging V-neckline and high-fitted waist over a stunning tiered maxi skirt. This wedding dress would look right at home in a natural venue, such as a garden or beach – and it would make a great reception dress after the fact.

You can buy it in white for a traditional wedding look, but it is also available in burgundy and navy blue if you would rather break from tradition.

3. Paneled Crepe Jumpsuit

by Net-A-Porter

This perfectly tailored daring neckline will certainly capture your groom’s attention at your elopement ceremony! Ideal for the modern bride, this crepe jumpsuit from Net-A-Porter almost resembles a formal wedding gown thanks to its unique silhouette. The form-fitting bodice extends down to wide-leg pants for a chic, clean design you’ll love.

4. Marina Gown

by BHLDN

This stunning bohemian style gown is inspired by French Regency design. The relaxed sleeves and flowing train lend themselves well to a wedding dress, while silk taffeta creates the perfect texture and look. Eye-catching cutouts along the puff sleeves, bodice, and hem complete the beautiful look. We can just imagine how gorgeous this gown will look in the wedding photos!

5. V-Neck Plus Size Wedding Dress

by David’s Bridal

This minimalist dress from David’s Bridal is more on the traditional side of things, with crisp satin fabric and a sweep train. The front is simple elegance, but the back brings in some detailed beading to make a stunning impression. This is the perfect dress for the bride who doesn’t want her wedding ensemble to outshine her!

6. Naya Mini Dress

by Watters

Elopements are meant to be fun! If you are hoping to shake things up with a shorter hemline, check out this modern mini dress from Watters. This little white dress is great if you are eloping in a warmer locale or want to make a statement. The simple, elegant silhouette makes it easy to dress up or down with the right accessories.

7. Sheath Column Knee Length Dress

by Cocomelody

If a mid-length wedding dress is more your style, you’ll love this lacy sheath option. The mixture of ivory embellishments, including flowers and nude fabric underneath creates an alluring, daring figure while the sleeve adds a touch of whimsy. You can also order this dress with the under-layer fabric in ivory also for a more subdued look.

8. Ivory One-Shoulder Midi

by Lulu’s

Ivory One-Shoulder Sleeveless Midi Dress

Does it get more “elopement” than a tailored bodycon?! This ivory, sleeveless midi dress features hidden side boning to add support. To make this dress even more nontraditional, you can also order it in red or lilac for a completely different look. Whatever shade you choose, you are sure to turn heads and create some wedding day memories with your new spouse in this one-shoulder midi!

9. Love in the Abstract Maxi Dress

by Modcloth

Going for a boho look? Just imagine how stunning this unique maxi dress would look in an outdoor setting – just you and your love and someone to officiate! This elopement dress is made from lightweight jacquard fabric with a cool pattern woven throughout. Although the dress is one connected piece in the back, the front cutout looks like a two-piece dress with a fitted waistline. How fun!

10. Ruffle Mini Dress

by David’s Bridal

Charmeuse Ruffle Mini Dress with Back Tie

How romantic is this ruffled sundress?! It has definite boho vibes with its flowy nature, balloon sleeves, tie back and ruffle accents. This dress is ideal for warm-weather weddings because of its mid-thigh length and low neckline. It presents a unique look for a more low-key elopement wedding.

11. Gigi Lace Crop Top

by Asos

For another lightweight option, check out this stunning lace mini dress that gives off all the wedding feels. The floral eyelash lace gives it a delicate, youthful look. The long sleeves and short skirt present a unique silhouette that will be sure to have your partner’s head turning.

12. Chelsea Gown

by Kennedy Blue

Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean you have to opt for a pared-down gown! This A-line wedding dress is ideal when you want something a bit more traditional and reminiscent of a ballgown wedding dress. It has a gorgeous train, beaded details, and it flows in all the right places. The leg slit in the front of the skirt draws the eye while an open back completes the modern look.

13. Sheath Floor Length Dress

by Cocomelody

Sheath Floor Length Knitted Fabric Wedding Dress

This stunning off-the-shoulder sheath dress is an elegant option for your elopement. The affordable gown is made of knitted fabric, creating a comfortable drape that hugs all the right places. It has a slimming silhouette that can flatter so many different body types, and we love the subtle knotted detailing on the neckline. Pretty appropriate to wear when you tie the knot! (So sorry. Couldn’t resist.)

14. Ivory Off-The-Shoulder Mini Dress

by Lulu’s

Looking to combine the off-the-shoulder feature with a shorter skirt? This ivory mini dress is drop-dead-gorgeous for brides who want to show off that hourglass. This option is also great for the bride on a budget who may be getting married in a warmer location. The fitted look and kick pleat on the back are certainly wedding day worthy.

15. V. Chapman Luna Dress

by BHLDN

For brides who aren’t afraid to bare their tummy, check out this midi silhouette from BHLDN. Take a break from plain white gowns with these delicate florals and off-white beading. The tummy cutout combined with the bow in the back offers a unique option that will be super cool and comfortable, no matter the weather.

16. Parks Sheath Dress

by Watters

When I came across this sheath dress by Watters, my jaw dropped. Nude underlayers are featured in many modern wedding gowns, but the addition of stunning Sidalee lace turns this dress into something unforgettable. Perfect for a waterfront wedding ceremony or destination nuptials, this elopement dress features a deep V-neck in the front and a matching plunge in the back for all-around appeal.

17. Butterfly Sleeve Boho Mini Dress

by Etsy: BLUSHFASHION

Boho brides must check out this mini dress with butterfly sleeves and a V-neckline front and back. The ivory lace is soft to the touch, which ensures that this dress will be not only beautiful but super comfortable as you marry the love of your life. This one is a great choice if you want to keep your elopement low-key.

18. Bella BG Jumpsuit

by Azazie

For the brides that would prefer pants over a skirt, you need to take a look at this amazing bridal outfit. This jumpsuit marries the elegance of a sweetheart neckline wedding dress bodice with the modern look and enviable comfort of a pleated crepe pant. This is what modern elopement dreams are made of!

19. A-Line Court Train Dress

by Cocomelody

Dancing the night away will be effortless in this gorgeous A-line dress. It has a V-neck bodice embellished with stunning sewn floral details. The lightweight tulle fabric of the dress and train will move along with you, creating an ethereal silhouette as glide down the aisle and, later, onto the dancefloor. This is another elopement dress that can double as a reception dress when you return from your travels!

20. Opal BG

by Azazie

In our humble opinions, elopement dresses should make a statement. They should be the perfect embodiment of what you as a bride want to wear on the most important day of your life.

With a square neckline, unique sleeves, and an incredible buttoned back, this elopement dress IS a statement. The stretch crepe dress features billowing balloon sleeves with fabric-covered buttons. From the back, additional buttons offer more interest, but there is a hidden zipper, so you can choose exactly how far you want the slit to go. It’s your day, after all!

21. Gilded Grace Lace Dress

by Modcloth

Breaking tradition doesn’t have to look like a jumpsuit or two-piece bridal outfit. A simple color shift to a romantic champagne tone can set a gown apart. This sweet dress from Modcloth is covered in lace and features layers of tulle to make a poofy skirt. Even though the skirt is on the shorter side, it also has a good amount of volume (for maximum twirling potential!).

22. Tassiah Jumpsuit

by BHLDN

For another interesting wedding jumpsuit, check out this matte satin option. It also has a bodice that looks just like the top of a ruffled neckline and sleeveless wedding dress. The wide pant legs add to the illusion of a dress. Plus, it has pockets!

23. Sequin Halter Mini Dress

by Asos

Even an elopement can turn into a party! For something a bit more flirty, this mini dress is adorned with sequins and has side splits. The halterneck style makes this dress perfect for a low-key wedding ceremony – and all the adventures that will come after.

24. Michael Lo Sordo Kora Gown

by BHLDN

This elegant gown is perfect for a destination wedding. It gives you everything you want in a traditional sheath wedding dress: a long and lean outline with gentle fitting throughout. The daring low-cut back and high leg slit also add some intrigue to this refined gown.

25. Cottagecore Wedding Dress

by Etsy: BelleAndKai

For a more casual look that’s ideal for outdoor ceremonies, take a gander at this gauzy lace maxi dress. The flowy fabric and short sleeves will keep you comfortable in alternative settings, while a bit of belly is revealed by the wrap top.

26. Off-The-Shoulder Mermaid Maxi

by Lulu’s

Tropical romance abounds with this destination elopement maxi dress! If you love the mermaid cut and the look of bridal lace, this gown is perfect for you. It features an off-the-shoulder top and stunning tiered skirt. The lace details and train are just gorgeous.

27. Daphne Gown

by BHLDN

If you’re not into white dresses, check out this beautiful gown’s floral stripe pattern. The dress design was inspired by Regency-era wallpaper and presents such a unique look for your wedding. The fabric was chosen to mimic the texture of the wallpaper as well. Romantic ruffles and a sweetheart neckline complete this unforgettable gown.

28. Sheath Column Knee Length

by Cocomelody

A wrapped sweetheart bodice? An oversized bow in the back? Say no more! If you’re into modern minimalism, this knee-length taffeta beauty should be on your list. I highly recommend adding the white boots to complete the look.

29. Liana BG

by Azazie

This tea-length A-line gown is one of the most romantic dresses out there. If you are looking for something that oozes fairytale romance, it’s this one. The bodice features gorgeous lace details, while the tulle skirt flares out beautifully when you spin. The buttons up the back add another pretty detail to complete the romantic look!

30. Sierra Satin Mini Dress

by BHLDN

For a sleek and silky look, this satin mini dress is ideal for your elopement. This mini gown has a plunging neckline and cutout back that wraps around the sides for added appeal. This sexy number might be just what you’re looking for for your elopement day.

31. Caledonia Dress

by Altar’d State

If you’re all about the details, this is the ideal gown for you. From gold stitching to floral embroidery, an open back, and plunging neckline, you’re likely to wear this gown long after the wedding bells ring! This gorgeous maxi dress even has adjustable straps for an ideal fit. We love that this dress has all of the interest without the traditional wedding gown stuffiness.

32. Pleated Maxi Dress

by H&M

If you’re not into super form-fitting dresses and want something a bit looser, check out this casual maxi gown. It features a metallic pattern on the pleated mesh that makes for a really cool look. Lined in satin with adjustable straps, this calf-length dress is super comfy for a laid-back ceremony.

Elopement Dress FAQ

What is elopement?

Even though the traditional concept of elopement is pretty secretive in that couples get married without their friends and family knowing, it has changed over time.

Now, it doesn’t always have to be a secret. Instead, the couple might choose to tell friends and family ahead of time. It could also be an intimate ceremony with just a few guests in place of a large ceremony. Elopement is what you make it!

What is an elopement dress?

Elopement dresses can really be whatever you want them to be. There are so many options out there that you can truly tailor your dress to whatever you want. This flexibility includes style. Everything goes, from ballgowns to mini dresses. If there is a difference between traditional wedding dresses and elopement dresses, it’s that you have many more choices.

How much should I spend on an elopement dress?

You can choose a simple dress, or something as extravagant as you like, so the price can really vary. This answer all depends on what you want. If you want something with a ton of beading and details, it will usually cost more. But in the end, you should get something that makes you happy. It is still your wedding, after all!

Does an elopement dress have to be white?

Nope! You can wear whatever color you want. You’re having a nontraditional wedding, so feel free to have a nontraditional dress. Even if you were having a large wedding, many brides still choose to change their dress or add in colors. I had a white dress for mine, but added dark blue accents to it to make it unique.

Wear What You Love

Even though you’re eloping or having a small wedding, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t get the dress of your dreams. The choices above really run the whole gambit of gown choices from simple to extravagant. You can add floral patterns or colors, or you can go with a traditional white.

Get the dress you want and build some beautiful memories of your elopement with your sweetheart!

Elopements

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18 Best 80th Birthday Gift Ideas for Your Favorite Octogenarian

If the perfect gift for the octogenarian in your life is obvious, consider yourself lucky! For the rest of us, these 80th birthday gift ideas should help.

Infinitely wise and experienced, eighty-year-olds have lived a lot of life. This can make it tricky to find the right gift to show them just how treasured they are. It’s a little like shopping for the person who already has everything. After all, they’ve probably accrued a lot of materials and memories throughout their eight decades.

Don’t be discouraged, though. With a bit of digging and creativity, you can find and even customize the perfect present to show the eighty-year-old in your life exactly how special they are!

80th Birthday Gift Ideas

1. 80th Birthday Birthstone Necklace

by Etsy: ILoveHoneyWillow

A thoughtful design truly sets this gorgeous birthstone necklace apart.

Eight intricate rings encircle her birthstone gem, signifying eight decades. You can choose various metal types and add personalization if you wish.

The surrounding rings beautifully convey unity, love, and strength, as well as your unique bond. It’s a great gift for your mom or grandma’s 80th birthday.

2. Decades Bracelet

by Etsy: AstraeaCo

This elegant decades bracelet is refined, just like the polished and classy lady who’s celebrating her eightieth birthday!

A simple gold chain holds one Swarovski crystal for each decade. In her birthstone color, these sparkling stones represent all the love, laughter, and memorable moments that have occurred over the last eight decades. Charming yet casual, she can wear it daily.

3. Memory Lane Book

by Etsy: FromLucyandCo

An outstanding work of art like this might take you years to put together. Or, you can add a few personalized touches and let this company do the rest!

We adore this thoughtful memory book that will take any octogenarian back in time. Add their name and personalized details, and the rest will be customized accordingly. Featuring moments in history, pop culture trivia, and more, this literary trip down memory lane will take them through all the extraordinary years of their life, from birth to now.

4. Coin Cufflinks

by Etsy: worldcoincufflinks

Your dad or grandpa likely has quite a few sets of cufflinks obtained over his eighty years on earth.

However, he probably won’t have a set like this! Rare and genuine 1942 USA dimes are set and polished into a pair of cufflinks. Finished with sterling silver, they would make an attractive statement piece on any suit or shirt.

If he’s turning eighty in 2022, these handsome accessories are an excellent birthday gift idea.

5. Throw Pillow or Custom Photo Pillow

80th Birthday Gift Throw Pillow — *by Etsy: LittleBeeHome*

Soft Cloud Large 24 Inch Photo Pillow — *by Minted*

At eighty years of age, they deserve to rest their old bones somewhere comfortable.

A sentimental throw pillow is just the thing! Offer them a cozy spot to relax with a touching reminder of how much their loved ones cherish them. Go for a fun floral pillow that reads “80 Years Loved,” or opt to create your own unique photo pillow featuring your favorite memory.

6. NYT Custom FrontPage Puzzle or Personalized Photo Puzzle

Did you know puzzles can encourage healthy brain stimulation in older folks?

This birthday present is a great way to look after their health and give them something fun to do! Better than your average dollar store puzzle, a custom puzzle is a great way to make them smile while recalling fond memories.

A custom New York Times Front Page puzzle will let them piece together memories from their birth year. Or, a personalized photo enables you to select a beloved memory of your choosing.

7. 80 Things We Love About You Print

by Etsy: OliverandcoDesign

Who wouldn’t love to display eighty reasons why they’re downright awesome?!

This sweet and sentimental artwork encapsulates everything you love most about your favorite octogenarian. Simply make a list, send it in, and receive a gorgeous digital download to print in a fun, bold font and any colors you want.

We love the versatile design of this wall art, making it effortless to hang anywhere. Such a great 80th birthday present for your loved one.

8. Personalized Photo Tea Light Lamp

by Etsy: BespokebyBethan

Photos are a dime a dozen these days. Not like in the 1940s, when taking pictures required a fully manual camera and a roll of sheet film!

Make something extraordinary with your most cherished photographs and create a personalized tea lamp. Four photos adorn the faces of a lovely tea lamp, glowing from within thanks to the LED light. You can customize it further by changing the photo color and the color of the tea-lamp frame.

9. Socks

by Etsy: PearlsCustomCreation

I don’t know about you, but my Grandma is cold a lot. Sometimes even wearing two pairs of socks!

Hopefully, she would choose these unique custom socks as her outer pair, letting everyone know just how much she is rocking old age! Believe it or not, my Grandma can school me any day in Cards Against Humanity – even at 80 years old.

10. Wine Bottle Labels or Beer Labels

Wine Bottle Label Stickers — *by Etsy: BigDotOfHappiness*

Personalized CHEERS & BEERS to 80 Years Printable — *by Etsy: JoJoMiMi*

Did you know turning 80 is like turning 27 in Celsius? This means it’s time to crack a bottle and celebrate like the twenty-something-year-olds!

Get her a bottle of her favorite wine, outfitted with these fun and cheerful wine bottle labels. Or, if they prefer a cold brew, opt for these cheers to 80 years beer labels.

11. Embroidered Toilet Paper

by Printed TP

Need a gift for the person who has everything? (Which is very likely at eighty years young.)

This embroidered toilet paper roll is sure to bring a laugh! It expresses the sentiment everyone is thinking, but no one is brave enough to say. Let the TP do the talking instead.

12. Trivia Playing Cards

by Flickback Media Inc.

Flickback 1942 Trivia Playing Cards: Great Birthday

We are swooning over these playing cards, and any 80 year old worth their salt will be too!

This high-quality 52 card deck of playing cards is obviously perfect for Gin Rummy or pinochle. But each card also features an illustrated trivia question about 1942! Test their knowledge about Carole Lombard and Joe DiMaggio.

It’s a fun way to spend some quality time with your mom, dad, or grandparent and take an interest in hearing about the “good ol’ days.”

13. Personalized Book

by The Book of Everyone

This personalized book is a delightful take on a photo album. It would also make a pretty unique card!

Enter their name and a few details, then sit back and watch as a book all about them is magically crafted! It’s bursting with fun facts about their birthdate and significant events throughout the years. You can customize it with personal memories and photographs to make it even more sentimental.

14. Candle

by Etsy: DearAvaGifts

Simple and sweet, this candle will be a touching reminder of a momentous occasion each time it is lit.

Made from hand-poured wax, this tall candle proudly displays a loving Happy Birthday message on its glass vessel. Choose from three heavenly scents, from floral to forest.

Once the candle has burned down, they can reuse the jar as a vase! It’s a gift that keeps on giving.

15. Sweatshirt for Him or Her

Fabulous Since 1941 Sweatshirt — *by Etsy: ByHandcraft*

Senior citizens are all about that cozy life, as they should be!

They’ll never want to take these comfortable sweatshirts off. There’s a version for him and a version for her. Each commemorates a very special (customizable) year: the year they graced the world with their presence, of course!

16. Engraved Whiskey Glasses or Wine Glasses

by HomeWetBar

ULTRA RARE BUCKMAN CUSTOM WHISKEY GLASSES

AGED TO PERFECTION PERSONALIZED WINE GLASSES

We can only hope we’re still raising a toast with our guys or gals when we’re eighty years old!

We recommend these engraved whiskey or wine glasses for the octogenarian who is still living life to its fullest. Each retro-inspired design can be customized with a year, a name, and a line of text. Give them a glass as rare as they are, and pair it with a vintage to match!

17. Flowers

by Bouqs

Whether you’re eight or eighty, flowers are always appreciated.

It’s no secret that we’re huge fans of Bouqs’ lovely flower arrangements. Choose by occasion, color, or even flower type. Each stunning arrangement arrives fresh and ready to brighten their day!

18. Card

by Etsy: MindBlowingStudio

It doesn’t matter if you need a card to go with the gift, or the card is the gift – it will still make them smile.

This cheery piece of stationary reminds them that they’re not old, they’re simply retro. Which is very “in” right now. In fact, even grey hair is a popular trend. Octogenarians definitely don’t have to worry about appearing dated – everyone is jealous of their classic style.

Vintage Is In!

Turning eighty is a huge accomplishment! While others may think eighty is old, we know better. Tell the octogenarian in your life how amazed you are at their ability to live eighty years and still be totally awesome with any one of these fun and thoughtful gifts.

There probably isn’t a lot they haven’t received over the years, but we’re willing to be some of these 80th birthday gifts will take the cake!

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The Ultimate List of Wedding Gown Designers [2023 Edition]

For many brides, it isn’t just about the look of their wedding gown. The designer behind the style can be just as important as the dress shape and detailing. Each designer brings something special to the table – or should we say, dress?

Knowing wedding gown designers’ go-to characteristics and common dress themes can truly help you narrow down your options when it comes to choosing a dress. If you want edgy, shop Reem Acra. Traditional? Check out Justin Alexander.

There are stalwarts of the industry like Vera Wang, whose daring dresses you could probably easily identify on any runway. And there are fresh new faces to the bridal world like Hayley Paige, who entered the bridal design stage at age 25 in 2011 and began giving us modern but playful pieces that we absolutely adore!

You could walk into a bridal store and spend fruitless hours trying on dress after dress in an attempt to pinpoint your style. Or, take a few moments to learn a little bit of (fun) knowledge about which designers offer dresses that embody your personality and give yourself a head start!

28 Wedding Gown Designers that Fit Your Bridal Style

To help you begin your designer-driven journey, we’ve created this ultimate list of wedding gown designers. Which of these big names in wedding fashion captures your dream bridal look?

Oh, and if you don’t care much for brand names, check our list of Best Online Wedding Dress Shops for some show-stopping affordable wedding gowns.

1. Pnina Tornai

All wedding gown boutiques are likely to have bridal collections by Pnina Tornai. She became widely recognized thanks to “Say Yes to the Dress” and is now a household name in shops across the world.

When you think of Pnina Tornai, think of crystals. Her couture gowns are synonymous with luxurious beading and fabrics, elegant silhouettes, and alluring features like illusion-boned bodices.

Her new affordable “P by Pnina” line starts around $2,500 while her custom gowns start upwards of $4,500.

If you’re looking for sparkle, there’s no better choice than Pnina Tornai.

2. Vera Wang

Vera Wang is an iconic designer whose stunning looks have been around since 1990. Year after year her gowns continue to wow brides with fresh and trendsetting designs. Often bold but never gaudy, a bridal gown by Vera Wang is sure to turn heads. We love how she embellishes classic silhouettes with gorgeous fabrics, stunning cuts, and pops of color.

Dresses often start close to $3,000 and the Luxe collection begins at $6,900.

If you’re a daring bride looking for an unforgettable dress, the fashions of Vera Wang will delight you.

3. Galia Lahav

Speaking of bold brides, Galia Lahav’s bridal couture dresses are the epitome of romantic haute couture. These glam gowns use fine beaded details, Italian silk, flowing tulle, and dramatic trains to make any bride a work of art on her wedding day.

Born in Russia, Galia comes from a family of seamstresses and it’s easy to see her passionate heritage at work in her awe-inspiring gowns. Made-to-order dresses start around $5,000 while custom gowns can cost up to $20,000.

If you want over-the-top couture elegance, Galia Lahav is a wonderful pick.

4. Anna Campbell

We love the vintage vibes of Anna Campbell gowns. Her stunning dress designs drip with romance. Old-world glamour is brought to life with delicate embellishments, ethereal, flowing fabrics, and classic silhouettes.

Lovely and feminine, you can find Anna Campbell gowns in the price range of $2,800 – $8,500.

Anna Campbell gowns are perfect for vintage or boho brides.

5. Lihi Hod

woman sniffing flowers while wearing lihi hod wedding dress

Lihi Hod brings together modern flair, classic silhouettes, and couture fashion to make exceptionally comfortable gowns. We love that a bride’s confidence and comfort are part of Lihi’s philosophy (as evidenced by the built-in body-shaping)! Often her dresses have lovely soft lines, a touch of beading, and a dash of lace for an elegant bohemian look. Prices range from $3,000 – $5,000.

Boho brides will love Lihi Hod, but so will any bride who wants both timeless beauty and comfort on her wedding day.

6. Justin Alexander

Justin Alexander has become a bridal favorite, offering gowns in a wide variety of styles. From classic silhouettes to timeless dresses with a modern flair, this designer has something for just about every bride.

What’s wonderful about Justin Alexander is that most dresses offer luxury embellishments, fabric, and style but at an affordable price point. Gowns range from $1,500 to almost $3,000.

If you are hoping to find a classic, elegant wedding dress without breaking the bank, Justin Alexander should be your go-to.

7. Grace Loves Lace

The brain behind Grace Loves Lace is Megan Ziems, an up-and-coming designer who has been shaking up the bridal industry since 2010. Her stunning gowns are handmade with exquisite attention to detail. They deviate from the traditional in that each one has a unique, boho, free-spirit sort of element. We love that they’re effortlessly elegant while being a comfortable, one-of-a-kind dream wedding dress.

Oh, and don’t forget they’re affordable, ranging from $650 to $2,500!

Brides searching for a luxurious dress that embodies their free spirit will love Grace Loves Lace.

8. Dana Harel

From timeless silhouettes to fashion-forward stunners, Dana’s handmade gowns have it all. The more contemporary designs are absolutely breathtaking with their unique patterns, fabrics, and jaw-dropping elements.

You can certainly go classic with Dana Harel but after seeing a few of her more modern collections you may be rethinking your style. There is literally something for everyone within her bridal collections! Prices start at just over $3,000.

For traditional brides or those wanting a bespoke gown that will have everyone talking, shop Dana Harel’s designs.

9. Maggie Sottero

We love that Maggie Sottero dresses offer such a wide range of romantic silhouettes. From sheath dresses to billowing ball gowns, it’s the focus on the form and shape that catches our eye. All of the dresses are fit for a fairytale – enchanting and full of lovely features like lace and subtle beading. Lace is perhaps the most incorporated embellishment on a Maggie Sottero stunner.

Gowns start at $1,200 to around $2,400.

Chic yet timeless, romantic Maggie Sottero dresses will make a bride feel like she’s living in a fairytale on her wedding day.

10. Willowby by Watters

From textured fabrics to alluring colors, Willowby by Watters is bohemian at its finest. Traditional whimsical elements like flowing bell sleeves are taken to luxury levels with lush colors and fine textiles.

These unconventional gowns will make sure all eyes are on you on your wedding day without being too high-fashion for the free-spirited, bohemian bride. Prices range from $1,250 to $2,750.

Unmistakably bohemian, the unconventional bride will love Willowby’s twist on timeless gowns.

11. Ines Di Santo

A gown by Ines Di Santo practically oozes glamorous couture. Swarovski crystals, French lace, and rich textiles like silk are handcrafted to make one-of-a-kind bridal gowns. All of these dresses are nothing short of luxurious and sophisticated, and we especially adore the breathtaking details.

Prices tend to fit the high-quality design and materials, ranging from $3,500 to $20,000.

Glamorous couture gowns that are unapologetically romantic – perfect for the bride who wants to splurge on her wedding day.

12. Jenny Yoo

Understated, simple elegance – that’s Jenny Yoo. These ethereal gowns are so versatile, ideal for everyone from the bohemian bride to the chic modern woman. Tulle, silk, chiffon, and lace give the flowing and lightweight gowns a look fit for a goddess. These lovely feminine gowns range from $1,100 to $2,500.

Ethereal, simple, and sweet, Jenny Yoo is a top pick for the understated bride.

13. LEIN

LEIN offers bespoke dresses that are effortless to wear both on and off your wedding day. These customizable gowns are hand-crafted in New York and reflect the designer’s passion for silhouettes and fabrics that make a bride both look and feel amazing while walking down the aisle. These non-traditional, edgy gowns tend to cost between $850 and $3,270.

For the fashion-forward bride who wants something different on her wedding day (and to wear again after her wedding!), view the collections at LEIN.

14. BHLDN

BHLDN designs have proved time and time again that they’re fantastic for beachy brides. Fit for a tropical destination, these sweet gowns are often breezy, chic, and pared-down for that effortless boho look.

They do have some more sophisticated options that feature striking cutouts and lovely chiffon folds, but overall they’re beloved by brides planning romantic outdoor ceremonies.

Starting prices are affordable at $995 and range up to $4500.

Boho, breezy, and fit for the beach, BHLDN is a wonderful choice for brides with a destination wedding.

15. Reem Acra

Reem Acra has been designing since 1997 and since that time her gowns have become renowned for their fabulous couture embellishments. This is especially true when it comes to her intricate embroideries. Reem’s pieces are edgy and statement-making, while also being romantic and dreamy. Dresses start at $4,000.

Excellent for bold brides who want to make a statement on their wedding day, Reem Acra gowns are simply unforgettable.

16. Oscar de la Renta

Oscar de la Renta is another stalwart of the wedding industry. In the spirit of the designer himself, the collection continues to boast beautifully embellished and decorated gowns with a few timeless silhouettes. From short and playful to feminine and elegant, his line offers a little something for everyone – for a price though. Bridal gowns average around $14,000.

From daring to demure, this classic bridal fashion house offers something for every type of bride.

17. Hermione de Paula

We are swooning over the nature-inspired, whimsical designs of Hermione de Paula. Her lovely gowns embody the beauty of the flora and fauna found all around us. Constructed from high-quality, luxurious materials these intricate fantasy gowns are perfectly dreamy. Prices range from $4,000 to just over $8,000.

Sweet and feminine but with a healthy dose of nature-inspired couture, whimsical brides will love the designs of Hermione de Paula.

18. Claire Pettibone

Claire Pettibone is known for her intricate, high-end bridal designs inspired by nature, architecture, and romantic gowns from past eras. Words commonly used to describe this couture designer are bohemian, vintage, ethereal, and delicate. Filled with beadwork, embroidery, and plenty of fine French lace, one of her gowns will cost you anywhere from $2,500 to over $10,000.

A lovely choice for the bride who would like a bohemian, vintage, or old-world glamour-inspired gown.

19. MillaNova

MillaNova, a European designer house led by Lorenzo Rossi, is known for gowns that are sophisticated and dare we say, sexy?

The exquisite gowns are always breathtaking thanks to their dramatic flair in both silhouette and embellishments. You can find classic silhouettes in stunning silk and more form-fitting modern gowns with dainty beading or lace. Wedding dresses from MillaNova start around $2,000.

Breathtaking and with an eye for the dramatic, MillaNova works for modern and traditional brides looking for a touch of elegance and flair.

20. Amsale

Amsale Aberra of Amsale was the master of minimalistic gowns that celebrate diverse silhouettes and forms. With crisp, clean-cut lines and luxury fabrics, Amsale wedding dresses are simple, though not understated. Their fresh use of appliques, lace, and beadwork makes these classic dresses feel modern. Her collection, now run by her daughter, husband, and team, ranges from $3,000 to $12,000.

Amsale excels in clean-cut, crisp, and elegant gowns for the modern bride.

21. Nordeen

Nordeen gowns are inspired by nature: simple, unexpectedly edgy, and beautiful. What’s even more lovely about this bridal brand is its commitment to sustainability. Long lines, simple silhouettes, and understated designs make up much of the collection.

We love the quiet strength and beauty represented in these dresses that range from $395 to $6000.

For eco-friendly brides who want a feminine chic gown that embodies the beauty of their outdoor wedding locale.

22. Atelier Emelia

Atelier Emelia has done the impossible, pairing comfort with haute couture. These gowns exude effortless Parisian fashion, with an eye to modern trends. Their dresses span a range of personal styles, from chic and contemporary to romantic and intricate. The fact that they believe your wedding dress should feel as comfortable as your favorite pair of jeans is also a huge plus!

Gown prices start around $2,000.

If you want Parisian fashion in an impossibly easy-to-love and easy-to-wear dress, shop Atelier Emelia.

23. Pantora

Pantora 2021 Journey Collection Wedding Dress

Pantora is contemporary, chic, and renowned for producing eye-popping dresses. This U.S.-based company loves to take traditional silhouettes and jazz them up with fun textiles, interesting embellishments, and eye-catching designs. Their fun, vibrant wedding dresses are ideal for brides who want to stand out on their wedding day – beyond just being the woman wearing white.

Gowns are priced between $3,000 and $4,000.

Lean towards Pantora if you’re a unique bride who wants to show off your personal style on your wedding day.

24. Hayley Paige

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In 2011, Hayley Paige brought her fresh and youthful designs to bridal fashion. Her gowns are playful, feminine, and just a bit edgy. She does an exceptional job at blending romantic glamor with modern fashion embellishments, especially when it comes to sparkly beading and voluptuous layers of fabrics.

Hayley Paige gowns start around $2,700 and range up to $6,000.

Hayley Paige gowns are perfect for contemporary brides who want a sweet and playful dress with a fun, modern twist.

25. Monique Lhuillier

Designer Monique Lhuillier is known for her celebrity gowns, designing wedding dresses for the likes of Reese Witherspoon and Britney Spears. Her star-worthy wedding creations are luxurious, feminine, and different than your run-of-the-mill dresses. Understated elements such as monochromatic floral patterns, flowy sleeves, and billow skirts that float down the aisle put a fun spin on traditional silhouettes. Many of Monique’s wedding dresses have a royal or regal feel.

Prices typically start around $3,000 but can exceed $55,000 for a completely custom creation.

Choose Monique Lhuillier if you’re dreamy of a flowing, feminine dress with fashion-forward touches.

26. Markarian

Markarian (Alexandra O’Neill’s luxury label) takes its name from an exceptionally bright grouping of galaxies, so it is no surprise that their ethereal wedding dress designs are just as radiant. These dresses truly seem to focus on the architectural look of the gown, playing with crisp lines, fitted bodice’s, and towers of ruffled organza. Brides can find everything from modern mini suits to more traditional A-line gowns, each with its own special touch of embellishment.

Markarian gowns cost between $2,000 and $6,000.

Markarian is perfect for brides who want an eye-catching gown that makes great use of form and fun embellishments.

27. Odylyne The Ceremony

Indie brides will rejoice when they stumble upon Odylyne The Ceremony. These breathtaking gowns are utterly romantic and indisputably Bohemian. They have a laidback feel but are far from looking understated with their large bell sleeves, fun patterns, and lush ruffles. Their mission is to leave ordinary behind when it comes to bridal, and their dreamy gowns do just that.

Odylyne The Ceremony dresses range between $3,500 and $6,000.

Shop Odylyne The Ceremony if you want a stand-out Bohemian dress that evokes feelings of romance and soft feminine elegance.

28. Sophie et Voilà

In 2016, Sofía Arribas and Saioa Goitia founded their Spanish bridal label, Sophie et Voilà. Their architectural background really comes through in their bold geometric gowns that perfectly blend strong forms and soft lines.

However, these statement-making gowns are minimalist instead of over the top. Think crisp lines and stiff pleats accented by ethereal ruffles. Sophie et Voilà gowns also incorporate recycled materials into their gowns as part of their sustainability promise. These wedding dresses range from $1,400 to $4,000.

Brides who want a minimalist, contemporary, and chic gown with an eco-friendly construction will adore Sophie et Voilà.

Wedding Gown Designer FAQ

When should I start wedding dress shopping?

It doesn’t hurt to start doing your research early, that way you’ll have a sense of your wedding style and what type of gown you’re looking for. Then, when you know your budget and have your shopping party, you can start browsing! Because wedding dresses can take months to make, ship, and alter, it’s a good idea to start looking 8 to 9 months before the date of your nuptials.

Who is the most popular wedding dress designer?

There is no easy answer to this question! Each designer is popular and renowned in their own right. Some, like Pnina Tornai, have become household names due to their appearance on television shows. Others, such as Reem Acra, are famous for being celebrity designers. There isn’t really one designer that holds the title of most popular.

How much does it cost to go through a wedding gown designer for my dress?

Prices can vary, but you usually will be looking at spending at least $2,000. Some designers, such as Atelier Emelia, offer small customizations instead of a complete “from scratch” design, which will likely cost you less.

Dazzling Designers for Every Type of Bride

Each wedding gown designer has something special to bring to your wedding gown. We love how many of them rely on classic silhouettes that brides love, but add their own unique twist when it comes to fabrics, embellishments, and fun characteristics.

Knowing your favorite designers will help you and your wedding dress shopping party narrow down which gown will be “the one” for you!

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34 Comfortable Wedding Shoes That Won’t Hurt Your Feet, Style, or Budget!

On your wedding day, there will likely be lots of love, laughter, dancing…and standing on your feet! The big day calls for a pair of shoes that are big on comfort and style – without blowing your budget.

Whether you’re looking for flats, sandals, heels, or something a little unorthodox, we’ve found the best comfortable wedding shoes that will help you look and feel fabulous.

After all, there’s probably a lot you want to do and see on your honeymoon, and sore feet from uncomfortable wedding shoes can really put a damper on things.

In this article, you will find 34 examples of comfortable wedding shoes – high and low heels, sandals and flats, wedges and boots…

At the bottom of this article, you can find all the online shops where we found these comfortable shoes, as well as some shops that are known to specialize in high quality bridal footwear.

So, without further ado…let’s go shopping!

Buying Considerations

Obviously, comfort is a top priority when considering what to look for in comfortable wedding shoes. However, just because you’re wearing kicks that feel as supportive and lovely as your grandma’s orthotics doesn’t mean they have to look like them! Pay attention to these details when browsing for wedding day footwear.

Match the setting to the shoe. If you’re going to be outdoors, check that your footwear can withstand the elements. Sand, soggy grass, and more can spell trouble for some shoe types.
Vibe check. If you have a high hemline that allows your footwear to be seen, make sure your shoes match your aesthetic and theme.
See that your heights coordinate. While a few brides can pull off any shoe with any dress length, we can’t all be that lucky. Some heel heights just work better with certain dress lengths, like kitten heels or wedges with a tea-length gown.
Protection is important. Even though your shoes are comfy, make sure they offer protection too. This is especially true of flat sandals that could allow your feet to come into contact with hot sand, mud, or painful pebbles.
Now, down to the dancing. If you want to get your boogie on, check that your shoes can do more than just get you down the aisle. If they can’t, consider buying a different pair for the ceremony.
Break those babies in! Break-in your shoes before attempting to wear them on your wedding day, even if they are the comfiest pair on the planet. Practice makes perfect.

Comfortable Wedding Sandals

1. Leather and Pearl Bridal Sandals

Simple leather straps adorned in a pattern of pearls make for a sophisticated but minimalist bridal shoe. Without a heel to contend with, your arches and ankles will be thanking you by the end of the night.

2. T-Strap Pearl Flat Sandals

These flat sandals are so feminine and cute! While their petite bows and delicate straps may be dainty, they’re big on comfort thanks to their smooth soles. Oh, and did we mention the soles are embellished with a tiny rhinestone border?!

3. Astrid Flat Sandal

Just a hint of a heel will keep you comfortable and stable on your wedding day. Lustrous straps in metallic leather are elegant and secure.

4. Imagine Barefoot Sandals

What could be more comfortable than walking down a soft sandy or grassy aisle barefoot? If your free-spirited style calls for no shoes, try out these illusion sandals made from gorgeous rhinestones and sparkling chains.

5. Dressy Sandals

These are like your favorite pair of slides, just dressier! We love their modern look, complete with matte white leather and a fun oversized bow.

6. Leather Low Heel Sandals

Low heeled sandals are the perfect compromise between comfort and the need for a little height. These chunky, block heels are particularly stable while being paired with fun knotted straps and an elegant, shiny finish.

Comfortable Wedding Flats

7. Crystal Embellished Pointed Flats

Flats can be a little juvenile if you’re not careful – but not these! This stunning pair of closed-toed shoes features a spray of crystals across their translucent sides and a refined pointed toe befitting a bride.

8. Ivory Lace Round-Toe Flats

It doesn’t get any more graceful and feminine than these lace ballet flats. Everything about them just oozes classic chic, from their pointed toe to their column of dazzling pearls along the heel.

9. Blue Bridal Ballet Flats

Still on the hunt for your “something blue”? Check it off the list with these chic bridal flats. An open design is complemented by the plush cushioned footbeds and soft suede for an unbelievably comfortable fit.

10. Baily Flat

Jimmy Choo certainly knows how to make flats look refined and elegant. We’re head over heels for their pointy-toe, pearl and rhinestone statement strap, and glittery color.

11. Crochet Lace Pointy-Toe Flats

Pointy-toe flats are so comfy, not only because they don’t have a heel, but also because they let your feet breathe. A touch of white lace makes these shoes wedding aisle worthy.

12. Mary Jane Flats

Mary Jane goes modern and minimalist courtesy of a pointed-toe, classic white leather, and a bold strap. You’ll feel confident and chic wearing these lovelies on your big day.

13. Floral Lace Wedding Flats

We are swooning for these breathtaking lace flats. An enchanting floral design features hints of blue with pops of pearls and beading on a delicate mesh upper. These bridal shoes are simply exquisite.

Comfortable Wedding Sneakers

14. Personalized Bridal Sneakers

A classic pick for the comfy bride, these converse-esque shoes can be outfitted with your future title, the word “bride”, or any other short phrase. You also have the option of choosing the text color and the design of the laces.

(P.S. Our editor and her wife both wore these on their wedding day! They both highly recommend.)

15. Bridal Triple Decker Pearl Foxing

Nobody can knock your choice to wear sneakers when they look this beautiful. Triple decker sols are the perfect canvas for a plethora of pearl studs.

16. Flower Wreath Vans Slip-Ons

Vans let you proudly display your punk-rock side under your wedding dress, while a floral wreath adds a touch of traditional bridal romanticism. Slip them on and you’ll be comfy and chic all day long.

17. Bright White Lace Low Top Converse

Something about the combination of the low top, the white lace, and the ribbon laces is so romantic! Modern and fun, this footwear choice would look fantastic with almost any wedding dress.

18. Glitter Keds

We adore Kate Spade, and their team-up with Keds is totally wedding-worthy. Who wouldn’t want to wear insanely comfy tennies covered in gold glitter with the most adorable ribbon laces?

Comfortable Wedding Low Heels/Stack Heels

19. Embellished Low Heel Crystal Wedding Shoe

“Comfortable shoes for brides” and “heels” usually don’t go hand in hand, but that isn’t the case with these shoes from BellaBelle! The most elegant kitten heel is partnered with a mesh pointed upper encrusted in crystals, all in a lovely champagne color.

20. Pointed Toe Satin Block Heel

Block heel for the wedding day win! Ideal for outdoor weddings or beach weddings, this sturdy but stunning heel will keep you stable. Plus, with a bedazzled delicate strap and a pointed toe, you really can’t go wrong.

21. Vintage Low Heel

The vintage flair of these heels is to die for! Its high heel support connects with the glamorous criss-cross straps that lead down to the lace-covered peep-toe. The memory-foam make these low heels a bridal dream come true!

(Note: these shoes are super popular! They’ve been in and out of stock lately, so be sure to check back often or reach out to the seller to see if you can snag a pair!)

22. Betsy Embroidered Kitten Heel

Are we the only ones getting Old Hollywood glamor vibes? We love the petite kitten heel, the scalloped lace pointed-toe, and the enchanting rhinestone ankle strap. They’re also quite versatile, working with all types of wedding dresses from edgy to classic.

23. SB-MARI Champagne Stack Heel

If you’re looking for glam and glitter, you can’t pass up these stack-heeled stunners. Positively covered in rhinestones, they take sparkly to a whole new level. Opt for classic champagne or make a statement with a fiery red.

24. Satin Block Heel Sandal

We love how refined and sophisticated these heels are – even though they’re technically sandals. A sturdy heel support panel pairs with a thin strap for comfortable yet breathable stability. In the front, the wide strap creates a lovely canvas for shimmering rhinestones crafted into an elegant pattern.

25. Knotted Bow Chic Heels

Chic and unique, these heels will have everyone talking. Their rounded heel design isn’t something you see every day. Neither is their pleated fabric covering that ends in a fun knotted bow.

26. The Editor Slingback Heel

The shoes of my 90s fashion dreams are back in style! Glamorous enough to grace the halls of fashion magazines (hence the name “the Editor”), the Italian leather construction and wide straps make for a comfortable, walkable shoe for your wedding day.

27. Peep-Toe Bow Heels

We cannot get over these insanely cute shoes. We’re swooning over their glimmering piping, peep-toe, and wrap-around heel support complete with a dainty bow. A true classic, they’re perfectly practical for a bride on her wedding day.

Comfortable Wedding Wedges, Boots, and More

28. Ivory Bridal Wedges

Wedges are a wonderful choice if you want a fancier sandal for your wedding look. This pair in particular is a step above your typical cork wedge, constructed from gorgeous white leather with dainty crisscrossing ankle straps to complement the bold peep-toe.

29. Minimalistic Cork Wedges

These are your classic cork wedges, perfect for the laid-back bride or anyone getting married outdoors during the warmer season. Minimalistic double–straps, a sexy silhouette, and the traditional corked sole are held together by an oh-so-comfortable padded footbed.

30. Textured Wedge Espadrilles

Espadrilles are quintessentially casual and comfortable. We particularly love all the varied textures on this wedge version. Canvas toes, taupe ties, and a burlap-esque heel make for an interesting shoe that goes with everything from a pantsuit to a floor-length gown.

31. Rustic Booties

Yes, please! These booties would look fantastic with a wedding gown. We can picture them now, at a rustic outdoor ceremony, with a stunning bohemian dress. Ideal for the free-spirit bride who isn’t afraid to show off her own personal flair.

32. Wedding Oxfords

Your betrothed isn’t the only one who should get to be comfortable and look charming in a classic pair of Oxfords. Subtle feminine hints such as graceful crochet laces make these leather Oxfords quite romantic.

33. Sparkly Ankle Boots

Making a fashion statement shouldn’t have to hurt. These sparkly, platinum ankle boots were made to let you strut your stuff down the catwalk – we mean, aisle. With a modern silhouette and block heel, these embellished beauties will ensure all eyes are on you!

34. White Leather Dr. Martens

1460 WOMEN’S PASCAL VIRGINIA LEATHER BOOTS

How could we not include the one and only Dr. Martens? As lovers of these effortlessly chic boots, we would wear them with any dress, including a wedding dress. Made from white leather, they lend the perfect edgy-rocker vibe to your formal attire.

Where To Buy

Have you decided what you want?

Here are the shops that inspired us to write this article. Popular models go in and out of stock and might not be available but there are plenty more to choose from!

magosisters: Unique, handcrafted sandals with exquisite details and finishes created from the best leather.

ForeverSoles: Amazing craftsmanship quality and uniqueness, raving customer reviews and worth every penny.

YuliaNadeeva: Handmade wedding shoes – gorgeous design and fit beautifully.

CreatureCool: Personalized bridal sneakers, add some excitement and individuality to your sneakers.

BlvdCustom: One-of-a-kind, custom TOMS, Converse and Vans shoes.

PrincessPumps: High-quality, handcrafted sparkly shoes made with sequins, glitter, and rhinestones.

BellaBelleShoe: Wedding sandals, beach sandals, and boutique sandals. Hand-made, hand0cut, hand-sewn, designed to be comfortable and to last.

ChicFeetDesigns: Classic and casual, great for your wedding or your summer dress.

kaileep: Amazing “glitz and glam” fashion for both adults and children.

BHLDN: Wedding heels that are as beautiful as they are comfortable.

David’s Bridal: Shop the latest 2022 shoe trends & styles – designer heels, shoes, pumps in a variety of colors & designs today. Many wedding shoes uare nder $50.

STUART WEITZMAN: timeless glamorous silhouettes with many brand-new, on-trend models.

Dr. Martens: 1460 women’s Pascal Virginia leather boots.

NET-A-PORTER: show-stopping heels, luxury designer brands.

Jimmy Choo: Handmade, exclusive, expensive. If you don’t own a pair of Jimmy Choo, this is your chance. From lace sandals and crystal-embellished bridal flats to pearl sneakers and elegant low or high heeled pumps in ivory or white satin.

Bella Belle: Made with a special mesh, these shoes give your feet some air to breathe, stretches, and molds to the shape of your feet. Super comfy wedding shoes that look stunning.

Comfortable Wedding Shoes FAQ

Should I choose my wedding shoes before or after my dress?

It’s usually a good idea to choose your shoes after your dress, that way you can make sure things like the aesthetic and height match. But sometimes you can’t pass up a phenomenal pair of shoes! If you do pick your shoes first, just know that it might slightly limit your dress options.

Can I wear sneakers under my wedding dress?

Yes, and some of us gals here have actually done it! It was blessedly comfortable and insanely cute, if we do say so ourselves.

Can I wear sandals as a bride?

While we wouldn’t go with your trusty pair of old flip flops, you can certainly wear sandals as a bride. There are a few exceptions here – for example, they may not go over so well at a traditional Catholic ceremony in the middle of winter. Thankfully, the wide variety of available styles means there is a sandal for almost every wedding venue.

Do my wedding shoes have to be white?

Nope! We are particularly fond of the navy, baby blue, or cerulean options that both add interest to your wedding ensemble and check off the traditional “something blue” requirement.

Can I be barefoot at my wedding?

As long as you’re comfortable and confident, barefoot is an acceptable wedding footwear choice! If you don’t want to go entirely bare, you can opt for barefoot sandals that give the illusion of footwear with their elegant crystals and chains.

Comfy – But Make It Chic

“What a girl wants, what a girl needs…is to feel commmffyyy!”

Excuse us while we take a few liberties with a classic Christina Aguilera ballad. But it’s true! You don’t want to be miserable on your wedding day due to painful feet, nor do you want to risk tripping down the aisle in the name of fashion.

We’re confident that the shoes on this list are both comfortable and chic, giving you the confidence to waltz, run, skip, or do whatever you please down the aisle.

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22 Unique 19th Anniversary Gifts to Celebrate the Big One-Nine

A marriage that spans nearly two decades is a thing of beauty, and any couple celebrating 19 years together deserves a lot of accolades. Luckily, there’s no shortage of 19th wedding anniversary gifts that are just perfect for commemorating those 6,935 days of wedded bliss! (Give or take a few.)

Want to see our picks for the best 19th anniversary gifts you’ll find in 2022? Of course you do! Hang out here, and we’ll show you what we found to give your sweetheart or your favorite couple raising a glass to the big one-nine.

(If the anniversary you’re shopping for is your own and you’d like some more gift ideas for your sweetheart, check out our post on anniversary gifts for her. Shopping for the man in your life? Here are some more anniversary gifts for him!)

Table Of Contents

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts For A 19th Anniversary?
19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her
19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Him
19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Them

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts For A 19th Anniversary?

Why are Traditional & Modern Gifts a Thing in the First Place?

While the verdict is still kind of out on how the whole “specific-gifts-for-specific-anniversaries” thing came to be, we know for sure the custom became popular in Victorian times.

Why? Probably for a bunch of reasons, not the least of which being that many Victorians were pretty pessimistic when it came to issues of love, marriage, and all the fun stuff that comes with it.

When marriage for love gradually became more common than marriages of convenience, anniversary gifts commemorating each year a couple had been together grew in popularity as important symbols of long-term commitment.

Because a marriage for love wouldn’t have as much sticking power as marriage for, let’s say, money or status, they needed to prove to the world that a couple was legit.

They may have been prudish, but those Victorians sure were romantic.

Modern and Traditional 19th Anniversary Gift: Bronze

Coming in at number one, it’s no stretch to see why bronze is both the traditional and modern gift of choice for a 19th wedding anniversary. Versatile and beautiful, this metal is an excellent medium for everything from art to jewelry to kitchen tools. Not to mention it’s a perfect option for both men and women.

19th Anniversary Flower: Chrysanthemum

Chrysanthemums are such a great flower to represent the 19th anniversary because of their resilience! Hardy mums do best in the chilly months of October and November and can gracefully withstand a light freeze to come back even prettier after. We’ll let you connect the symbolism for yourself.

19th Anniversary Gemstone: Aquamarine

Dreamy aquamarine is the official gemstone of 19 years! Its color represents calm and serenity for many of us: traits reminiscent of a long-lasting marriage. Maybe. Ok, calm and serenity is a tall order – no pressure.

19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

Aquamarine & Sapphire Necklace

Want to give her a serious case of the oohs and ahhs? This necklace will most certainly do it. The octagon-cut aquamarine stone is flanked by baguette sapphires, and the whole pendant is bordered with delicate pave diamonds.

Observe her closely when she opens the box – you may need to remind her to breathe.

Get it from Blue Nile

Aquamarine Teardrop Earrings

As you celebrate 19 wonderful years together, these aquamarine teardrop earrings make a perfect gift to honor the journey. Aquamarine, symbolizing tranquility and enduring love, beautifully reflects the deep bond you’ve built over nearly two decades. The soft, watery blue of the faceted stones is elegantly framed in your choice of 14k gold-filled or sterling silver, creating a timeless and sophisticated look.

Suspended from lever-back ear wires, they’re designed for comfort and effortless elegance—perfect for everyday wear or a special night out. Whether you’re marking this milestone with a romantic dinner or a weekend getaway, these earrings add the perfect touch of grace and meaning.

Get it from YaniaJewelryNYC

Aquamarine Bracelet

So delicate! With its’ tiny glittering aquamarines and 14K white gold chain, this bracelet will become a staple to match any occasion, from workdays to date night. It’s adjustable with a spring-ring clasp for up to three sizes for a perfect fit.

Get it from Blue Nile

Fancy Candle and Bronze Candle Holder

Despite the jokes about candle regifting, I’ll let you in on a secret: women actually do like to get candles.

Ok, maybe I’m speaking more for myself. But I honestly don’t know any woman who doesn’t love a posh scented candle, and Diptyque candles are among the best. Pair one of their luscious botanical scents with this one-of-a-kind bronze holder, and you’ve got a fantastic 19th wedding anniversary gift!

Get it from Diptyque

Bronze Pottery Heart Nesting Set

A functional work of art is always a great gift. These pretty heart nesting bowls are handcrafted with a beautiful bronze patina to commemorate your 19 years together.

The three-inch bowl is perfect for holding rings and other smaller items while the five-inch bowl is ideal for keys or chunkier jewelry. Upon request, the shop will engrave “19” on the bottom of the smaller bowl to commemorate how many years you’ve been together.

Get it from sarahwelchpottery

Cobbled Aged Bronze Pitcher

For a 19th anniversary gift that blends vintage charm with everyday elegance, the Cobbled Aged Bronze Pitcher is a perfect choice. Its sculptural silhouette and gracefully curved handle exude sophistication, while the aged bronze finish adds a touch of old-world allure. Whether used to serve chilled cocktails or as a stunning vase for fresh blooms, this pitcher makes a striking statement. Plus, its durable metal construction helps keep beverages cool longer—ideal for entertaining or simply elevating your kitchen décor.

Dimensions: 10″ x 5″ x 11.5″

Get it from DearKeaton

19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Him

Bronze Horse Bookends

Bronzed thoroughbreds with a white marble base, these masculine bookends are the perfect bronze anniversary gift for the guy with discriminating taste. They’d be excellent to display proudly in the office or a home library.

Dimensions: 10 x 4 x 9.5 inches

Get it from Pottery Barn

Bronze, Wood, and Leather Cologne

If ever there was a purveyor of sexy scents for men, it’s Jo Malone. With its sensual notes of warm leather, juniper, grapefruit, and vetiver, this cologne is the perfect choice for your husband to wear out to dinner for your 19th anniversary.

It’s so sexy, in fact, you may just end up late for your reservations.

Get it from Jo Malone

Bronze Dragonfly Sundial

Just like your marriage, this sundial is sturdy enough to withstand occasional bouts of stormy weather and get even more beautiful with time! It’s made from solid aluminum colored with a bronze patina and is designed to rest on a flat surface.

Dimensions: 12 x 12 x 6 inches

Get it from Amazon

Bronze Cufflinks

Solid hammered bronze cufflinks add masculine flair to any attire, whether it’s daytime at the office or a night on the town with you. These are handmade and completely customizable with an engraved monogram, date, or a short sentimental message.

Get it from NotontheHighStreet

Bronze Rim Whiskey Glasses

His fancy scotch will look even fancier when served in these unique bronze glasses! When he’s not sharing with friends, they’re gorgeous enough to display front and center on a bar cart or buffet.

Get it from HomeWetBar

Fireplace Screen

If snuggling by a cozy fire is your idea of the perfect date night, a gorgeous handcrafted bronze fireplace screen helps set the mood beautifully! We think this one would look stunning with any decor and color theme.

Dimensions: 38.25 x 9 x 30.5 inches

Get it from Crate & Barrel

19th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Them

Experiences

What better way to celebrate the happy couples’ 19th wedding anniversary than with an exciting trip or activity just for two? Virgin and Tinggly both offer fantastic getaways to destinations all over the world as well as adventures closer to home.

If you aren’t sure which experience is the perfect gift for them, go with a gift card so they can choose their own adventure!

Get it from Virgin Experience

Bronze Floor Planter

Dundee Bronze Floor Indoor/Outdoor Planter

An elegant bronze planter looks great anywhere, indoors or out, and we happen to think this one stands out just a hair above the rest. It holds a 9-inch pot – the perfect size for a flourishing houseplant.

Handcrafted from solid iron with a bronze finish.

Dimensions: 11 x 31 inches

Get it from Crate & Barrel

Unique Bronze Glassware

If the lady prefers martinis and the gentleman favors two fingers of scotch (or vice versa), this gorgeous stag glassware set has them both covered! We think it would be the perfect accessory for a romantic evening on the deck accompanied by the outdoor fire pit featured in our post on gifts for men who have everything.

Just putting that out there.

Get it from Pottery Barn

Bronze Sculpture

This is such a beautiful, modern sculpture to celebrate the happy couple’s 19 year anniversary. It would look amazing resting on a bookcase or mantle, or you can opt to include the matching base. Either way, it’ll draw compliments no matter where it’s displayed!

Figures Dimensions: 4 inches

Base Dimensions: 4 x 3 x 2.75 inches

Get it from YennyCocq

Side Table

The side table may be the unsung hero of frequently used living spaces. (In our opinion, anyway.) It’s always functional but often overlooked – unless it’s as stunning as this one!

This one features a solid cast metal frame finished in antique bronze and hand-sculpted into a contemporary, modern design. A practical gift for the couple with fabulous taste in decor.

Dimensions: 15 x 18 inches

Get it from West Elm

Bronze Mirror

Whether it’s displayed in the bedroom, entryway, or as a stunning addition to a powder room, this round bronze framed mirror is sure to impress. Made with a solid wooden back and brass frame finished in a bronze patina, this traditional gift is even suitable for outdoor use.

Dimensions: 30 x 1-1/4 inches

Get it from Rejuvenation

Parisian Glass Table Lamp

Celebrate 19 years of love and commitment with a gift that embodies both elegance and timeless charm. The Parisian Glass Table Lamp makes a meaningful and stylish anniversary present, symbolizing the light and warmth shared in nearly two decades of marriage.

With its transparent glass base, this lamp exudes an airy sophistication, effortlessly blending into any home décor—whether classic or contemporary. The crisp fabric shade diffuses light beautifully, creating a cozy, inviting atmosphere, perfect for relaxing evenings together.

Dimensions: 9.5 x 12 x 25 inches

Get it from Williams Sonoma

Bronze Hanging Photo Frames

Speaking of a flexible addition to any home decor – we just love these sturdy brass photo frames! Finished with a bronze patina, they’re a fitting gift for a 19th wedding anniversary.

Find some family photos to put in them, and you’ve got a gift as meaningful as it is beautiful.

Comes in sizes to fit 8 x 10 or 11 x 14 photos.

Get it from Pottery Barn

Forty Bottle Wine Rack

This brass wine rack makes an excellent gift for the couple who enjoys a glass of wine or three! With space to hang 24 stemware glasses and a wooden top that holds up to 50 pounds, they’ll want to use it to show off their favorite vintages. And hopefully, share a bottle or two with you, too!

Dimensions: 36.42 x 38.03 x 14.02

Get it from Zipcode Design

Aquamarine Fine Art

Aquamarine is the official gemstone of the 19th anniversary, and we think this gorgeous piece is a beautiful way to bring the essence of the sparkling gemstone home.

Stunningly colorful, this print is a fantastic example of the kind of abstract wall art you can expect from the talented commissioned artists at Minted.

It’s available in six sizes with 12 framing options.

Get it from Minted

Here’s To 19 Years And Counting

Every anniversary deserves an unforgettable gift! Whether it’s a 19th anniversary gift for your beloved or a gift for a special couple in your life, we hope our list has helped you find something they’ll treasure for at least 19 more.

Looking for more wedding anniversary gift ideas? Find plenty of inspiration for every year in our anniversary gift shopping guides!

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