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21st Anniversary Gifts For The Romantic At Heart

The giving of wedding anniversary gifts specific to how long a couple has been together has its origins with the Holy Roman Empire or the superstitious Middle Ages. Maybe.

All we know is, 21st wedding anniversary gifts seem to have no origins in superstition or ancient history.

But before you give up and opt for a necktie to say ‘I still love you after 21 years’, keep reading.

At some point in history, some clever person (or people) designated three types of symbolic gifts to celebrate a wedding anniversary: Traditional, modern, and alternate. Later on, an official flower and precious stone were added to the list as well.

In other words, if you want to stick with the custom of giving a specific gift that aligns with the number of years you’ve been married, you really have up to five different types of inspiration.

For a 21st wedding anniversary, it is now seen as customary to give brass, nickel, iris, or iolite. Notably, there is no ‘traditional’ 21st anniversary gift, but brass and nickel are considered the modern options.

So there you go! Now you don’t have to worry about giving your beloved a big box of empty for your anniversary!

There are plenty of meaningful, symbolic things to give that celebrate 21 years of wedded bliss, and we’ve got a perfect list of ’em right here.

21st Anniversary Gifts for Her

1. Hammered Brass Cuff Bracelet

by Etsy: johnsbrana

You’ll give it to her for your 21st, but this statement piece is perfect to wear on any occasion. It’s wide enough to get noticed but not so wide that it’s uncomfortable to wear, and it’s sooooo shiny. Really, she’ll love it.

2. Brass & Moonstone Crescent Moon Earrings

by FaraCreationsAU

Moonstone is symbolic here because it’s a type of iolite – the official stone of the 21st anniversary. These earrings are pure magic, and we couldn’t love them more.

3. North Star Locket

by Etsy: TheBloomingThread

Handcrafted and designed with a gold North Star on enamel, this beautiful locket will remind her that you love her in so many ways. The star symbolizes your reliability. The extra-long chain keeps the locket close to her heart with your picture tucked inside.

4. Modern Brass Candle Holder

by West Elm

Simple and elegant, these candle holders are sure to impress her. They’d be perfect for a romantic candlelit dinner at home… with you cooking up a feast. After all, you want to impress her, right?

5. Brambly Cottage Slade Table Vase

by Wayfair

This gorgeous brass table vase is perfect for storing kitchen utensils, to house a decorative plant, or on her dresser with a huge bouquet of flowers that mark your 21st wedding anniversary. Speaking of flowers, we enjoy a good segue, which you’ll discover when you move on to #6 on our list….

6. Flowers

by Bouqs

A fantastic bouquet featuring the iris is perfect because it’s the 21st wedding anniversary’s official flower! Arrange them in the brass table vase above, and you’ve got a gift that’s both classic and meaningful. Perfect.

7. Hammered Brass Sink Bowl

by thecopperbath

Suppose you’ve meant to give your bathroom a remodel for a while, but haven’t gotten around to it. This gorgeous powder room sink bowl is sure to motivate you! Made in Marrakesh out of thick hammered brass, it’ll remain a family heirloom for years to come.

A surprise bathroom remodel with a stunning sink bowl? Now that’s an anniversary gift she won’t forget.

21st Anniversary Gifts for Him

8. Engraved Handcrafted Compass

by Modern Timez

We love the old-school feel of this handcrafted brass compass! Engrave a special message along with the date you were married and his initials, and you’ve got something exceptional to give him.

9. Personalized Brass Cufflinks

by BlueCornerCreasigns

Have your initials and the date of your anniversary engraved on these shiny cufflinks for a very meaningful gift that he’ll love showing off at the office.

10. Brass Sundial

by Rome Industries

Brass Father Time Sundial with Verdigris Highlights

The inscription on this sundial from the Robert Browning poem: “Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be” is absolutely heart-melting. If there’s a more perfect 21st wedding anniversary gift, we’re not sure where you’ll find it.

11. Classic Brass Boxing Bell

by uncommon goods

Perfect for a man-cave or behind a countertop bar, this gift is so original, he’ll be thrilled when he opens it. Seriously, a brass boxing bell?! A gifting win.

Boxing Bell

The design of this vintage Bevin Brothers bell is best known in the boxing world as a signal between rounds, at the New York Stock Exchange to signal closings, and on ice cream trucks to signal relief for the summertime heat. Its ring also signals every time an angel gets its wings in “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

So not only is this bell pretty useful, it’s definitely a conversation starter and a really cool decorative accent to any interior! A unique gift is the best kind of gift.

It’s made from brass and steel and measures 4″ L x 6″ W x 8″ H.

Get it from Uncommon Goods

12. Solid Brass Belt Buckle

by CreativeLifeEurope

This glowy brass belt buckle can be hammered for a more rustic textured finish or, if you prefer, you can keep it smooth and shiny. Either way, it’ll make him look like a million bucks.

13. Classic Brass Cocktail Shaker

by Minted

This solid, hammered brass cocktail shaker would be an amazing addition to any bar. The contrast in textures is so gorgeous that the next time you entertain guests, you’ll have to be prepared to field many compliments!

Gifts For Both

14. Wine Chiller & Champagne Cooler

by Crate & Barrel

There’s something about hammered metal that makes it super classy, particularly when it comes to kitchen and bar accessories. This wine chiller and champagne cooler is just begging to brought out at your next party or perhaps a more intimate evening for two!

15. Burnished Brass Fireplace Tools

by Pilgrim Home and Hearth

Pilgrim Home and Hearth, Burnished Brass 18086 Sinclair Fireplace Tool Set

Brass fireplace tools remind us of massive, cozy, Victorian fireplaces. You know, like something out of a Jane Austin novel. Who knew fireplace tools could be so romantic?

16. Brass Bed

by Crate & Barrel

We don’t know for sure where the connection between a brass bed and romance originated, but our money’s on Bob Dylan. This is one of the most beautiful we’ve ever seen.

17. Pavo Brass Incense Holder

by CB2

For lovebirds who adore eclectic decor! This incense holder is handcrafted from solid brass by artisans from northern India. We dig the very cool design as is, but that peacock topper makes it stand apart.

18. Smart Brass Growhouse

by uncommon goods

Wouldn’t a brass growhouse make such a cool 21st anniversary gift? Nurturing a living thing and helping it grow takes a lot of care. So does nurturing and growing a marriage for 21 years.

Unlike marriage, however, this grow house can be controlled by an app on your phone.

19. Hanging Bird Bath

by Etsy: NorthWindsCT

The cool thing about brass or copper is that it only gets more beautiful when exposed to the elements over time. Every time you look out the window, you’ll love it even more.

20. Large Solid Brass Planter

by Etsy: ExcellantAccents

We envision this gorgeous planter next to the sofa holding a stash of lazy reading magazines. Or in a corner with a beautiful palm planted in it. Let’s face it, you can’t go wrong with a hand-crafted and hammered brass planter. Honestly, it will go with everything and fit in anywhere.

21. Lilac Iris Print

by Minted

This striking print is such a creative representation of the iris’s stunning beauty. We think it’s a lovely, symbolic image for your 21st anniversary year.

Happy 21st Anniversary!

People say that marriage is a lot of work, and that may be true. But anything worth keeping is worth working for. If you’ve made it to your 21st anniversary, congratulations!

You’ve put in the time, so take a moment to celebrate each other. Here’s to 21 more!

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How To Write A Maid Of Honor Speech (Examples And Advice)

Some of the best speeches at weddings are the maid of honor speeches. You’ve been chosen for this special role because you know things about the bride that her parents don’t (and maybe some that should stay that way..ahem). You’ve also probably been through thick and thin together.

You may want to share some kind words about the groom, but it’s what you say to the bride during your speech that will matter the most at this time of transition in her life.

She needs to know you’re her Girl Friday, and you’ve got her back through every milestone. Your maid of honor speech is one of the best ways to deliver that message.

maid of honor giving speech to bride and groom

So, bearing all of the above in mind, you might be feeling apprehensive about your speech. After all, she chose YOU to be her best bestie on her big day and everyone’s going to be waiting with bated breath for your words of wisdom and hilarious anecdotes from the times you’ve spent together.

Well, we’re to tell you there’s zero reason to worry about your speech. It’s your best friend’s wedding day and all she wants is to have you by her side. No one is expecting you to deliver a Shakespearean soliloquy or do a stand-up comedy act.

Just deliver heartfelt words and you’ll be golden. We promise. To help you put together a great speech, we’ve put together this handy guide. Keep reading for useful advice, a template for your speech, and some inspiring examples of maid of honour speeches.

Rules and Etiquette

Before you get started on your cue cards, there are a few things to get out of the way in terms of etiquette.

Keep it clean

We put this one first because sometimes it’s soooo hard to keep it PG when we’ve got so much hilarious dirt on our best girl (especially after a few drinks at the open bar).

Try to refrain, though. Obviously, her parents are there, his parents are there, and who knows how many other family members with ears on you.

It could make it super awkward if everyone heard about what happened at the bachelorette party. Let the best man commit that faux pas; it’s entirely possible that he will.

Do your homework

You probably already know who is on the guest list, but you may not know some of the guests’ plus ones. If you can, find out about who’s coming that you don’t know. You don’t want to run the risk of offending someone or making them uncomfortable if the subject matter steers toward one of the big four topics to avoid. Keep reading for more on those.

Watch out for touchy topics

Best to steer clear of money issues unless they flatter the bride and groom. Definitely best to steer clear of politics. And definitely, definitely leave family dirt in the ground.

There’s nothing more awkward than accidentally (or purposefully) calling someone on the carpet for family strife. Everyone there probably already knows that her dad’s new wife threw a tantrum and made a scene at Thanksgiving. But leave it unsaid. No matter how funny it was.

Suppose the wedding had a religious ceremony, and the bride/groom’s families are religious. In that case, that may be something to mention if it is relevant to you, too. Just be sensitive and keep it as inclusive as possible.

So to recap. Money, politics, religion, and family drama – the BIG FOUR no-go topics.

IF YOU REMEMBER NOTHING ELSE, REMEMBER THIS:

NO jokes about divorce.

NO jokes about exes.

All righty, beyond that…

Keep the comedy coming

Everyone loves a funny wedding speech, and you’re among the top three who have the best opportunity to give one. If you’ve had any fun together at all (which obviously you have, or you wouldn’t be the maid of honor), you’ll have a virtual goldmine of funny stories about the bride. Again, as long as they’re PG, serve ’em up.

maid of honor giving speech with bride laughing

If comedy isn’t your strong suit, no biggie. A moving tribute to her, her new husband, and how great they are together is just as entertaining when it’s well-spoken.

Watch your time

Unfortunately, no matter how many great stories you could tell, you’ve only got a short time to speak. Time yourself after you’ve written out your speech to make sure it’s no longer than seven minutes. An ideal speech will be five minutes or less.

Don’t get too emotional- you’ve got mascara to think about!

Oh jeez, this one will probably be harder than keeping it PG. Keep some hankies tucked away, but try to laugh through the tears of joy. Some people get awkward and just don’t know how to deal with it when other people cry.

Make An Outline

Right. Standard etiquette out of the way. Time to start writing it all down. Start with an outline, then round out the details after you’ve got the bones to your speech figured out.

Introduce yourself

This is an important opener, as not everyone may know you yet. Superfast: who you are, and how you are related to the bride and groom.

If there’s a person or two you feel deserves special recognition and would like to thank, go ahead, but make it quick. Usually, it’s up to the parentals and groom to thank everyone for coming.

Storytime

Include a little bit about how you met. Were you friends right out of the gate? Is there a funny story about how you didn’t gel at first?

Talk about what makes you so tight close and what you bond over. Tell stories about some of the adventures you’ve shared.

Talk about the groom

Make sure you take some time to talk about her new husband! Share a recollection of your first time meeting and your impressions of him. This is an excellent time for funny stories too, and it’s also the perfect time to outline what you love about the groom and how happy you are that he makes her happy.

Talk about the bride

Now is when the waterworks will probably begin. Try to keep it together as you talk about all of the things that make her extraordinary. Let her know how much you appreciate her. Tell everyone what she means to you and what a great friend she is.

If there are things you’re particularly proud of her for, things like accomplishments, acts of selflessness, all those great things, now is the time to let her know.

Share some thoughts about them as a couple

Why are you so glad they’re together? What makes them so great for each other? What is your wish for them in the future?

If you’re already married, you can talk about all the things you love about marriage and impart those wishes on her.

Raise a toast

Here’s an excellent opportunity to let her know (briefly) how honored you are to be chosen as maid of honor and invite everyone to raise a toast to the newlyweds. If you’ve got a closer for this one, leave it with the toast, or you could say something simple like “To happily ever afters. Thanks for sharing yours with us.”

Maid Of Honor Speech Examples

You’ve got your outline done and now you just need to put the final touches on your speech and master the delivery. Easy peasy! Hey, you’ve got this sista, we know it and you should too. But if you need some extra confidence-boosting inspiration, we strongly suggest you check out these awesome maid of honour speeches. If these gals can do it, we know you can too!

Sisterly Love and Laughs

Love this sister’s speech. It’s so funny and heartfelt, it was fantastic. And it was all a smidge over four minutes. Masterful.

Hilarious and So Well Delivered!

This speech is nothing short of awesome. Not to mention entertaining.

An Epic…Performance

Somehow this fabulous maid of honor has managed to get by breaking the divorce rule (kind of, in a way) like a BOSS. She’s hilarious and fun, and someone better recognize that daring karaoke remix for the glorious thing it is.

Parting Advice

You’re gonna have a blast writing your maid of honor speech, particularly if you had a bachelorette party for her where everyone reminisced over your years together.

When your best friend gets married, you inherit with her all the good times (and sometimes bad) she’ll experience in married life. Let her know you can’t wait to be there for the next part of her life’s journey.

A Memorable Father-Of-The Bride Speech: Tips, Tricks, And Examples

Dear Dads,

We know you’re nervous about making a father-of-the-bride speech at your little girl’s wedding. We won’t mince words here. You should be.

This is why you’re probably furiously Googling “father of the bride speech examples,” so someone will tell you what to say.

Right.

Your job is to make everyone laugh and cry tears of joy. As the head honcho of your household (ok, second to your wife), it falls on your head to get it right, or you’ll ruin everything.

Make it funny, but short. Make it moving, but not too personal.

All of that is hooey, of course, but you probably feel that way all the same.

We want to help, so we’ve put together a father-of-the-bride speech outline to help you decide what to say and remember when to say it.

Simple Father Of The Bride Speech Template

Step One: Know The Rules And Etiquette

Before you get to writing, there are some basic speech rules and etiquette you should consider to avoid disaster and embarrassment.

Do Your Homework

Call in the cavalry. There are no rules that say your speech can’t be a collaborative effort. If you’re unsure what to talk about, ask those who know her best for stories and anecdotes.

Find out who’s invited that you may not know so well. It helps to keep in mind who your audience will be.

Watch Your Time

Seven. Minutes. That’s the maximum time a father-of-the-bride speech ought to last. Anything more prolonged, and you’ll lose them. If you can, aim for six.

No Cliches, Find Ways To Be Unique

Talk about the qualities your daughter has that set her apart. Of course she’s brilliant and talented and beautiful. Anyone who knows her knows that.

Avoid a resume-like list of her career or education, unless you can link that to a funny story or something that pertains to her new husband.

Avoid Talking About Money, Religion, Or Politics

Just like at dinner parties (because let’s face it, that’s kind of what a wedding reception is), the rule is to avoid talking politics, religion, or money.

Of course, it’s entirely appropriate to thank God and, by all means, prayers up. But use good judgment and keep it PC.

Keep It Clean

We probably don’t have to mention it, but we will anyway. Nothing will suck the air out of the room like a tasteless joke or inappropriate anecdote from Dad. Gross.

Aim For Funny, But Avoid Inside Jokes

Yes, you want to be funny, that’s a given. Remember, you are the master of the Dad Joke. Work it. Just avoid inside jokes, it may alienate some of the guests.

Don’t Get Too Emotional, Keep It Light

Just like you want to make ’em laugh, making your audience tear up is gratifying, too. But make sure you don’t go overboard and make it awkward.

Keep Your Family Strife Out Of It

It’s unbelievable how often people give speeches like this and veer off onto a tangent about family quarrels.

If you and your daughter’s mother are no longer together and aren’t on the best of terms, keep it out of the speech. If you and her mother’s new significant other don’t get along, now is not the time.

If someone’s not speaking to Aunt Tilly or the bride’s cousin ruined another family wedding by getting drunk and hitting on the groom’s mother: Do. Not. Make it a thing.

Seems like common sense, but people are mysterious creatures.

Step Two: Brainstorm

Crafting an unforgettable father of the bride speech requires a bit of preparation, and the most important part of that preparation is brainstorming your ideas and outlining your speech. Here are some tips to get you started:

Find your Voice

Every father has a unique personality and relationship with his daughter. While it can be tempting to emulate speeches found online, it is essential to infuse your own authentic voice and personal anecdotes into your address.

Think of personal anecdotes

Reflect on your relationship with both the bride and groom, and write down any memories, jokes, or stories that you think would be relevant or entertaining.

Consider the structure of your speech

Your speech should have an introduction, a body, and a conclusion. The introduction should capture the audience’s attention and set the tone for the rest of your speech. The body should be divided into several sections, each highlighting a different aspect of your relationship with the bride and groom. The conclusion should tie everything together and leave a lasting impression..

Step Three: Make An Outline

OK, with etiquette out of the way (but not out of mind), it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty — the fun part! When you make your outline, by all means, write it all on cue cards and use them. Whatever you need to keep focused.

Opening Line/Introduce Yourself

Every good speech needs an opener, but it doesn’t have to be stand-up material. A quick introduction and welcoming the guests will do nicely.

Thank Your Wife, The Groom’s Parents, The Officiant, etc.

This is another part you can get through quickly. It’ll be tempting to spend a lot of time on this one, but keep in mind that you can thank everyone more thoroughly and one-on-one throughout the reception.

Unless there’s something particular you feel the need to say, a quick thanks will do.

Share A Story Or Two and Don’t Forget The Groom

The moment everyone’s been waiting for: dad making fun of his daughter and her new husband. Gently, of course.

Seriously, though, this is the time to be funny. Mention the first time you met your new son-in-law and what you thought of him (if it’s not seriously negative). Talk about funny things from her childhood, as long as they’re not mortifyingly embarrassing.

The material for this part is rich, mine it.

Impart Some Fatherly Wisdom

So you’ve made them laugh, now make them say “awwwww.”

Pass on what you’ve learned about life, love, and happiness – things that worked for you, and maybe things that didn’t work so well if you can keep it light.

If there’s a deceased family member that your daughter was particularly fond of, now is an excellent time to hand down any wisdom they imparted to you.

Raise A Toast

The toast can stay short and sweet, all you have to do now is invite everyone to raise a glass to the newlywed’s happiness. Done and done.

Step Four: Practice

When it comes to giving a memorable father of the bride speech, practice is key. You don’t want to be reading from a script or stumble over your words on such an important occasion. Here are some tips to help you practice and deliver your speech with confidence:

Write out your speech

Before you begin to practice, make sure that you have a draft of your speech. It does not have to be perfect at this stage, but it should have all the key points that you want to make. Writing out your speech will help you organize your thoughts and ensure that you have covered all the necessary elements.

Practice in front of a mirror

Practicing in front of a mirror allows you to see your facial expressions and gestures. It also helps you to work on your eye contact and body language, which are important when delivering a speech.

Record yourself

Another way to practice is to record yourself giving the speech. This allows you to listen to your tone of voice, pacing, and areas that need improvement.

Get feedback

Ask a trusted friend or family member to listen to your speech and give you feedback. They can offer suggestions on delivery, pacing, and content.

Practice in the wedding venue

If possible, practice your speech in the actual wedding venue. This will give you a sense of the acoustics and how your voice will carry. It also helps you visualize the setting, which can help calm nerves and build confidence.

Remember, the more you practice, the more comfortable and confident you will be when delivering your father of the bride speech. Trust in yourself and your message, and enjoy the moment.

Father-Of-The-Bride Speech Examples

If this whole speech thing has been on your mind (obviously it has. otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this), you’ll probably want an example or two for how to do it like a boss.

Prepare to get educated…

BEST Father-of-the-Bride Speech. Ever. (According to the person who uploaded the Youtube video)

We love the way he includes the groom the whole way through, and his toast is perfect.

You’ll notice this guy incorporates money and religion in his speech and manages to make it not at all awkward, but fabulous. Shows how bendable the rules can be if you’re on your game…

Heartwarming Father-of-the-Bride Speech (Get Out the Hankie!)

This father offers up a funny and heartwarming speech, along with a few props that take this speech to another level.

Hilarious Father-of-the-Bride Speech That Includes the Groom’s Family

He’s included the groom’s family in this speech in the best way ever. Not to mention the hilarity of his son-in-law story! We’re dyin’ over here!

Some Parting Advice

The speeches are arguably the best part of the reception, next to the open bar and dancing. Ahem.

Although it may feel like it, no one expects the world from the father-of-the-bride when he toasts the happy couple.

It’s your job to be sincere, remind everyone of what makes your daughter so wonderful, and tell the room why you’re thrilled to gain a son-in-law.

Do that, and the rest will fall into place. Next thing you know you’ll be grabbing a martini, loosening your tie and breathing a sigh of relief that you nailed that speech. Now to nail those dance moves you’ve been practicing!

20 Thoughtful Godparent Gifts That Show You Care

Think about the people in your life who influence you the most. If you’re lucky enough to have godparents in your life, they probably fall under that category.

Whether you’re a parent looking for a thoughtful godparent gift, or you’re the godchild of a caring godparent, it can be a little challenging to find just the right thing.

You know we’re all about helping create inspiration for gift-giving at L&L, which is why we put together this list of twenty godparent gifts they’ll love!

During our quest to pick the perfect godparent gifts, we also delved into the role of a godparent, what it means to be a godparent, and took a look at some traditional gifts to give godparents. Keep reading for all the juicy details and our favourite gift ideas!

Godparent FAQ

Most of us know at least one thing about being a godparent: It’s an honour to be asked to take on this role and all that it involves. Here’s the scoop on all the other things about being a godparent that you may or may not have known.

What constitutes the role of a godparent?

In the Christian tradition, a godparent is someone who bears witness to a child’s christening, not someone who shows up and sends you to the ball in a pumpkin carriage. You probably already knew that, though.

As the child grows, it is the godparent’s role to take responsibility for the child’s spiritual education and formation. Non-Christian faiths like Santería and Judaism have similar traditions.

What are the expectations of being a godparent?

The answer to this question depends largely upon the godparent’s relationship to the parents, and how devoutly religious they are.

For extremely religious families, upon christening, the godparents share co-parenting responsibilities with the child’s natural parents. (This is where the terms Compadre and Comadre originate.)

For others, the role can be a little more relaxed, with the godparent definitely present but not necessarily co-parenting. For some, a godparent is designated as the legal custodian of a child in the case of the parents’ death.

For others, a godparent can simply be someone very close to the family that the parents want to have an influence on the kid’s life and can provide guidance and support whenever needed.

What are traditional godparent gifts?

Religious Gifts

A religious gift is a very traditional choice, considering the formal role of a godparent. Items like prayer books, jewelry or home decor with crosses or inspirational messages, anything that reminds the godparent how thankful you are for their spiritual influence.

Personalized Gifts

Monogrammed gifts are always a good bet, particularly if you can incorporate the godchild’s birthdate or christening date.

Gifts With Godparent Themes

If you’re looking for a Christmas gift, a godparent ornament is always nice, or picture frames, mugs, etc. As long as it brags about how great your godparents are!

How much is customary to spend on a godparent gift?

There aren’t really too many guidelines for this one, and it depends on who’s doing the giving. Normally, gifts from godchildren aren’t expected at all, and gifts from parents can range from modest to extravagant, depending upon the circumstances.

If you are a godchild, and you’d really love to give your godparent a gift, anything with personal meaning is best.

On what occasions do you gift a godparent?

Godparents generally don’t expect a gift at the baby’s christening, or on the anniversary of the christening (yes, for many, that’s a thing).

The honor of being asked to be a godparent is a gift in itself. Still, many parents give gifts as a heartfelt expression of appreciation to their child’s godparents.

As they get older, a godchild may want to give their godparents a gift for birthdays and holidays as well, so there are plenty of occasions where a godparent gift is appropriate.

Gifts for Godmothers and Godfathers

Now that you’ve got the lowdown on godparents, it’s time to start the search for the perfect gift! Take a look at our top picks and see if any catch your eye!

1. Godmother, Godfather Custom Mug Decals

by PurpleZebraCo

These are mugs so cute- customize your color to go with your choice of mug, and you’re good to go.

2. Godparents Custom Hand-Stamped Spoons

by TheSmileEmporium

These spoons will go great with the mugs featured above! Being hand-stamped, no two will be exactly alike.

3. Set of 2 Godparent Etched Rocks Glasses

by GiftGivingCreation

Do your favorite godparents like something a little stronger than coffee now and then? Yeah they do! These etched bourbon glasses are delightful and practical. Best of all you can have them personalized!

4. Godparents Gift Apothecary Candles

by normadorothy

Share a personal message on these apothecary candles to convey a very special thank you. They come in a variety of scents – some very masculine, some feminine, and some in-between so you have even more customization options.

5. Godparents Christmas Ornament

by Beautifulgiftshop

Personalize this simple-but-lovely ornament with your child’s name and christening date, or the godparents’ names or ‘world’s greatest godparents’ if you want to go sentimental with a hint of cheese. Whatever you want to say, it’ll be on the tree for years to come!

6. Personalized Godparents Scalloped Dish

by MomologyPottery

This made-to-order scalloped trinket dish is a lovely gift from parents to godparents. It’s perfect for a dresser, nightstand, or kitchen table.

7. Godparent Personalized Picture Frame Board

by BoutiqueButterLu

This handmade picture frame board will remind your godparents what they already know: Godparents Are Like Parents, Only Cooler. #truth

Godmother Gifts

8. Gift for Godmother Necklace

by LuvAndGratitude

This beautiful pendant necklace featuring an angel wing comes with a message that’s as sweet as the jewelry itself. It’s the perfect gift from a godchild and comes in vermeil or sterling silver.

9. Dainty Chain Initial Bracelet

by Etsy: RaniskaByRani

Very pretty and so delicate, this bracelet is a subtle way for your godmother to display the initials of her godchild every day. Comes in your choice of gold or silver and you can get it engraved with initials or symbols.

10. Silver Angel Wing Earrings

by robinhoodcouture

So cool, these earrings would be perfect for that godmother who likes her gifts just a little edgy.

11. Godmother Gift Ring Dish

by MomologyPottery

Personalize her heart-shaped ring dish with the name and birthdate of her godchild, and you’ve got a fantastic gift for a beloved godmother.

12. Godmother Definition Art

by MCPDesignStudio

This would be a great gift to present your chosen godmother at your baby’s baptism, or even your pregnancy reveal to let her know you’d love for her to take on this special role in your child’s life.

13. Godmother Sweatshirt

by Etsy: SymbolicImports

Here’s another gift that would serve as a wonderful way to ask her to be your child’s fairy godmother. It comes in gray or white with plenty of size options.

14. Godmother Tote

by DesignsbyLindaNeeToo

Perfect for showing off her godmother status at the library, the grocery store, or wherever she needs an extra tote!

15. Godmother Personalized Engraved Wine Glass

by hbhill

This wine glass has endless options for optimal godmother personalization. It’s a great way to celebrate her and functional to boot. Include a bottle of her favourite white or red and make a toast to her awesomeness.

Gifts For the Godfather

16. Personalized Godfather Whiskey Glass

by ScollonStudio

Celebrate the arrival of the newest family member by toasting the best godfather ever. And, as with the above wine glass gift, might we boldly suggest pairing this glass with a bottle of his favourite whiskey. He’ll appreciate the sentiment AND the liquid treat.

17. Engraved Wood Pocket Knife

by GroomsmenGiftShoppe

Ask any godfather and he’ll confirm this truth: you can never have too many pocket knives. This one will be the most special in his collection.

18. Godfather Bottle Opener Keychain

by KeepMeCloseKeepsakes

Just like pocket knives, bottle openers are always useful. Have this one personalized with a hand-stamped message. And maybe include a 6 or 12-pack of his favourite bottled beer.

19. Best Godfather Ever Travel Mug

by BackyardPeaks

Funny AND stylish, he’ll be happy to show this great travel mug off at work!

20. Personalized Godfather Tie Clip

by sierrametaldesign

This stainless steel personalized tie clip is PERFECT for the new godfather to wear at his godchild’s christening.

Let’s Hear It For Godparents!

A good godparent will be there every step of the way throughout their godchild’s journey to laugh, cry, and share significant milestones. (They’ll also be pretty good at keeping a secret or two when necessary.)

Here’s to all you fantastic godparents out there – thanks so much for all you do to make our children better people!

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11 Tungsten Wedding Bands Made To Last Forever

Much like the man who chooses a tungsten wedding band, this alternative metal is useful, functional, and strong. Like 10x stronger than 18K gold. It’s used to make stuff like missiles and heavy machinery. It’s no-nonsense. It can endure anything. And, like your marriage, it’s going to last forever.

Ok, before we go any further, I can’t resist. I have to tell you that its chemical symbol is W, from its original Germanic name wolframite. In German, Wolfram means… wait for it… DEVOURER OF TIN!! Tungsten eats other metals (sort of…) for BREAKFAST. So, it’s pretty much the badass of metals, just sayin’.

Pretty manly, yeah? If a men’s tungsten wedding band sounds right up your alley (or wolf lair), check out these 11 designs that caught our, erm, manly eye.

Tungsten Wedding Bands

1. Beveled Edge Silver Tungsten Wedding Band

by Etsy: ElementalBands

Classy, gorgeous, and tough. Best combo ever, which is why this ring ranked #1 our list. Also, we love that it’s got a legit-sounding gentleman’s name. We can’t help but imagine that Mr. Kensington is always on the VIP list, plays a mean game of poker, and drinks his whiskey straight.

2. Classic Gray Tungsten Carbide Ring with Comfort Fit Band

by Blue Nile

Comfort-Fit Wedding Ring in Classic Gray Tungsten Carbide (6mm)

This tungsten carbide wedding band’s comfort fit design and substantial weight will feel great on your finger. Shiny, solid silver. No frills, but it makes a statement all the same. Just like you it’s subtle but full of substance.

3. Silver Tungsten Classic Dome Band

by Etsy: YorksJewelryDesign

If you like a classic design on the low-key, this classic dome ring is perfect for you. Choose between three width options for a slimmer or more substantive look.

4. Tungsten Wedding Band in Yellow Gold

by LALaserEngraving

Tungsten Wedding Band in Yellow Gold (7mm)

Look up men’s wedding band in the dictionary (I know, men’s wedding band isn’t in the dictionary and who uses dictionaries any more, but go with me here), and a picture of this ring would be right next to it. Bonus: you’ll do a serious double-take when you see how much it costs!

5. Beveled Edge Gold Tungsten Wedding Band

by Etsy: LazerBoyzDesigns

Take the ring showcased in #4, reduce the shine factor a couple of notches, and you’ve got this yellow gold-plated ring. Featuring a brushed center and beveled edges, this one’s for the man who appreciates a classic, timeless look and needs a ring that goes with every suit. It’s also scratch resistant. All you’ve got to do is wear it and look fabulous.

6. Rose Gold Plated Tungsten Wedding Band

by Etsy: YorksJewelryDesign

This men’s tungsten ring is oh-so refined and tailored. Featuring 18K rose gold plated tungsten with brushed middle and beveled edges, it’ll look amazing with that tux.

7. Matte Hammered Black Tungsten Carbide Band

by Blue Nile

Matte Hammered Comfort Fit Wedding Band in Black Tungsten Carbide (8mm)

This tungsten carbide wedding band comes in either black tungsten (the one we chose, of course) or white tungsten. We chose black because we love the super masculine combo of the hammered texture and dark color. Look cool while enjoying the comfort fit of this ring.

8. Asymmetrical Black Engraved Wedding Band in Tungsten

by Blue Nile

Asymmetrical Black Engraved Wedding Band in Tungsten (8mm)

Anothing classy-yet-manly design featuring an asymmetrical inlay. This one’s perfect for the man that forges his own path and likes to make a subtle statement.

9. Koa Wood & Tungsten Men’s Wedding Band

by Etsy: ParieJewelry

Rings with unusual features are becoming more popular, which is great when done well. This ring does it beautifully by contrasting a patterned koa wood inlay with the black tungsten. Perfect.

We’ve seen silver, gold, and black tungsten rings, now for a couple more that are a little bit different.

10. Runes Tungsten Wedding Band

by Etsy: DeluxeBands

For all you vikings out there! Runes are cool, no doubt, but the best part is this tungsten ring is customizable. Have it engraved with your sweetheart’s name in runes and she’ll be seriously impressed.

11. Tungsten Men’s Wedding Band w/ Koa Wood & Turquoise

by Etsy: YorksJewelryDesign

Tungsten, turquoise, and koa wood is such a cool combination! If you want some color in your ring, this may just be the right wedding band for you.

Tungsten Tips

Before we get down to it, let’s address the elephant in the room.

Apparently, there’s a long-held belief that tungsten rings can’t be removed in an emergency. They’ve got to cut your finger off, instead. Sounds like fun right?! Well, let’s set the record straight:

Tungsten rings can totally be removed in an emergency situation!!

If they couldn’t, I seriously doubt anyone would wear one. And plenty of people wear tungsten, so don’t worry about it. Instead of being cut off, the get ‘cracked’ off in an emergency.

So what else do you need to know about tungsten before wearing it on your finger forever?

Tungsten’s got some heft

Tungsten isn’t just sturdy, it’s also quite heavy compared to other similar metals. Some men really like that weight, which makes sense from a couple of different angles, particularly if you’re afraid of losing it.

You can’t resize it

When trying on tungsten rings, take into careful consideration the fact that you can’t resize it! Get your finger properly sized by a jeweler (skip the string measuring, there’s no room for error here). If you’re prone to weight gain or swelling in the fingers, consider bumping your ring size up a notch (as long as it doesn’t slip off your finger, of course).

Doesn’t bend, but it’s not totally unbreakable

Unlike most other materials, tungsten won’t bend under pressure, but it can crack. If you’re into finger safety, this is a good thing.

Much better to break your band than watch it flatten your finger like a cartoon if you end up stuck with your hand in a press or something like that.

The price is right

Tungsten is nice and affordable, so if you do happen to have a ring-cracking or weight-gaining situation (or both), it won’t cost too much to replace it. It also won’t tarnish or scratch easily.

Looking sharp without breaking the bank? Yes, please.

How to care for your ring

As with most other natural metals, it’s recommended that you remove your ring if you’re going to be working with harsh chemicals. Other than that, it’s pretty low maintenance. Clean with mild soap and water, then polish with a soft cloth. Easy peasy.

Thoughts On Tungsten

The kind of guy who wears a tungsten wedding band is generally a “take-no-malarkey” kinda man, and we’re down with that.

While many still prefer traditionally symbolic metals like gold and silver, most men’s wedding bands on the market today are forged from less common materials. Tungsten is one of the relative newcomers to the game, and it’s got a lot to bring to the table in terms of affordability, durability, and diversity of style choices.

Hopefully, you’ve learned something new about tungsten, and our choices have struck a chord with you. Shopping for wedding bands is a lot of fun for us here at L&L, but we know it’s not fun for everyone, which is why we love sharing our picks.

If you’re not completely sold on tungsten, may we suggest you take a look at some other ring options in our blogs. You might just learn some interesting-but-possibly-useless trivia about precious metals, and (more importantly) figure out how to choose the right band for you.

We’re here for ya.

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When we think of crazy, no-nonsense tools for life, tungsten rings probably aren’t the first thing that comes to mind. That’s because these rings are surprisingly customizable and utterly awesome. They don’t just look good, their chemical composition is badass too! Check out the blog post to see our top favorites!

20 Utterly Romantic Blue Sapphire Engagement Rings

Once upon a time, the ancient Persians thought sapphires were so special, they believed that the earth had been created on top of the biggest blue sapphire ever, and that’s why the sky was blue.

Puts a lot of romantic meaning into a blue sapphire engagement ring, right?

Some cultures say sapphires have healing and calming properties. They are also thought to symbolize virtue, wisdom, and good fortune. When one presents a blue sapphire engagement ring to his or her beloved, it’s considered representative of sincerity and faithfulness.

Are you ready to have a look at some amazing blue sapphire rings? Let’s get started!

Blue Sapphire Engagement Rings

1. Oval Sapphire & Diamond Ring

by Blue Nile

I love the clean, refined lines in the design of this ring, and the brilliance of the white gold really brings out the vivid blue of the sapphire. You really can’t go wrong with a gemstone engagement ring that includes TWO diamonds and a big, bold blue sapphire center stone.

2. Blue Sapphire Oval Cut Halo Engagement Ring

by James Allen

There’s nothing quite as stunning as delicate diamonds framing the bluest-blue sapphire gemstone.

3. Rose Gold, Blue Cushion Sapphire, and Diamond Engagement Ring

by MinimalVS

It’s amazing how a rose gold setting can ever-so-slightly change the shade of a Ceylon sapphire. The metal and gemstones beautifully complement each other.

4. Coral Blue Sapphire Engagement Statement Ring

by AroshaTaglia

Just… wow. Yes, technically it’s an engagement ring, but it’s definitely also a show-stopping statement ring on its own. Feminine and powerful. We love it and we’re betting she will too.

5. Vintage Teal Sapphire Engagement Ring

by HenryRocky

Vintage Teal Sapphire Engagement Ring, Rose Gold

This ring is a shining example of just how many shades of blue sapphire are out there. The art deco style of this ring is the perfect setting for a vivid teal sapphire.

6. Blue Sapphire Cushion Cut Solitaire Ring

by James Allen

Sometimes the simplest of designs can make the biggest impression. Especially when it draws the eye to a gorgeous, deep blue sapphire.

7. Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring

by WinterFineJewelry

Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring 1.50 Carat Blue Sapphire Ring In 14k or 18k Yellow Gold

The other-worldly glow of yellow gold makes this fancy sapphire look like blue velvet. Be prepared for endless compliments!

8. Oval Sapphire and Diamond Split Shank Wedding Ring

by Blue Nile

Oval Sapphire and Diamond Split Shank Ring in 14k White Gold

A split shank design has always seemed so perfectly unconventional to me. It really is the best way to showcase stylish simplicity.

9. Princess Diana-Inspired Blue Sapphire Ring With White Diamond Halo

by Angara

Princess Diana-Inspired Blue Sapphire Ring With Diamond Halo

No list of exceptional blue sapphire engagement rings would be complete without a ring inspired by the most well-known blue sapphire ring in modern history.

Princess Diana’s blue sapphire engagement ring is proudly worn by Kate Middleton now, and it couldn’t be more fitting for ring royalty.

Comes in 14K yellow, white, or rose gold, or platinum.

10. Dark Blue Trillion Cut Sapphire Ring

by Etsy: LuoJewelry

This dark blue sapphire immediately reminds me of royalty – soft, feminine, and timelessly iconic. This ring is perfect for the woman who has made your world a real-life fairy tale.

11. Floral Two-Tone Blue Sapphire Ring

by CamelliaJewelry

Vintage inspired with a modern twist, this ring set by Camellia Jewelry is an absolute showstopper. It’s large center gemstone, diamond accents, and intricately designed band bear a striking resemblance to the trends of the 1950’s and 60’s, while the two-toned metals and shapely, diamond encrusted wedding band make this set look like it is straight from the future!

12. Montana Sapphire

by Etsy: EMJMontanaSapphires

Simple, chic, and stunning, this beautiful piece of jewlery will go with anything and will never go out of style!

13. Three Row Sapphire and Round Diamond Ring

by Blue Nile

Truly a ring fit for royalty, this ring oozes opulence. A row of intensely blue sapphires, two rows of brilliant diamonds, and a scene stealing diamond in the center, this ring truly has everything. What else could a woman want?

14. Criss Cross Marquise Blue Sapphire Ring

by Angara

This beauty is the perfect mix of elegantly understated and breathtakingly unique. Its marquise cut immediately sets it apart from other, traditional engagement rings and the criss-cross patterned band adds a complimentary bit of flair without being overwhelming. This ring will make any woman feel like one of a kind!

15. Double Halo Blue Sapphire & Diamond Ring

by Etsy: honngaijewelry

Blue Sapphire and Diamond Engagement Ring

A halo of diamonds can turn any ordinary gemstone into an upscale piece of fine jewelry, but two halos of diamonds can make that same item into a piece of art. We love the way this vibrant sapphire complements the simple pave diamonds, adding a pop of color we can’t take our eyes off of!

16. Twig Engagement Ring

by BlossomAndSuch

This teal sapphire centered on an incredibly detailed band is perfect for the woman in your life who dreams of lake side cabins, long hikes, and spontaneous camping trips. She’ll love that she can carry her passion for the outdoors everywhere she goes, even if stuck inside.

17. Twisted Vine Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring

by Angara

This ring is enchanting. The vibrant center sapphire, the twin set of diamonds and the band that twists like ivy, makes this a unique and eye-catching piece that she won’t be able to take her eyes off of!

18. Vintage Inspired Large Blue Sapphire Ring

by EnveroJewelry

This piece may be vintage inspired, but it will never go out of style. Clean, simple, and sophisticated, your bride-to-be will be able to pass this down through future generations without worrying about the latest trends.

19. Unique Princess Cut Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring

by WinterEngagement

I adore this ring from every angle. When turned vertically, it resembles a sparkling tiara fit for a real princess. When observed straight on, the brilliant solitary sapphire and diamond accents reveal a boldness and elegance fit for a queen.

20. Bypass Pear Shaped Blue Sapphire Ring

by Angara

I love a traditional, solitaire engagement ring and up until now I never thought I could love a style of ring more, but this piece has changed the game. It has all of the elements of my favorite style – a solitary gemstone and a thin, clean cut band – with a creative flair that I can’t keep my eyes off of.

Why Choose a Blue Sapphire Engagement Ring?

There are so many great reasons to make a blue sapphire the stone you put on her finger forever. Here are just a few:

She Dares To Be Different

Certainly, more and more brides are opting for sapphires (and other colored stones) to take center stage in their engagement ring setting because it stands out in a crowd. A splash of color can take an engagement ring from beautiful to dazzling, which is perfect for your dare-to-be-different gal.

Now don’t get me wrong. If my husband were to jump up off the sofa in the middle of his beloved Formula One race and say “Hey, can I get you a brand new diamond ring? You interested?” I wouldn’t say no. I’d take his temperature, but I definitely wouldn’t say no.

That said, the sentiment that “A diamond is forever” is getting left in the dust, and it’s about time. The notion that if he doesn’t give us a diamond he clearly thinks we’re secondhand goods has been around since 1938. It’s outdated, to say the least, not to mention a straight-up tricky marketing campaign engineered by diamond companies.

She’s Socially-Conscious

Most sapphires are sourced from small, independently-owned family mines. This means that every sapphire you buy is most likely supporting hard-working families and their communities.

But how can we be sure of where her sapphire is coming from? How do we know it’s an ethically sourced stone? The short answer is there’s no way to know for sure, but it helps that sapphires are generally more traceable. That makes it easier to determine their origins and the conditions in which they were mined and transported.

Also, procedures and standards set by the World Jewelry Confederation help ensure the business of buying and selling sapphires remains as ethical as possible. For instance, in Sri Lanka, the government put regulations in place forbidding mechanical mining so locally-owned mines can stay in business.

She Knows A Good Thing When She Sees It

The most valuable blue sapphires are often the most saturated in hue, and it’s usually easier to spot a quality blue sapphire than other colors.

A good quality sapphire should be vivid and velvety, sometimes with a super subtle tinge of violet. If your sapphire is too dark, too light, or even grayish in color, it’s probably not as valuable.

Even the British royal family favors blue sapphires. As we mentioned above, the family hosts one of the most famous blue sapphire engagement rings ever.

The origins of the royal family’s love affair with blue sapphires go way, way back to the mid-19th century with Queen Victoria’s equally-famous blue sapphire and diamond brooch. Anyway, you get the point. If it’s good enough for England’s monarchs, it’s good enough for us.

She Values Strength

With a score of 9 out of 10, sapphires are among the strongest of stones according to the Mohs scale of mineral hardness. They’re durable, strong enough to go with her everywhere, and can stand the test of time. If that’s not symbolic of your love, I don’t know what is.

She’s Financially-Savvy

Carat for carat, sapphires are a much better value than diamonds without sacrificing quality and beauty. They also retain their value brilliantly, so once you’ve introduced a blue sapphire into the family, you can bet it will become a beloved heirloom.

More About Sapphires

If you’re interested in a more comprehensive guide to how to choose a sapphire engagement ring, check out this article we published a little while back for some more tips and info to help you choose the best ring for her.

Each sapphire has its own personality, and with so many hues of blues from which to choose (ha! I rhyme all the time!), you’re bound to find one that’s perfect for your sweetheart. Happy sapphire shopping

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15 Men’s Wood Wedding Bands including Koa, Redwood and even Whisky Barrel!

Wood wedding bands are fast becoming a popular choice for those searching for a men’s ring with a special twist. They bring an organic flavor to traditional wedding bands with various types of wood and materials found in nature.

A symbol of strength and growth, wood seems like the perfect choice for a unique wedding ring! Wood brings connection to our roots, nature, and history when wood was used for everything from tools to fuel for a fire to jewelry.

They also are just plain and simply – unique. With each piece having different textures, grains, and shades of color, no two are alike. I predict you can be quite confident that people will notice and ask about your wood ring.

Mens Wood Ring FAQ

How Are They Made, and What Are They Made Of?

These rings are made using various techniques from being carved out of a single block of wood to being wrapped around a cylinder of metal. You can find rings with wood inlays or wood overlays. “Bentwood” rings are made from bending wood strips into a cylinder and securing them with a special adhesive. It’s also very common to find wood combined with metals such as titanium or gold.

Many other natural materials are gaining popularity in combination with wood. These can be anything from deer antler to gemstones and minerals, to moss and meteorite.

Are They Strong?

While wooden rings are not as strong as a solid metal ring, they are surprisingly durable. In general, wooden wedding bands are very solid and built to last. Most are water-resistant and many are sealed with a finish that makes them waterproof. If you purchase a water-resistant ring, it’s generally recommended that you take it off when swimming or showering if you want to be sure your ring doesn’t get damaged.

As with any type of jewelry, it’s important to remove rings when cleaning and using chemicals.

How much do Wood Wedding Bands Cost?

For the most part, wooden rings are a more affordable option than precious metals. If you choose to select a ring with materials such as diamonds, obviously that will begin approaching traditional precious metal ring price points. Precious and authentic rare materials and customization will also cost a little more. However, for those looking for a more affordable alternative, wood rings are a great choice.

Now that we’ve covered the basics, let’s get into some of our favorite crafted wood rings available for your special day. From budget options to more luxurious choices, we’ve covered all bases with our top fifteen wood ring picks.

Wooden wedding bands are the perfect choice for a couple searching for an inexpensive, eco-friendly, one-of-a-kind wedding ring designed with high quality workmanship.

Men’s Wood Wedding Band – Top Picks

1) Mahogany Marine Ply Wedding Band

By WOODintheHOOD

If budget is a consideration, this is a wonderful option on our list. Made from marine plywood, this ring is light yet strong and water-resistant. A great choice for those who love a rustic look.

2) Turquoise, Deer Antler and Koa Wood Band

By Etsy: OhmsJewelry

This exquisite handcrafted ring features rose gold inlaid with genuine turquoise, deer antler and Koa wood. Each ring is artisan crafted with its original living features so you will truly have a one-of-a-kind ring.

3) California Redwood Burl Gold Band

By WedgeWood Rings

Iconic Redwood burl sets this ring apart from the rest. Redwoods have the largest burl in the world and can be 2300-2700 years old. Set with 14 or 18k yellow gold options, this impressive ring won’t disappoint.

4) Tennessee Whisky Barrel and Ebony Band

By HawkinsHandicrafts

If you’re a friend of Jack Daniels, this might just be the ring for you! This hand-turned oak and ebony ring was cut right from Jack Daniels whiskey barrels. Dark black Gaboon ebony wood provides a striking contrast on the outer edges. Customize it to your preference with ceramic or titanium inlays.

5) Amboyna Burl Band

By Etsy: RobandLean

If you prefer more contemporary and modern design, this amboyna burl ring checks that box nicely. A gorgeous rich tone and unique grain pattern contrast with aerospace-grade titanium for a sleek look.

6) Bentwood Band

By JoshAndKateDesigns

Classic and tasteful, this bentwood ring features a rich grain contrasted with striking black ebony. The design and materials feel perfectly understated and timeless.

7) Carbon Fiber Metallic Band

By Rosler

Carbon fiber meets wood in this stylish, streamlined ring. Made with curved gray wood and carbon fiber, it has a gorgeous neutral tone that is timeless and won’t lose its color.

8) Gibeon Meteorite Wedding Band

By jewelrybyjohan

Really, what’s cooler than wearing a meteorite AND a whiskey barrel around your finger? This ring blends both materials beautifully for an industrial, contemporary feeling that will still be cool in decades to come.

9) Titanium and Wood Wedding Band

By EvolyStudios

This band has a little bit of everything – rose gold, tungsten, deer antler, and a koa wood inlay. With neutral shades inspired by nature, this ring is a versatile and memorable choice.

10) Black Plated Tungsten and Koa Wood Band

By Etsy: ParieJewelry

Metal meets wood with this eye-catching tungsten ring. A beautiful choice for those who can’t decide between an unconventional wooden wedding ring and a traditional metal band.

11) Gibeon Meteorite and Arizona Ironwood Wedding Band

By RenaissanceJewelry

Another fine choice is this exquisite Gibeon Meteorite wedding band with Cobalt Chrome and Arizona Ironwood. Authentic textured meteorite provides a striking contrast against polished ironwood. A flat bevel top makes this ring as comfortable as it is eye-catching.

Check out more meteorite bands here.

12) Wenge Wood Wedding Band

By UnityRingDesigns

Can’t decide between wood and metal? Why not try a ring that offers a metal look with a comfortable wood liner. This charming ring combines gold tungsten with smooth wenge wood for a classic band with an unexpected twist.

13) Turquoise Wood Root Wedding Band

By agatechristina

Turquoise and wood root combine with titanium for a ring that will command attention. The turquoise provides a little unique pop of color for those who want something a little different from the rest.

14) Wood, Hydrangea, Mint, and Moss Band

By VyTvir

Nature lovers out there will go crazy over this magnificent ring. Made with wood, green hydrangea, mint moss and your choice of metal setting, this ring was made to symbolize love and loyalty.

15) Alchemist Wood Band

By OriginHG

If variety and customization are important to you, this alchemist wood ring is an excellent option. Choose from four different colors of resin-infused Manitoba Maple. Baked and permanently bonded, this ring is strong, durable and water-resistant.

Why Wood for a Wedding Band?

There a couple different reasons why one would choose to have a wooden wedding band made for your man. One, depending on what type of finish is on the ring, a wood ring in most cases is hypoallergenic. Making it a fantastic option for anyone who suffers from metal allergies.

Two, if nature plays a big part of your life along with the values of renew and recycle, than a wood ring makes a very meaningful choice.

Two Types of Wood Rings – When shopping for a wood ring you are bound to come across two different types of rings, bentwood and wood inlay.

Bentwood Ring

A bent wood ring is process rather than an actual wood tyep. It is where they steam thin wood strips until soften and then slowly wrap them around a cylinder, while applying a special bonding agent.

Bentwood rings are extremely durable. The special bonding glue that is applied helps give the ring strength and also preserves the wood.
They are not waterproof but are highly water resistance
They will require maintenance over time where the ring should be re-polished with the bonding agent.
Depending on the type of wood used, bentwood rings should be able to handle a few bumps here and there and most marks can be repaired. Some woods are harder than others, but we will cover that more below.

Wood Inlay Rings

Wood inlay rings are where the wood is inlaid into a metal like titanium or tungsten. They are durable but can still break.

From the thick resin layer, wood inlay rings are 100% waterproof.
The only real maintenance they need is to be polished with a soft cloth.
They can withstand everyday wear and tear a lot better than a bentwood ring.

Pros of Wooden Wedding Rings

Eco-friendly characteristics
They come in a variety of styles: plain wood bands, colorful inlay designs and braided patterns. They can even be set with diamonds or gemstones.
Wood wedding rings are in most cases hypoallergenic
No two are exactly alike
Affordable ring choice
Poor conductor of heat and electricity
They can be customize and engraved

Cons of wooden wedding bands

Bentwood rings will require special care instructions both with regards to wear and maintenance. (Long periods of being in water, exposure to creams, oils, chemicals and hard knocks should be avoided)
They cannot be resized

Best Types of Wood for a Wooden Ring

When choosing a wood band, the best types of hardwood to look for are oak, walnut, birch, maple, dogwood, applewood, ash, hickory, cherry, aspen, elm, poplar, and eucalyptus. Each of these woods have their own unique grain and a special meaning behind them.

If eco-friendly rings are top priority, please be aware of endangered woods like mahogany, Brazilwood, rosewood, Madagascar Ebony, Spanish Cedar, and sandalwood. If you do however fancy one of these listed, just make sure it has been collected sustainably. (ie. branches found on the forest floor.)

That wraps up our favorite picks for wooden wedding rings. Whether you are a nature lover or just looking for something a little extra special for your wedding band, wood is a fantastic material choice. It is a reminder to stay grounded and remember our roots.

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8 White Sapphire Engagement Rings to Totally Dazzle Her!

Many can’t tell the difference between white sapphire and diamond. When you have a look at the white sapphire engagement rings we’ve showcased in this article, you’ll see why.

It’s said that ancient Greek petitioners wore the white sapphire while consulting with their oracles (like the ones in Delphi). The sapphire purportedly made the oracles’ language clearer to the wearers. It’s also said to represent the traits of fairness, objectivity, and morality.

The sentiment behind giving a white sapphire engagement ring to the woman you love is just as profound as its symbolism and history, which is why shopping for one can be a bit daunting.

Not to worry! We’ve done some of the legwork for you and found some white sapphire engagement rings we think she’ll love as much as we do…

White Sapphire Engagement Rings

1. Blake Lively White Sapphire Oval Cut Ring

by ForeverForLove

This ring features a 2.8ct natural, non-treated white sapphire. We especially like this one because white sapphire and rose gold are simply a gorgeous combination.

The design was inspired by the Blake Lively engagement ring. Now, you may have noticed during your shopping adventures there are a lot of engagement rings out there touting that they’re inspired by the Blake Lively ring. “What’s up with that?” you ask? Have a look, and be prepared for the shock.

2. Oval Cut White Sapphire Vintage Wedding Ring

by Mindjewelry

While a traditional solitaire ring is always going to be a popular choice (we’ve got one a little later on you’ll love), the way this oval cut will look on her finger is going to make her feel extra gorgeous.

3. Oval Cut White Sapphire Engagement Ring

by EJCOLLECTIONS

As soon as we saw this ring, “family heirloom” came to mind. We love it set against white gold, but it would look equally stunning with rose gold or yellow gold.

4. Basque Ring with Round White Sapphire

by Diamondere

Basque Ring With 5.9ct Round White Sapphire

This ring is so elegant and delicate and comes with the option of having it engraved. Make her cry even more happy tears when you propose by adding a sweet sentiment or a date that’s important to you both.

5. Classic White Sapphire With Sterling Silver Setting Ring

by MoonkistDesigns

Here’s that traditional solitaire ring we mentioned earlier. This one’s so timeless, you’ll definitely be passing it on for generations to come.

6. Cushion Cut White Sapphire Ring

by Etsy: TheSilvermistJewels

The design of this ring is so simple and elegant, and you can customize it to her preferences. Does she prefer white gold? They’ll make it for you!

7. Emerald Cut White Sapphire Ring

by Etsy: JamieParkJewelry

There’s nothing like a clean, crisp emerald-cut stone. This one truly stands out in a crowd.

8. Round Vintage White Sapphire Ring

by Diamondere

There’s so much going on with this ring, but that’s what makes it so lovely. It’s perfectly harmonized and will sit beautifully on her finger.

Guide To Buying White Sapphires

Before you plunk down your hard-earned cash, we wanted to arm you with a little information about the gemstone itself and what to look for when you’re shopping for white sapphire engagement rings.

But first, let’s get down to the question that’s usually on everyone’s mind when they see a white sapphire:

What’s the Difference Between a White Sapphire and a Diamond?

Besides the name, white sapphires and diamonds differ in a few areas.

Price

It only takes one glance at the price of a white sapphire engagement ring to see the dramatic difference in price, carat for carat.

For instance, the average price of a 1.5ct natural white sapphire is around $1,200 to $1,500. Compare that to a 1.5ct natural diamond, which will set you back anywhere from $6,500 to $15,000 depending on cut, clarity, and appearance.

Appearance

The inner fire and brilliance of a diamond are undeniable. Still, some white sapphires can give them a run for their money (for less money). For most gemstones, its brilliance is dependent on how it’s cut, and a beautifully-cut white sapphire can seriously sparkle.

The luster of white sapphire varies from stone to stone. An expert will be able to distinguish the difference between a diamond and a white sapphire. To most, however, the two are often indistinguishable.

Hardness Factor

On the Mohs scale of mineral hardness, a diamond is the only stone to score a perfect 10. Sapphires score a 9, making them quite durable as well. They stand up beautifully to everyday wear, which is important seeing as she’ll be wearing it every day. They do, however, have a tendency to scratch a little more easily than diamonds.

How Do I Know if it’s a Quality White Sapphire?

GIA Analysis

Diamonds are officially graded by the Gemological Institute of America (GIA). To learn a little more about how that works, check out GIA’s website.

While sapphires aren’t graded in the same way, GIA publishes reports on a sapphire’s place of origin and whether it’s been treated. By treated, we don’t mean if everyone’s been nice to it; we’re talking about how it’s synthesized in the lab, if it’s a lab-created sapphire (more on that to come).

GIA also rates the stones’ transparency, color, weight, shape, cutting style, and size measurements. If you’d like to have her white sapphire analyzed, you can find out how here.

Color

Many professionals say that color is one of the biggest measurements of a sapphire’s value. Sapphires come in a vast array of colors (except red, those are rubies), but when choosing a white sapphire, pick a stone that’s as colorless as possible.

Clarity

Sapphires of all colors will almost always have slight imperfections due to mineralization during the crystallization process as well as a few other factors. These imperfections affect their clarity. The same rules apply with white sapphires as with other gemstones: the fewer flaws it has, the more valuable it is.

Cut

Like other gemstones, the cut of a sapphire affects its hue and “sparkle factor.” As you may have noticed from our sapphire engagement ring choices above, sapphires come in all kinds of cuts – round, emerald, ovals, and cushion, to name a few.

When considering the cut, the second most important consideration is its depth. (The first, of course, is whether she’ll like the cut.) If you end up purchasing a white sapphire online, take it to a jeweler to have it examined. He or she can tell you if the cuts are too shallow or too deep. We want them just right. Like the porridge that Goldilocks ate.

Carat

With any precious stone, the higher the carat, the more valuable it is. A little gemstone 101 for you: a gem’s carat size refers to its weight. So the heavier the rock, the more it costs.

A Quick Note On Natural vs. Lab-Created Sapphires

Since natural sapphires are mined straight from the earth, they don’t need to be treated like lab-created white sapphires do. Mother Nature has done all of that process herself.

There are plenty of reasons why some prefer natural sapphires:

The idea of presenting your bride-to-be with a gem that was naturally-sourced from the earth over possibly millions of years is pretty darn romantic.

Tradition often mandates that naturally occurring stones are often more meaningful to the intended recipient. A lab-created stone just doesn’t seem as special to some people.

Of course, a naturally-mined white sapphire is also rarer, which directly influences its value.

Since an engagement ring is symbolic of a long life together, many purchase a ring with the ultimate purpose of passing it down among the generations, and a ring with a naturally-mined stone will retain its value better than a lab-created sapphire.

Lab-created sapphires have their own set of positive considerations as well:

Growing gemstones in a lab is a controlled process and allows for more customized options for shape and size. Depending on how the stone has been treated (see, we told you we’d be bringing it up again), it can intensify the stone’s brilliance and hue.

The recommendation among the experts is to always purchase a lab-created white sapphire that has been heat-treated. If you’re unsure, ask the seller specifically how it was treated.

Laboratory-created sapphires are less expensive than naturally-mined ones.

Production of white sapphires in a lab is often thought of as more ethical and less invasive to the Earth than blasting into mountains and tunneling down there to mine them.

Some may disagree with this observation, and the issue isn’t as simple as all that. Still, the ethical implications of how and where a precious gemstone was acquired is something to take into consideration.

Go Boldly Forward

Now that we’ve given you some practical information and a short list of some of the most beautiful white sapphire engagement rings we could find, you’re ready to go get that ring! We bet as soon as she opens the box, it’ll be love at first sight. Just be sure to have someone standing by to take a picture.

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