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15 Modern Male Engagement Rings He’ll Love

The question of “do men wear engagement rings?” seems to be trending lately.

Maybe it’s because guys are tired of wearing boring bands. Perhaps it’s because we live in a modern world where men are increasingly on the receiving end of proposals. Or maybe it’s because the groom-to-be is from Sweden or Brazil.

Whatever the case, we do know that due to increased demand, a wave of gorgeous new male engagement rings is here for us to enjoy!

We’ve already brought you a list of some of the most unique bands we could find in 2021. We also showed you gorgeous rings tailored to the LGBTQ community, including some unisex rings and men’s rings that anyone would love.

Now, with great enthusiasm, we present a plethora of engagement rings for men that round out our wedding rings for men topic beautifully. (Because rings are round. And my puns are lame.)

Enjoy!

Table Of Contents

All About Male Engagement Rings
Male Engagement Ring Buying Considerations For YOU
Male Engagement Rings To Put Some Sparkle In Your Proposal
Male Engagement Ring FAQ

All About Male Engagement Rings

What is a Male Engagement Ring? How is it different from a wedding band?

It doesn’t matter whether we’re talking about men’s or women’s styles – an engagement ring, also known as a proposal ring, is traditionally given as a symbol of commitment upon the proposal.

It doesn’t necessarily have to look different from a wedding band, but usually it does. We’re not sure why that’s a thing, but we’re guessing it has something to do with some stuffy tradition of betrothal.

Not that we don’t love that custom. It means more rings for us to shop for and more guys wearing engagement rings!

What do men’s engagement rings look like?

A men’s engagement ring can look like whatever you think fits his style and individuality!

Like we said above, bucking tradition is sort of the name of the game when it comes to picking out an engagement ring for your man. Hence, no law says it has to look like anything but a symbol of your love.

Who Should Buy the Male Engagement Ring?

Traditionally speaking, one half of the partnership buys the other half’s ring suite. We think that’s kind of nice, seeing as it’s like the ultimate gift to show you love each other.

Also, it’s hard to surprise someone with an engagement ring if you use their credit card to buy it.

On Which Hand/Finger Do you Wear the Male Engagement Ring?

The hand you wear an engagement ring on varies depending upon cultural tradition.

In some cultures, engagement rings are worn on the right hand, then moved to the left on the wedding day. In others, the engagement ring stays on the left hand along with the wedding ring.

Celebrities Seen With Man-gagement Rings

Check out pics of Charlie Sheen, Michael Bublé (whose wife is from Argentina, where it’s traditional for a man to wear an engagement ring), and Osi Umenyiora. Also, David Otunga, Johnny Depp, and Ed Sheeran.

You’ll notice all those handsome fellas have sported beautiful engagement rings to signal their “taken” status.

Male Engagement Ring Buying Considerations For YOU

What matters most when it comes to selecting a men’s engagement ring? The same things that matter when choosing a women’s engagement ring: durability, materials, and style!

Durability

Everyone wants an engagement ring that lasts forever, but often, durability is only as guaranteed as the lifestyle of the wearer. Meaning that the more active your man is, the more likely he is to do some damage to the ring.

However, there are plenty of rings designed to hold up to all kinds of abuse. Silicone is the choice of athletes and guys with manual-heavy jobs. Suppose you’re not in the rubber camp? In that case, tungsten is another excellent choice for takin’ care of business without breaking the ring.

Material

Of course, there are plenty of traditional silver and gold wedding and engagement bands out there. They’re classic.

But when it comes to materials for men’s engagement rings, you’ll find a massive variety of choices. The sky’s the limit. Literally – there are wedding rings for men made from meteorites!

If your guy is the off-the-beaten-path sort, a variety of wood wedding bands are ripe for the picking, too.

You’ll see unconventional metals like Damascus, titanium, and cobalt making a stunning appearance on men’s hands around the world.

Stones

Diamonds and emeralds and opals, oh my! These are just a few of the sparkly gems you’ll find on our favorite men’s engagement rings, and often, they’re what makes them distinctive.

Take care to pick your stones carefully, though. Once again, if you’ve got a guy whose lifestyle includes getting physical regularly, keep it tough. Diamonds and moissanite are great choices for durable rings.

While they’re stunning, gemstones like lapis lazuli and turquoise aren’t so hard.

Want more information about how to choose the stone that’s right for your ring? Check out the Gemological Institute of America’s website (GIA for short).

Personal Style

Picking an engagement ring that reflects your sweetheart’s personal style is what makes the shopping part fun!

Whether he’s flashy and loves the spotlight, is always on-trend, or would just as soon keep it simple and classic, there’s something for every groom. And if it isn’t out there, there are plenty of skilled jewelers ready to craft your one-of-a-kind ring.

The only restrictions are your imagination and (potentially) your budget.

Male Engagement Rings To Put Some Sparkle In Your Proposal

1. Artemis Diamond Accented Ring

by Brilliant Earth

Understated but interesting, this is a great example of how a masculine ring doesn’t have to be plain and stuffy. We think it’ll pair really well with any style of wedding band you’d like to stack with it!

Comes in white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and platinum.

Customizable to fit any size

2. Sterling Silver Moon Surface Ring

by Etsy: BySilverStone

If your man is an astronomy buff, he’ll be over the moon when you propose with this sterling silver band! It’s so unique, it’ll attract all the attention he can handle. And the more compliments he gets on the ring, the more people will know he’s yours.

Swoon.

Comes in sizes 6-14

3. Yellow Gold & Emerald Ring

by Angara

An understated emerald is the star of this engagement ring, making it an excellent choice for the guy who loves some bling without blinding everyone. Besides, there’s no pairing quite like shiny yellow gold and sparkling emeralds.

Comes in sizes 4-14

4. Silicone Engagement Ring

by Halo

We’re big fans of silicone wedding rings at my house (for both him and me) for their durability and comfort. Not to mention they’re so low-maintenance.

This one is classic black with a yellow gold underside – perfect alone or paired with a yellow gold wedding band on the big day. It’s also reversible, because some days a man wants to wear black, and others he wants to wear gold. Choices are nice.

Available in sizes 5-14

5. Hammered Rough Gold Ring

by Etsy: ZadokGold

Reminiscent of ancient royalty, we think this one’s good enough for Cleopatra to give her Mark Antony. This handcrafted ring is the perfect balance of masculinity: hammered for ruggedness, but the diamond solitaire gives it a softer edge.

Available in 14K and 18K yellow gold, in any size

6. Wood & Opal Men’s Engagement Ring

by Etsy: JapaneseMelody

We love unique and unconventional rings of any kind, so this stunning wood engagement ring immediately earned a place on our list. The combination of wood and opal with shining tungsten gives it an organic, earthy glow.

It comes with the perfect wooden box to present when you get down on one knee to pop the question, too.

Available in sizes 3-15

7. Baguette Diamonds Men’s Ring

by Leibish

Now, THIS ring has some bling! If your boyfriend loves the finer things and likes to show it, this is the ring for him! Those glittering baguettes will complement any center stone you choose with eye-catching style.

Comes in your choice of platinum or 18K gold in sizes 9 – 12 1/2

8. Stainless Steel Clear CZ Statement Ring

by Blue Steel

Another flashy choice, only the biggest personalities with serious swagger can pull this one off every day. It would certainly be drool-worthy on a man in a tux. Just sayin’.

But don’t let the glamorous front fool you! The setting is tough stainless steel, titanium, and tungsten – perfect for bar-to-black-tie wear.

Comes in sizes 8-13

9. Opal Signet Ring

by Etsy: Twistedpendant

Opals (not to be confused with moonstone) are mysterious gemstones. The official birthstone of October, rumor has it that they’re bad luck for anyone who wears one except those born in the month famous for Halloween.

We’re not sure who said it first, but we’re pretty sure it’s a bunch of malarkey.

Regardless, the mesmerizing multicolored opacity of the opal makes a stunning men’s signet engagement ring.

Available in your choice of silver or 18K gold-plated, sizes 5-12

10. Sapphire & Platinum Ring

by Etsy: SapphireJewelStudio

Modern and minimalist are the adjectives that best describe this platinum everyday wear ring. A stunning blue sapphire is nestled within the band, giving it a flash of colorful personality while maintaining an air of sophistication.

Available in sizes 3-12

11. Black Titanium & Diamond Ring

by Tiffany

If you have to ask, you can’t afford it, right? We didn’t call client care to find out the deets about this dream ring (nor does anyone we know already have one), but it’s easy to guess how much a standard 3.36-carat Tiffany ring might be.

It’s sexy, it’s classy, it’s Tiffany. What more do you need to know?

12. Princess-Cut Solitaire Diamond

by Sun Jewelry

A ring with subtle sparkle fits any occasion! We love the angular setting design, and from pear-shaped to cushion, you can choose the cut that suits your beloved’s style.

We happen to really like the princess cut because of its art-deco vibe.

Comes in gold, platinum, and palladium, sizes 7-12

13. Barcelona 14K Rose Gold Ring

by Equalli

Onyx and rose gold are a striking combination as is. But add sapphires in every color under the rainbow, and you’ve got a ring with some serious personality!

If you’re proud to show the world that you’ve managed to rope the man of your dreams, this is the ring for you. (Also, good job roping the man of your dreams.)

Made specifically to accommodate any ring size

14. White Gold & Diamonds Ring

by Angara

Classic with a splash of flair, this combo of white gold and diamonds makes an engagement ring perfect for the discriminating man. We love how the grooved setting suggests a traditional wedding band hidden inside a non-traditional design.

Comes in rose gold, white gold, yellow gold, and platinum in sizes 3-14

15. 18K Yellow Gold Rainbow Austin Ring

by Brilliant Earth

Rainbow gemstones sparkle beautifully in a yellow gold setting, but they’ll look just as fab with any setting you choose, from rose gold to platinum! It’s the perfect ring to show off your love with pride for the whole world to see.

Comes in white gold, rose gold, yellow gold, and platinum, fully customizable to fit any size

Male Engagement Ring FAQ

Is it weird for a guy to wear an engagement ring?

This question pops up a lot. Hopefully, after reading this post, you now know it isn’t. Engagement rings are for anyone who’s engaged. Done and done.

Can he wear both an engagement ring and a wedding band?

We think an engagement ring/wedding band combo is just as fitting for a man as for a woman. Just keep in mind, size matters. If his engagement ring is wide and his wedding ring is wide, they might be hard to wear together, so plan accordingly!

How much do male engagement rings cost?

That all depends upon where you buy it and what it’s made from. For instance, the Tiffany ring on our list is most likely on the, um, pricier side. Conversely, the handsome opal signet ring from Etsy starts out at about $35.

What is the average ring size for men?

The most common ring size for a man is a size 10, so if you’re attempting to wing it (ring it?), that may be a good guess.

Otherwise, if you want to be sneaky about getting more accurate, trace the circumference of a ring he already has with a pencil. Then, you can compare that with oodles of ring size guides you’ll find online to get a closer estimate.

Google it. There’s a ton out there.

Time To Pop The Question!

If you’re debating on asking your man to marry you but are nervous about finding the perfect male engagement ring for him, take heart. While we love the options we included in our list, there are so many wonderful designs beyond what we’ve shown you here!

So go get that ring, take a deep breath, and prepare to begin your forever together. Good luck!

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18 Outdoor Wedding Dresses Perfect For Your Beach, Boho, or Garden Wedding!

Just picture it: a beautiful outdoor wedding ceremony under the sun or the stars, with the love of your life and your friends and family gathered to celebrate with you. Does it get any better than that? We think not.

Though we might be a bit biased, and somewhat easily swayed by a particularly stunning photoshoot…we are wedding enthusiasts, after all!

But today we’ve turned our attention to the wide world of outdoor weddings. Whether it be a garden gazebo or a beach with guests sitting on blankets, outdoor weddings often give brides a chance to express their personal style. Thanks to their slightly more casual vibes, brides have an enormous selection of wedding gowns to choose from.

You can take a hint from the natural beauty that surrounds you and add a pop of color. Or, mimic the lovely florals with some lace appliques. Sheer and ethereal is always an alluring choice befitting of a more semi-formal wedding. And, if you’ve been waiting for warmer weather to show off some more skin, there are plenty of low back, plunging, and high slit gowns waiting for you!

Are you excited yet? Because we are! We can’t wait to share our absolute favorite outdoor wedding dresses with you!

Table Of Contents

What Type of Dress is Best for an Outdoor Wedding?
Our Favorite Outdoor Wedding Dresses
Outdoor Wedding Dress FAQ

What Type of Dress is Best for an Outdoor Wedding?

As we mentioned, outdoor weddings generally give brides a lot of freedom (breathe a sigh of relief!) when it comes to dress style, cuts, and materials. But for all its awesomeness, there is one drawback to an outdoor wedding – and that’s the weather. Mother nature can either behave or crash your wedding. Thankfully though, we have some tips for that too!

Dress Styles

When it comes to outdoor weddings, there is almost no wrong answer to the question, “what dress should I wear?”. As long as you choose the right fabrics, you can get away with just about anything.

Nevertheless, some dresses are more suited to specific locations than others. Warmer outdoor weddings may call for a knee-length dress, a halter dress, or a low-back dress. If you want to wear sleeves in warm weather, lace cap or butterfly sleeves can keep you both cool and modest. Princess ball gowns might get a bit hot in the summer but can be positively enchanting for a winter wedding.

The bottom line? It’s all about whatever you feel most comfortable in!

Wedding Dress Cuts

We adore a mermaid or trumpet gown for a beach wedding (it isn’t hard to guess why!). Garden weddings can be the perfect locale for an A-line or tea-length dress (this is what our content editor opted for at her outdoor garden wedding last year!). Whimsical forest settings are well suited to column gowns or sheath dresses, while ball gowns and dresses with sleeves perfectly complement winter wonderland weddings.

But once again, it’s really up to you. If you want to wear an extravagant organza ballgown to your wedding in the woods or a long sleeved jumpsuit to your intimate garden ceremony, we’re here for it!

Wedding Dress Materials

Heat is not your friend on your wedding day. Take it from someone who knows – you’ll likely be running warm, so keep this in mind when choosing your dress.

Think about the weather, the time of day, and the location. Warm weddings call for cool fabrics: think sheer, lacy, and lightweight. You can still choose a gown that’s full-figured, just make sure your layers are breathable.

Have a winter wedding in mind? You have a bit more wiggle room, especially if you plan on adding an accessory (more on that later!).

Dressing for Your Venue

Nobody has ever said you can’t wear long sleeves on a beach in July, but it might not be the best idea for your comfort. Again, weather, time of day, and location are key. Will it be hot? Cold? Windy? Sunny?

Try to choose a dress that will play to your venue’s strengths. For example, a low back, ethereal silk chiffon gown for a sunny seaside affair. Just think of how gorgeous the photos would be!

Accessories and Weather

Warm weather brides may find the fewer accessories they have, the better off they are. You may even want to switch up your chapel length veil for a birdcage or hair chain. Cold weather brides can accessorize with a cape, a jacket, or long gloves.

Atypical Settings for Alternative Brides

If you’re an alternative bride, an atypical setting, like a garden or a vineyard gives you an awesome opportunity to flaunt your unique style. Want to wear a bridal suit, add a cape to your gown, or wear a black wedding dress? Go for it!

Our Favorite Outdoor Wedding Dresses

As we’ve discussed, outdoor weddings can take place during all seasons at all kinds of venues. For convenience, we’ve separated our favorite outdoor wedding dresses into a few different categories: garden (lighter and cooler), beach (effortless with movement), winter (long sleeves and warmer materials), and boho (versatile, modern looks).

Outdoor Wedding Dresses for Garden Weddings

1. Vivienne BG

by Azazie

Tulle and lace combine to form a flowing and whimsical skirt. Cover them with a knockout three-dimensional floral lace applique and you have a wedding gown fit for a garden goddess! The sheer back panel, plunging neckline, and the flutter sleeves are as cooling as they are captivating.

2. A-Line Ankle-Length Tulle and Lace

by Cocomelody

A-line wedding dresses are the epitome of femininity, and this sweet little gown is giving us serious vintage Grace Kelly vibes. Layers of lace and tulle hover gently at the ankles while the illusion neckline and keyhole back keep things classy up top. It’s a must-have for garden nuptials.

3. Cami and Skirt Separates

by BHLDN

Separates, you say? We’re here for it!

Minimalist and dainty, this soft camisole with spaghetti straps tuck nicely into a billowing midi skirt. The top is silky and feminine while the bottom is playful and casual but classic in shape. It’s a match made in bridal-wear heaven!

4. Blossom BG

by Azazie

We think this dress is bold, but not because it is big or grand – quite the opposite, in fact. It’s daringly casual sweet sort of way! This satin mini dress has a square neckline, a heart-shaped back cut-out, and a gathered bubble skirt. All of these elements combine to create a girly, fun, and free-spirited wedding dress perfect for a modern bride.

5. Lilo BG

by Azazie

When we think of a garden wedding we often think tea length, but this floor-length slip gown has other ideas. Glamorous crepe satin forms a curve-hugging V-neck bodice, a low scoop back, and delicately thin spaghetti straps. It flows into a gently flared skirt embellished with princess pleats designed with see-through lace. Floral, feminine, and just a little bit fancy, this elegant dress would look at home among the blooms and topiaries.

Outdoor Wedding Dresses for Beach Weddings

6. Emi BG

by Azazie

Cool, comfortable, and captivating! The asymmetrical high-low appearance of this dress is so unique. With its lace-over-matte-satin design, casual pockets, and dainty spaghetti straps, we can practically hear the beach waves calling. It’s practically begging to be worn to a summer wedding.

7. Genevieve Jumpsuit

by BHLDN

Thinking about a beach ceremony? It might be time to break out the jumpsuit! Flowing wide-leg pants are seamlessly attached to a low swooping halter neck bodice. It’s casual but somehow insanely chic. The delicate lace overlay adds the perfect amount of flair.

8. Chiffon A-Line

by David’s Bridal

Chiffon A-Line Wedding Dress with Tie Back

This dress is described as easy-to-wear, and that couldn’t be more accurate. It looks so comfortable and casually chic with its high neck, tie-back, and breezy chiffon bodice. It would flatter a wide range of brides thanks to the soft, flowy nature of the fabric. A high slit in front offers the ideal amount of allure (and lets in a nice cooling breeze for all those beach brides!).

9. Willowby by Watters Geranium Gown

by BHDLN

It was so hard to put this dress into a single category! The grosgrain ribbon belt gives it rustic vibes while the barely-there lace overlay makes it feel romantic, like a garden tea party. But we could also envision the gauzy tulle skirt sweeping down a sandy beach aisle. Its hint of blush coloring found on the sweetheart bodice and skirt under layer would suit any location and bride.

This dress is just an all-around outdoor wedding winner!

Outdoor Wedding Dresses for Winter Weddings

10. Long Wedding Dress with Trimmed Capelet

by BHLDN

Sleeves can be a little daunting for some brides, but get ready to cast your doubts aside when you see this dress. Its gorgeous lacy capelet keeps things modest without covering up too much. A deep-V in both front and back is absolutely breathtaking. We adore the dainty crochet trim as an intriguing final touch. This dress is downright regal – perfect for an outdoor setting adorned by evergreen trees and winter sunshine.

11. Lace and Tulle Long Sleeve Ball Gown

by David’s Bridal

To us, long sleeves equate to a fall or winter wedding, but this could be completely doable for spring or brave-hearted summer brides. We’re swooning over the amount of sheer lace! From the finely detailed sleeves to the embellished full skirt, this romantic dress features a semi-sheer bodice and floral applique detailing.

12. Princess Cathedral Train

by Cocomelody

Princess Cathedral Train Tulle Wedding Dress

Pair this whimsical wonder with a capelet or sleeved jacket and you have a princess dress fit for an outdoor winter or fall wedding! A sweetheart neckline offers wonderful support and creates a lovely silhouette, ending at your natural waist. From there, the layers of fabric drape out into a full skirt complete with a cathedral train. We love how the floral appliques from the bodice spill delicately onto the skirt. It would also do very well as a springtime garden dress with a sheer layer on top, if you’re having a warm weather ceremony.

Outdoor Wedding Dresses for Boho Weddings

13. The Renaissance Gown

by BHLDN

Check out these boho vibes! Whether you’re getting married in a coastal town or a country vineyard, this impressive floral gown is sure to complement your venue. Its soft color, flowing form, and beautiful floral pattern are simply gorgeous. Though it billows out with body, the layers are lightweight and cool. It is undoubtedly bold and utterly romantic.

14. Fringe Wedding Dress

by Etsy: BelleAndKai

Fringe. Florals. Need we say more?

Its vintage bohemian meets modern flair with this intricate gown. The flowing and long silhouette is complemented by the fluttery angel wing sleeves. We can’t get over how the front is soft and ethereal while the open back provides breathtaking contrast.

15. Lace V-Neck Sheath Wedding Dress

by David’s Bridal

The empire waist of this casually beautiful boho dress offers brides a long and slimming silhouette. Wide straps and a not-too-low V-neck provide modest coverage. But it’s ooh-la-la in the back, thanks to its enchanting keyhole back framed with floral lace and secured with a delicate ribbon.

16. A-Line Court Train

by Cocomelody

This bohemian gown takes an elegant A-line style dress with a court train and combines it with bell sleeves and a lace-up back to create a summer-ready show stopper. Lace on top and chiffon on bottom pair effortlessly well. It is ethereal, flowing, and perfect for a warm-weather wedding.

17. Graced With Love Plus Size

by Kiyonna

This dress mixes flirty and fancy in the most beautiful way. An A-line skirt combined with an empire waist is figure-flattering while lacy, flowing sleeves offer a bit of coverage up top. The romantic V-neck has gorgeous scalloped edging, as does the bottom of the skirt. Plus, this lace fabric has stretch, effortlessly moving with you as you dance beneath the stars!

18. Boho Off the Shoulder Wedding Dress

by BHLDN: Willowby

Sweeping layers of tulle cascade down from the off-the-shoulders top to the billowing full-length skirt. The rucched back provides some visual intrigue, but we’re totally smitten with the front. The unique sleeves are what makes this dress. It’s vintage, casual, boho…and entirely unique!

Outdoor Wedding Dress FAQ

What are the best fabrics to look for in an outdoor wedding dress?

This is usually most important for warm weather brides who need to stay cool and comfortable. Lightweight and breathable fabrics, like chiffon, rayon, organza, and crepe can all create brilliant gowns that won’t weigh you down or cause you to overheat.

How do I pick the right wedding dress for an outdoor venue?

When searching for a dress keep your venue in mind, along with the time of day and the possible weather. Telling your bridal consultant all about your weather is helpful, too!

What type of shoes to wear with an outdoor wedding dress?

Where outdoor brides usually have a wide selection of dresses, the same can’t exactly be said for shoes.

Have you ever tried stilettos in the sand? You don’t want to get stuck in the sand, grass, or a boardwalk. What’s more, heat and tight-fitting shoes can lead to uncomfortable swelling.

But hey, we see it as a great opportunity to go barefoot!

A Natural Setting For Your Wedding

We hope this list has shown you how limitless your dress options are for an outdoor wedding.

Outdoor nuptials can take place in all seasons, which is why we included a variety of dress lengths and styles to keep you cool or cozy. Add in a few well-thought-out accessories, and you’re ready to be the perfect bride outside.

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28 Cool Things to Buy That You Never Knew You Needed

When Amazon was just a baby global online marketplace finding its way into practically every home on the planet, a good friend of mine described it as the digital version of Mary Poppin’s carpetbag.

It’s still a pretty good description, only now it has plenty of competition from other sites full of cool things to buy online. That can be fantastic or exasperating, depending upon how much time you want to invest in searching for whatever it is you’re looking for.

If online shopping isn’t your idea of the perfect way to spend an afternoon, but you need some great gift ideas, you’re in luck – we’ve done the browsing for you. Keep reading for what is, in our opinion, a gift guide to some of the coolest things you can buy on the internet.

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Cool Things to Buy on Amazon

1. Three in One Breakfast Station

by Nostalgia

This thing is the ultimate multitasker! Whether you’re dining in a dorm, small apartment, or an RV if you’re the travelin’ type – this breakfast station will have it covered. It is completely portable, features a four-cup coffee maker, a roomy griddle, and a toaster oven that can handle four pieces of toast at a time.

Want to get really crazy? It can be used for baking personal-sized pizzas or small casseroles, too.

2. Wireless Mini Printer

by Zink

KODAK Step Wireless Mobile Photo Mini Printer

How many times have you been hanging with friends or family, someone gets a fantastic pic, and you never see it again because they forget to send it to you?

It happens to us all. But if you carry around one of these handy mini printers, you’ll never miss out on an epic photo again!

It’s wirelessly compatible with iOs and Android smartphones and prints 2 x 3 photos – no ink required.

3. Sunset Lamp

by Generic

Table lamps are fantastic, but sometimes you need something more ambient to set the mood you’re looking for.

Enter the sunset lamp! It casts a warm glow perfect for relaxing after a long day, taking beautiful photos, and lending an excellent atmosphere for a tiki party. This unique lamp rotates 360 degrees, features a solid iron base, and comes with four lenses. USB powered with an LED bulb.

4. Levitating Plant Pot

by Babook

Magnetic induction is responsible for this planter’s magic, but what’s even more magical is the positive effect that magnetic fields are said to have on plants.

The base is made from oak, and its 12-sided planter is made from lightweight silicone. This modern, stylish pot is suitable for soil-growing plants, but works best with air plants. All you have to do is plant, plug it in, and enjoy!

5. Cryptex USB Flash Drive

by Smart Decisions International

If there was an award for “cool stuff to buy online”, this would be one of our nominees. We love how this little gadget marries the vintage and the modern! It holds 32 gigs of data and is compatible with any USB 3.0 port.

Think of it as a steampunk password for your password.

6. Multiple Sunglasses Organizer

by Flora Jewel

5 Slots Leather Sunglasses Travel Organizer

Do your sunglasses reside in drawers and on countertops all over the house? Does organization seem like all but a lost cause? You’re in good company.

But fear not! Some brilliant individual designed this vegan leather organizer to keep five pairs of your best glasses protected and easy to find. It even has a hanging hook, if you prefer to keep it off your *spotless* bedroom dresser.

7. Wine Condoms

by Wine Condom

The perfect gift for your favorite wine lover, wine condoms do everything they advertise! They seal up your open bottle, keeping it fresh for at least a week (or so we hear), create a seal tight enough to prevent spills, and promote laughter at dinner parties. They’re also reusable and come in a box of six.

See? A perfect gift, and a very cool thing to buy.

8. Giant Memory Foam Chair

by Chill Sack

Honestly, who needs a sofa when you can have a gigantic memory foam bubble on which to chill while watching your Netflix? (Very carefully worded, there.)

If you’ve got the room to spare, prepare for some serious comfort. It’s double-stitched with a super sturdy zipper and comes in 12 colors.

9. Foam Roller Water Bottle

by Mobot

MOBOT Big Bertha 40oz 2-in-1 Foam Roller Water Bottle

A fantastic gift idea for those who take their workouts seriously. Or at least seriously enough to need a little muscle-kneading therapy with their hydration.

It holds 40 oz, keeps that fluid relief cold for up to five hours, and can withstand up to 350 pounds of pressure. Comes in seven cool colors and patterns.

10. Mini Donut Maker

by DASH

Infinite in his wisdom, Homer Simpson summed it up perfectly when he said: “Mmmmm, donuts.”

We think that’s how pretty much every human feels about those delicious holed treats.

This mini donut maker works just like a waffle maker. All you have to do is decide what kind of batter you want, pour it in, and that’s about it. The built-in auto-shutoff timer will let you know when they’re done.

If you’re looking for a fun way to entertain the kids, give them some frosting and sprinkles and let ’em go to town. Just be sure to stake your claim on a few before they’re all gone.

11. Scented Flameless Candle

by Luminara

with remote by Luminara

If you know someone who loves to keep a candle burning in the house all the time but can be a little… forgetful (guilty as charged), this would be a fab gift!

It takes two DD batteries and works for up to five hours before it shuts off automatically. There’s even a remote to turn it off and on without having to even get off the sofa. (Sold separately.)

Think fake candles are tacky because they look so, well, fake? This one is made from wax, the “flame” flickers just like a real one, and it’s even shaped to look like it’s been naturally melted with use.

Vanilla scented.

12. Portable Projector

by PVO

Portable projectors were already gaining popularity, but then a pandemic-which-shall-not-be-named showed up, and faster than you can say” backyard theater”, everyone got one. (Including some of us here at L&L – you can see a few of our favorites here!)

This one is so easy to use, and it works with virtually every kind of device one would use to stream video, from a smartphone to a DVD player. It’s powered by a wall adaptor or a portable power bank. Remote control and AC adaptor included.

13. DIY Cutting Machine

by Cricut

If you’re a crafty, DIY kind of person, this is one of those gadgets you never knew you needed but won’t be able to live without. Not only does it cut everything from faux leather to hefty cardstock, but it also comes with free design software so you can create even more brilliant stuff.

14. Glow in the Dark Pillowcase

by Illuminated Apparel

If you know a kid who isn’t in love with bedtime, this pillow may make it easier to get them to just go to bed already. (No promises.)

It fits any standard-sized pillow and is machine washable in cold water. Designs drawn with the included light pen will last for up to five minutes.

Requires one C battery.

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15. Handmade Teabags

by Etsy: TeaHeritage

We think apple-shaped tea bags would be a great teacher’s gift. Or give your neighbors and co-workers Christmas shapes for the holidays. Grads get little graduation caps. The creative possibilities are endless.

Just ask the folks at the TeaHeritage shop, and they’ll put together a set of custom tea bags in any shape you want. Really. Choose Earl Grey or standard English breakfast.

16. Collapsible Solar Light

by Uncommon Goods

If you’re looking for an eco-friendly gift or just a new way to reduce your own carbon footprint, we present the SolarPuff! These nifty things are water-resistant, only weigh a couple of ounces, and collapse down for easy packing.

They’re the perfect lighting solution for camping, boating, or anyplace you’d like to shed some extra light on your surroundings. Just put it somewhere with plenty of sunlight during the day, and they’ll give you up to 12 hours of illumination.

17. Escape Room Subscription Box

by Cratejoy: Escape the Crate

Do you love all the fun and adrenaline of an escape room outing, but don’t really want to do the “out” part to get it? Get (or gift) an escape room subscription box!

Twice a month, you’ll receive a different adventure to scratch that adrenaline itch. Subscriptions are automatically renewable, and you can cancel or pause at any time. Suitable for 2-6 players.

18. Munchies Cookie Jar Canister

by Jonathan Adler

So classy, so naughty. Everyone needs a fancy porcelain canister with gorgeous and vibrant colors to store their stash of munchies. If you’ve got a furry friend in the house, there are varieties for them, too.

19. Air Fryer

by Target: Ninja

Oh, air fryers, how we love you. You make our fries golden, crispy, and guiltless. You treat our chicken wings like royalty. You even make our brussels sprouts more delicious!

This one takes the form of a traditional frying basket and is entirely programmable between baskets to ensure everything is coordinated to come out perfectly done.

It has an 8-quart capacity, and the crisper plates are dishwasher safe. Tater tots fo’ daaaaaayyys.

20. UV Sterilizer Stick

by IPS IP SMART

A gadget that makes it easier to clean up all those electronic devices we’ve got our hands all over all the time makes a particularly timely gift these days. It takes 60 seconds to disinfect, but the automatic timer will let you know when it’s done working its magic. It’s compact enough to carry around everywhere and charges quickly via USB.

21. Temperature Controlled Mug

by Williams Sonoma: Ember

Another one of those gadgets you didn’t think you needed, but now you can’t live without it!

It’ll keep your hot beverage at the perfect temp way past the time it would’ve taken to go cold (80-90 minutes depending on how much java you need to heat). This smartphone app-controlled mug holds up to 10 ounces of coffee, tea, hot chocolate, or any other drink best served warm. It even shuts itself off when it senses that you’re done sipping.

Available in five fashionable colors. (Hint: this mug makes a great gift, too!)

22. Retro Style Tea Kettle

by Wayfair: SMEG

An electric tea kettle is useful in so many ways, which is why it’s an everyday staple in plenty of kitchens. Still, the colors and retro design make this one stand out from the rest!

It holds 7.1 quarts, features a swivel base, and has an auto-shutoff feature in case you forget to turn it off on those busy mornings when you’re rushing to get out the door. Comes in seven great colors.

23. Inflatable Hot Tub

by Wayfair: Coleman

I think it’s safe to say, whether we knew it or not, we’ve all kind of been waiting for the rise of the portable hot tub. This one is fully inflatable but features 60 jets, a digital control panel, and a heating capacity of 104 degrees, making it a perfect solution to limited space problems.

It’s also portable to take with you on the next lakehouse vacay. It fits up to four adult-sized people.

Overall Dimensions: 2′ 2 x 5′ 11 x 5′ 11 inches

Interior Tub Dimensions: 1′ 11 x 5′ 8 x 5′ 8 inches

Overall Product Weight: 70.79 pounds

24. Outdoor Pizza Oven

by Ooni

If you haven’t tried it yet, cooking with a proper pizza oven really is a game-changer.

We like the flexibility of this outdoor pizza oven because you can cook with charcoal, wood, or gas if you use the optional gas burner attachment. It only weighs a little over 26 pounds, too, so it’s perfectly portable. Once you go pizza oven, you’ll never go back!

Dimensions: 31.5 x 15.7 x 30.3 inches

Weight: 26.4 pounds

25. Smokeless Fire Pit

by Solo Stove

Never ruin another bonfire by smoking out your guests! This fire pit is designed to keep your logs burning beautifully while keeping all that smoke and ash to a minimum. It’s also so lightweight, so you can put it wherever you feel like relaxing. (As long as it’s outside.)

Dimensions: 14 x 19.5 inches

Weight: 20 pounds

26. Dog Sofa

by Wayfair: Archie & Oscar

If you’re a dog lover, you know that it’s hard to tell them they’re not allowed on the furniture. But there’s just sooo much fur involved, not to mention the slobber.

This is why we think a dog sofa is the best idea ever.

The foam-stuffed super-soft polyester cushions of this model will keep your doggo comfy. Its tufted, riveted design will keep your decor lookin’ fly. Win/win.

Holds dogs up to 90 pounds.

27. Wool Dryer Balls

by Nordstrom: Capri Blue

Dryer balls make your linens so soft and fluffy – which is probably why grandmas everywhere swear by them and have been using them since before you were born. These are made with 100% wool for maximum snuggle factor, and they come in a pack of six, so you’ll never be without them for your next load.

28. Self Cleaning Water Bottle

by Nordstrom: LARQ

Everywhere you look these days, you’ll see people carrying around their trusty water bottles. Over time, like any reusable bottle, it can become harder to clean, making your water a little less than fresh.

This self-cleaning bottle solves all that by delivering a burst of UV light every couple of hours to keep your beverages cold, fresh, and clean all day long. It also keeps your cold drinks cold for up to 24 hours and hot drinks hot for 12.

Holds 17 ounces and comes in three colors.

Happy Shopping, Friends. (Don’t Stay Up Too Late.)

I’ve been known to disappear for hours down the internet shopping rabbit hole looking for cool things to buy, be it for myself or gifts for someone else.

In fact, I’ve gotten so proficient at it, I now do it for a living. (Our posts on gifts for women or gifts for men who have everything are just a couple of prime examples!)

Needless to say, I’ve become somewhat of a “cool gift consultant” for my friends and family, which is a badge I’ll totally wear with pride.

Just as long as I can stay in my jammies.

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50th Anniversary Gift Ideas to Celebrate 50 Years of Happiness!

Half a century?! Most couples can only dream of a love that long-lasting!

If you know a couple who has reached this major milestone – or maybe you and your sweetheart have achieved this feat and you’re in a shopping mood – then it’s time to celebrate in a big way. We’re talking about 50th anniversary gifts, people!

While you shouldn’t skip the card and bouquet (they’re always appreciated), we certainly encourage you to think about investing a little more time and effort into this gift. We know, it’s a lot of pressure, whether you’re hunting for the perfect gift for your spouse or trying to congratulate a certain couple in your life. But we’ve got your back!

Before we dive into the best gift ideas for the 50th wedding anniversary, we’ll take a look at the traditional and modern themes plus the flower and gem customarily associated with the occasion. Hint, hint: go for the gold!

Table Of Contents

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts?
50th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her
50th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Him
50th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Either

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts?

Okay, so our hint was really more of a directive. Gold is the traditional 50th anniversary gift. It’s also the modern 50th anniversary gift. There’s a good reason for this – a couple’s fiftieth anniversary is known as their “golden anniversary”!

Gold typically symbolizes wealth and success, and when looking at a couple who has been married for fifty years, that is probably what you would see: a wealth of love and a successful marriage.

Ancient cultures associated gold with prosperity and wisdom, which also holds significance for a wedding anniversary gift. Gifts of gold are thought to impart wellness, good health, prosperity, and wisdom – all things a couple together for fifty years could benefit from.

If you’re looking to add a bouquet of flowers to your gift, consider yellow roses and violets. Yellow roses are reminiscent of the color gold, but they also bring their own special meaning, representing friendship, cheer, and happiness. This is fitting because while marriage may start with infatuation, true friendship is what makes it last.

Violets symbolize faithfulness, virtue, and simplicity. Again, all characteristics of a love that spans half a century.

There’s no gem associated with the fiftieth wedding anniversary, so you can breathe a sigh of relief. Gold’s plenty good enough.

50th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

1. Gold Necklace

by Etsy: SarahEliseJewelry

A love that lasts fifty years must have been written in the stars. And what better way to tell her that than with this sweet gold star necklace? It’s dainty and delicate, perfect for everyday wear. Tiny gold stars glitter on a simple chain, lending a hint of sparkle to any outfit.

If she’s not a yellow gold fan, it’s available in white gold or rose to match her style while still fitting the theme.

2. Gold Bangle Bracelet

by Blue Nile

We adore this simple, elegant gold bangle. It’s design is without end, much like your devotion to one another. Ideal for layering or being worn regularly, she’ll love how this bangle effortlessly matches any outfit. It’s a gift as timeless as your partnership.

3. Gold Hoop Earrings

by Blue Nile

An outfit isn’t complete without earrings, and neither is our gold jewelry gift selection! These gold hoops are the perfect size – not too big, but not small enough to be overlooked. They’re classic and chic, just like your spouse!

Choose from yellow gold, rose gold, or white gold for a golden wedding anniversary gift tailored to her tastes.

4. Muse D’or Ceramic Candle

Hearthside Glass Jar Candle — *by Anthropologie: Capri Blue*

For the woman who has everything, we suggest this elegant ceramic candle as a unique golden anniversary gift. With its unique and eye-catching muse faces gilded in a gold glaze, this candle looks as wonderful as it smells. Notes of pink pepper and sage balsam will fill the space until the wax burns down, leaving you with a charming vase.

Or, opt for this festive glittering candle. Wax with notes of vanilla, amber, clove, pine, and cedarwood is poured into this frosted vessel, complete with gold leaf detailing.

5. Gold Vase with Flowers

We already know you’ve got your yellow rose or violet bouquet lined up and ready to go. But don’t forget to pair it with an enchanting vase!

We love this gleaming gold vase from Anthropologie. The interesting, organic form is made luminous by a stunning gold glaze. It’s just the right size to display a lovely floral arrangement on your table or desk.

6. Metallic Teapot

by Saks: Richard Brendon

From dreaming of her wedding day while having a tea party as a kid to being married for fifty years and presented with this stunning metallic teapot. Sigh. Isn’t love beautiful?

This elegant teapot is made from bone china coated in the most lustrous gold finish. Its classic, mid-century modern form is quite enchanting and suitable for all occasions.

7. Gold Silk Pillowcase

by Anthropologie: Slip

Ooh, la la! This gold silk pillowcase is downright luxurious. It will provide her with the most restorative beauty sleep she’s ever gotten (not that she needs it). The mulberry silk helps to protect her hair and skin while making for a super soft sleep surface.

The best part is that they’re machine washable, so she doesn’t have to worry about taking them to the cleaners or washing them by hand. What a practical golden gift!

8. Gold Reed Diffuser

by Thymes

Every time she catches a whiff of this lovely gold reed diffuser, she’ll think of you. Layers of beautiful fragrance, like sandalwood and Siberian fir, are invigorating and refreshing. When the subtle scent runs out, she can refill the gold vessel again and again.

50th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Him

9. Custom Gold Cufflinks

by Etsy: GoldstoreJewelry

Cufflinks are a staple of any man’s wardrobe, and therefore we could argue that a guy can never have too many.

These specific cufflinks are sure to become a favorite. His initials, in a charming scrolled font, can be cast in either 14k or 18k solid gold. Select from yellow, white, or rose gold to best fit his style.

10. Gold Watch

by Saks: Salvatore Ferragamo

Time can be told by laugh lines, evidence of a life well-lived. But if he prefers to tell time in a more traditional sense, he’ll love this impressive gold watch.

Its bold bracelet band and strong profile suit the dark guilloché dial incredibly well, making for a watch that’s magnificent as he is! It’s durable, water-resistant, and can we say, timeless, in its design.

11. Gold Fountain Pen

by Parker

Whether he’s adding his signature to checks or signing love letters, this pen will make the endeavor so much more enjoyable. Its blue chevron patterned body features gleaming gold accents for a sophisticated and polished look. The 18-carat gold nib offers a smooth writing experience and produces effortlessly crisp lines. It comes in a handsome gift box, complete with refillable ink cartridges.

12. Custom Map

by Minted

Is there a city or town that’s particularly important to your husband? Maybe it’s his hometown, or something sentimental like the place where you first met.

No matter where it is, a custom map of that special spot can be printed out and framed as an extra special way to display his cherished locale. Highly detailed and customized with your city’s name, all you need to do is provide an address and the folks at Minted will do the rest.

Printed in gold, the resulting map is a gorgeous and artistic representation of his favorite place. He’s sure to love this personalized anniversary gift.

13. Sundial

by Etsy: TheMetalFoundry

To the rest of us who are nowhere near fifty years of marriage, it seems as if the sun never sets on your love!

A sundial can be a beautiful representation of your enduring relationship. We especially love this handcrafted dial, cast entirely from brass and detailed with gold highlights. The inscription is a lovely statement about your anniversary and can be personalized with your wedding date.

14. Personalized Record

by Uncommon Goods

From dancing the sock hop to waltzing at their granddaughter’s wedding, anyone who has enjoyed fifty years of life together has experienced their fair share of music. Some songs really stand out though, and hold a special place in their hearts through the decades.

If you know one of those songs, you can build a sweet and sentimental personalized record for the happy couple. This luminous gold vinyl LP features the lyrical words of up to five songs and includes a place for personalization. It’s suspended in a unique floating frame that can be displayed anywhere they like.

15. Gold Rimmed Highball Glasses

by Williams Sonoma

A toast to love – with a glass he is sure to love! These fancy gold-rimmed highball glasses are perfect for sipping his favorite barrel-aged blend. The crystal clear glass, hand-painted with gold lacquer, is durable and quite charming. It effortlessly transitions from casual get-togethers to formal soirees. This gift set includes four glasses.

16. Gold Men’s Bracelet

by Tiffany

Gold jewelry for men is very dashing, if we do say so ourselves.

If your spouse isn’t afraid to rock a bracelet, then this accessory would make a charming choice for a 50th anniversary gift. Made of 18k yellow gold, this sleek cuff definitely has modern vibes. This versatile accessory can easily be worn on a weekend outing or with a suit jacket to an upscale event.

50th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Either

17. Sheet Music Wall Art

by Canvas Vows

Sheet music helps musicians produce gorgeous music – but it makes for beautiful art as well!

If you have a special song that you and your spouse adore, it can be made into an impressive piece of art. Sheet music wall art consists of the actual sheet music from a tune of your choosing. Printed in gold on a canvas size you select, it makes a thoughtful gift that you can hang anywhere in your home.

18. Gold Rug

by Jonathan Adler

Home is where the heart is, as long as your true love is there beside you, right?

Cozy up your favorite place to enjoy each other’s company with this stunning gold rug. The fractured sunburst design is intriguing, and the rich gold color complements a variety of decor themes. Hand-woven from the softest wool, you’ll enjoy sitting on, dancing about, or just gazing at this extraordinary textile.

19. Abstract Art

by Minted

Gold isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. For those who aren’t fond of the color but want to stick to the theme, finding the perfect gold item can be difficult.

Thankfully, there are lovely items like this abstract artwork that include a touch of gold without going overboard. Its mesmerizing marbled design is reminiscent of sandy ocean waves. It would be a lovely ode to your tropical honeymoon fifty years ago!

20. Gold Plated Photo Frame

by Saks: Michael Aram

Over the course of fifty years, a couple has likely created a home, grown their family, and shared many happy moments. A gold-plated photo frame is a delightful way to let them display one of their favorite photos of those cherished moments.

This whimsical frame has a border of golden olive branches, intricately intertwined. It’s a statement piece picture frame if we ever saw one! It holds one horizontal picture.

21. Gold Luggage

by Rimowa

After 50 long years, it’s time to indulge. Visit the Mediterranean, or tropical beaches, or tour Europe – you deserve it!

If you’re getting ready to jet off into the sunset, you can do it in style with gold luggage. This durable luggage from Rimowa is as glamorous as you are. It’s also a dream to travel with, thanks to its rolling wheels, dropdown handle, and lightweight build. It’s ready to help you enjoy your golden years!

22. Bookends

by Perigold

Carved from solid wood and hand-painted with a gilded finish, this is as luxurious as bookends get. You could practically put these on display in your home and no one would guess that they’re simple bookshelf supports. Modern and sleek, they’ll certainly add a pop of sparkle and glamour to your shelves.

23. Gold Wall Clock

by Wayfair: Joss & Main

Is it art? Is it a clock? This golden timekeeper is both!

Its romantic golden finish and deconstructed design make for a breathtaking piece of wall art that is as fashionable as it is functional. Oversized and impressive, this gold gift won’t go unnoticed. Perfect for reminding you of your fifty years of happiness and love whenever you check the time!

24. Custom Cutting Board

by Etsy: BlueRidgeMountainCo

Gold-averse couples, this gift is for you.

A custom cutting board in a natural maple finish has gold tones, so we’re technically still within the theme, but there’s not a gilt or gold-plated element in sight!

Nevertheless, this personalized gift is truly gorgeous. Carved, sanded, and polished, it features a central design that can include your names and dates. It’s perfectly practical, but it’s so pretty you may just want to put it on display instead.

Fifty Fabulous Years

Fifty years? Fancy that! And we mean that literally, because with both the traditional and modern gifts being gold, this is one especially glamorous anniversary.

We hope you celebrate the golden anniversary with friends, family, and some amazing gifts! This momentous occasion deserves to be marked with a special present, commemorating your years together and your enduring love.

12 Sympathy Gift Baskets: The Perfect Gift to Show Your Condolences

It’s seldom easy to know what to say or do to comfort someone who’s suffered a loss as profound as the death of a loved one. It’s a process, and everyone grieves differently.

For some, the best thing you can do is talk about the recently deceased, and for others, that’s the very last thing they feel like doing.

While you’re learning how to help that person in the best possible way for them, it’s never a bad idea to send a small token of love and comfort. In this post, we’ll show you some sweet sympathy gift baskets and condolence gifts that’ll help you do just that.

We’ll also answer some common questions about the etiquette behind sending condolence gifts and sympathy cards.

Table Of Contents

Sympathy Gifts Etiquette Q&A
Comforting Gift Baskets For A Little Bit Of Solace
Ideas For Building Your Own Sympathy Gift Basket

Sympathy Gifts Etiquette Q&A

What do you give a grieving family?

When choosing a gift for the bereaved, take their daily, practical needs into consideration.

For instance, when my best friend lost her father, her mother was left with the task of figuring out what to do with all of the beautiful flowers she received, and she had to give most of them away. (On an upside, she gave me a gorgeous potted peace lily she received that went on to grow like crazy and live a long, long life. I like to think my friend’s dad had a little something to do with that.)

If the loss has left the household struggling to keep up with the chores, think about helping out by sending practical gifts. Send them a delivered meal or two, or if you know them well enough, even a cleaning service to help relieve some of the pressure.

Meaningful gifts like a photo album full of great memories or a shadowbox with a few keepsakes are always a good idea too, as are donations to a beloved cause in the name of the deceased. Head over to our article on condolence and bereavement gifts for more ideas.

What kind of basket do you send for sympathy?

A sympathy gift basket including comfort food (dietary needs considered), a warm candle, and a cozy throw blanket is a welcome surprise for those in the process of grieving the loss of a loved one. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like herbal tea and cookies. Just sayin’.

Of course, you can make things easier by choosing from one of the condolence gift baskets we’ve showcased in this article! You’re welcome.

What is the etiquette for sympathy cards?

Sympathy cards should be sent as soon as possible after you’ve heard of the individual’s passing.

If you knew the deceased but not the family, it’s appropriate to send the card to the closest next-of-kin, such as the widowed spouse, eldest child, or remaining siblings.

For someone you know who’s grieving for a loved one you weren’t acquainted with, sending the card directly to them is the thing to do.

What should I say in a condolence card to someone whose loved one has just passed away?

It’s hard to nail down exactly what to say, but it’s less tricky to pinpoint the things you shouldn’t.

When I lost my grandfather last year (we were very close), I heard stuff like “time heals all wounds,” and “He’s in a better place,” and “It sounds like it was just his time.” Blech. No Bueno.

So when writing a condolence card to a grieving person, sincerity and warmth is the name of the game. Beyond a simple (but always appropriate) “I’m so sorry for your loss,” here are some examples:

-I hope your thoughts of __________ bring you some light during these dark days.
-May the fond memories of ________ sustain you and bring you some comfort.
-I wish I could take away your grief, even for just a little while, to help you find some peace during this difficult time.
-Know that whatever you’re feeling and however you want to express that, I’m here for you.
-If you feel like you need to talk about _______ and what they meant to you, I’m all ears.

Want to hear from a professional? Check out this post for a bereavement counselor’s suggestions for supporting a grieving friend or family member.

Comforting Gift Baskets For A Little Bit Of Solace

1. Sympathy Cookie Basket

by Harry&David

I’d love to say that cookies make everything better, but that’s not always 100% true. That said, they certainly don’t make things worse. This soft woven basket includes 22 cookies for all tastes, from fruit to chocolate to peanut butter, all wrapped up in a pretty hand-tied ribbon.

2. Sympathy Care Package

by Spoonful of Comfort

While cookies are fantastic, sometimes they’re just not enough. That’s where this care package comes in! Not only does it contain six cookies in your choice of seven delicious varieties, but it also includes:

A cozy throw blanket
Three types of comforting tea
A little jar of raw honey with a wooden dipper
A mini-book about healing after loss.

It also comes with a card featuring a personal note just from you.

3. Grief Affirmation Gift Box

by Etsy: Twelvehawk

The grief affirmation cards and potted succulent that comes with this gift box would make excellent bereavement gifts on their own. Throw in plantable paper hearts containing wildflower seeds and a beautiful agate worry stone, and you’ve got something truly special.

Whether you choose the original box or add the seeds, stone, or both, this gift box includes a personal note from you to let the recipient know you’re sending healing and love their way.

4. Sympathy Basket Select

by GourmetGiftBaskets

This sympathy gift basket contains a little bit of everything to snack on, held snugly in a pretty reusable woven handled basket. Like really, everything.

It includes:

Assorted fresh fruit
Raw cashews
Cheese straws
Sharp cheddar cheese and water crackers
Garlic sausage and champagne mustard
Chocolate covered cherries
Chocolate chip cookies
Sea salt caramel cookie straws
Almond, cashew, and pumpkin seed clusters
Blueberry and pomegranate trail mix
Wile blueberry jam
Sea salt caramel sauce

See? Everything.

5. Heartfelt Basket With A Cozy Blanket

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This is comfort in a gift box wrapped up with a bow – seriously. It contains everything perfect for those times when self-love is the order of the day:

Snuggly blanket and hand-poured candle with a sympathy message
Fuzzy socks
Chicken noodle soup and crackers
Chamomile tea

If you can’t be there in person to give hugs, this box is the next best thing.

6. Thinking of You Gift Box

by ScarlettAcres

The ultimate box for those who turn to tea when they’re feeling low! This box contains:

11 oz mug
lip balm
3 oz Herbal Tea of choice
Tea Strainer
5 Tea Filters
4 oz Lotion
Personalized card
5 oz Soy/Coconut Candle

The box may also include a gift note with a personal message from you if you wish.

7. Comforting Herbal Tea Basket

by Etsy: TheRedDates

A gift box full of homemade biscotti and tea goodies is a great way to send your condolences, too. This comforting herbal tea basket comes in regular, deluxe, premium, and ultimate sizes. Depending upon the size you choose, the contents will vary. Check out the offered sizes and descriptions for more details.

Options include organic teas + infuser bags, organic honey, cinnamon sticks, hand-poured candle, and five biscotti flavors to choose from. All include a sympathy card with a message from you.

8. With Sympathy

by Broadway Basketeers

A gift tower can bring smiles even in the darkest of times. This one has five tiers of sweet treats to brighten someone’s day, even if just for a few moments. It includes:

A white chocolate bavarian pretzel
Cinnamon yogurt pretzels
Chocolate chip cappuccino cookies
A French apple crisp cookie
Lindt chocolate truffles
Assorted milk toffees
Chocolate caramel peanut butter popcorn
Himalayan Chips

Everything in this sympathy gift bundle is certified Kosher, too. It’s not only a delicious choice but a delicious choice suitable for everyone to enjoy.

9. Thinking of You Succulent Gift Box

by Etsy: SweetBasilCo

Self-care gifts are a great option to give to a grieving friend. Often, when we’re feeling our most vulnerable, some pampering helps the most.

This gift box was curated with that in mind. In addition to the pretty potted succulent, this box beautifully packed box contains:

One 4 oz scented soy candle
Safety matches in a decorative corked glass bottle
All-natural soap in your choice of seven scents
All-natural bath bomb in your choice of two scents
All-natural lip balm
A personalized greeting card
Succulent care instructions

10. The Comfort Basket

by Gift Basket Village

It’s hard trying to console someone from afar, which is why sending a gift basket can be helpful. Sometimes, however, it just doesn’t include everything we’d like to give.

Well, this extra-large gift basket is eight pounds of ALL your bases covered. It includes:

A grief book full of helpful anecdotes from spiritual leaders and grief counselors and a grief journal to record their thoughts and feelings
Two plushie bears for serious snuggling
Two ceramic coffee mugs
Gourmet coffee and cocoa
Butter toffee pretzels
Chocolate chip pecan cookies
Butter tea cookies
Key lime white chocolate cookies
Biscotti
Caramel corn
Dried fruit and assorted nuts
Pistachios
Honey cinnamon almonds
Smoked almonds
Gourmet snack mix
Parmesan bruschetta crisps

11. Sending Sympathy Taster Basket

by Mouth

It may be understated, but that’s the charm of this sophisticated and tastefully curated gourmet gift basket. Inside you’ll find:

Mini farro crackers
Olive and parmesan tapenade
Sea salt and pepper pistachios
Salted almond crisps
Black mission fig jam
Orange pistachio shortbread
Chocolate sables

Sometimes, quality over quantity goes a long way.

12. Tough Times Care Package

by Etsy: RoamHomegrown

A soothing soak in a warm tub does wonders for the body and soul – that truism is what these care packages are built on. They come in three size options:

The spa day gift box, including a candle, matchbox, face mask, bath salts, and lip balm
The deluxe spa gift box, including everything the original spa day box contains plus a 2 oz body oil and aromatherapy mist and an intention-setting guide to encourage emotional grounding
The self-care box, including everything in the deluxe spa box, except for the aromatherapy mist

All of the products included in the gift boxes are artisanally made from all-natural ingredients in your choice of lavender or orange vanilla scents.

Ideas For Building Your Own Sympathy Gift Basket

A pre-arranged gift box or basket is a lovely sympathy gift idea! But if you’d like to assemble your own for a more personalized touch, there are a few things we happen to think are essential ingredients for a great DIY gift basket:

Sending Thoughts and Love

If you’ve read our list here, you’re probably looking for a gift to give someone going through the loss of a loved one. It’s painful, to put it mildly, and you may feel helpless if you’re trying to send condolences from afar.

Although you can’t take it away, some thoughtful words and a nice sympathy gift basket may just help you do a little triage until you can be there in person to give out those warm hugs and supply some helping hands.

Black Diamond Rings: The Edgy Alternative for Women and Men

While black diamonds are certainly unique, we’d argue that they can be just as elegant and timeless as traditional diamonds.

And, as we witnessed on Sex and the City, black diamonds aren’t for just us punk rock, goth-loving girls. Carrie totally rocked her black diamond engagement ring, as did fierce, real-life ladies like Carmen Electra and Jennie Garth.

Guys can pull off this look too. Men’s black diamond rings exude confidence and composure. Mysterious, dark, and handsome? Yes, please!

Clearly, we’re completely on board with black diamond rings. They’re bold, edgy, and a brilliant choice for couples who want to show off their personal style.

And if you’re in the market for one of these coal-colored beauties, you’re in luck! We’ve curated a list of our favorite black diamond rings for your browsing pleasure. But no pressure! (…Get it? Diamond pun.)

Table Of Contents

About Black Diamond Rings
Our Favorite Black Diamond Rings
Men's Black Diamond Rings

About Black Diamond Rings

When you first hear the phrase “black diamond rings”, shady business dealings may pop to mind. But we’re talking about actual “black” diamonds, not black-market diamonds.

These inky gems are definitely the rock stars of the gem world. They’re modern, edgy, and here to stay as a popular diamond choice for both men and women. But what are black diamonds – and are they really diamonds at all?

There are two types of natural gemstones used to make black diamond rings: colorless diamonds with mass inclusions, and carbonados.

True dark diamonds, known as “fancy black diamonds”, are colorless stones with a lot of inclusions. Inclusions can be thought of as “birthmarks” within the diamond – basically, small amounts of matter and material that became caught up within the stone as it formed.

When picking a traditional white diamond, inclusions are considered an undesirable flaw. But when it comes to black diamonds you want the most inclusions possible, and to find them evenly distributed across the stone. This leads to the diamond’s black color.

Generally, these diamonds come from the earth with an uneven grey or salt-and-pepper appearance. Radiation is used to deepen and even out their black coloring.

The second black diamond material is an amalgam of natural materials known as carbonados. But because carbonados aren’t made solely of pure diamond, they’re not technically considered true diamonds.

Nevertheless, carbonados are gorgeous! A carbonado has a specific composition: diamond, graphite, and carbon. Each material in this aggregate gives a carbonado its enchanting qualities, resulting in a shiny, durable, and smooth stone. Because they include diamond crystals and are carbon-based, they’re often sought after for tool and machine production.

Since carbonados are not truly thought of as diamonds, they have always been more valued for their industrial uses rather than their use in jewelry.

Our Favorite Black Diamond Rings

Whether you are shopping for a black diamond accent ring or want to pull the trigger on a black diamond engagement ring, our lineup features a variety of stunning options.

1. Black Diamond Ring

by Leibish

This ring is the definition of classic meets cool! It features an unheated 3.05 ct. Natural Fancy Black diamond as its center stone, perfectly cut to catch the light. Equally dazzling is the 18k white gold split shank encrusted with glittering pavé diamonds. The “tiger claw” setting totally elevates the edginess of this knockout ring.

2. Black Diamond Eternity Ring

by Blue Nile

Chic and modern, this black diamond eternity ring is perfect for the minimalist. Its round black diamonds form an unending band, each with a pavé setting in 18k yellow gold. She could wear it as a wedding band with her engagement ring, or mix and match it with other simple bands. It’s just a little bit edgy without being too risqué.

3. Black Lab Diamond Signet Ring

by Brilliant Earth

This diamond is lab-created, but no one ever has to know! Its unnatural beginnings mean that it’s incredibly black and very striking. We adore its eye-catching hexagon-shaped frame, which really makes the multi-faceted stone pop!

You can customize the setting and shank with your choice of yellow gold, rose gold, white gold, or platinum.

4. Black Rose Cut Diamond

by Catbird

This diamond may not be the blackest, but we still are in love with its natural dusky color. Almost as interesting as the stone itself is the setting. The oval cut diamond is set in a horizontal position, instead of the traditional vertical orientation. On each side is beautiful scrollwork that includes Prounis jewels made from an alloy of gold, copper, and silver. This results in a gorgeous shade that grows increasingly luminous with wear and time.

5. Leaf Design Black Diamond Ring

by Etsy: VidarBoutique

Can it get any more rock and roll than this? Black, on black, on black!

14kt black gold is handcrafted into a blooming lotus flower. At the center, the blossom holds a glittering round-cut black diamond. The base of the flower and sides of the band feature finely detailed leaves fashioned out of black gold. It’s absolutely one of a kind – ideal for any girl who dances through life to her own tune!

6. Three Stone Black Diamond Ring

by Angara

This three-stone ring is positively breathtaking. We love the meaning behind a trio of stones, usually signifying the past, present, and future. The largest of the stones, a black enhanced diamond, rests between two smaller black diamonds. Set in a 14k white gold shank, this timeless ring makes a bold statement.

7. Round Cut Black Diamond Ring

by Gemvara

This deep inky black ring certainly makes an impression. Flawlessly round, its simple shape only enhances the brilliance created by this gem’s multi-faceted surface. The 14k yellow gold band is sleek, featuring an elegant figure-eight pattern and a minimalist prong setting. This black diamond ring mixes a classic silhouette with a modern band for an utterly sophisticated look.

8. Rectangular Ring

by Saks: Pomellato

If you’re a fan of black diamonds, it’s probably safe to say that you’re a fan of the non-traditional. In which case, this ring will suit your tastes perfectly!

An unadorned, lustrous 18k rose gold band holds an impressive rectangular setting. Within the bezel rests a host of sparkling pavé black diamonds in three different sizes. This ring’s unusual style is quite eye-catching and would make a wonderful statement piece in any woman’s collection.

9. Oval Cut Black Diamond Ring

by Gemvara

Have you ever laid eyes on a more gorgeous diamond engagement ring?! The deep hue of the center stone, a black diamond cut into a classic oval shape, is positively magnificent. Its dazzling surface is enhanced by the starburst of smaller colorless diamonds that make up its border. A sleek and simple rose gold band emphasizes the gems’ brilliance and is the perfect addition to this unforgettable ring.

10. Cushion Cut Black Diamond Ring

by Etsy: AmberjackJewellery

Cushion cut diamonds have become increasingly popular. Looking at this cushion black diamond ring, it is easy to see why!

The cushion-cut of the large black diamond is the ideal shape for this alternative engagement ring. If you’re picking a standout color like black, then you might as well choose a unique cut too! The petite 14k white gold band is encrusted with smaller black pavé diamonds for an impressive “all-black” look.

11. Black Diamond Bridal Set

by Etsy: ShyFineJewelry

Lab-created black diamonds usually possess the darkest coloring, and this stunning set is no exception. The engagement ring features a 1 carat round center stone, set within a halo of radiant natural diamonds. The small, sparkling gems continue from the halo to the band, completely encrusting the thin rose gold shank. The wedding band consists of natural diamonds set within an art-deco-inspired rose gold band.

Together, the bridal set is glamorous with a hint of edginess rock and roll (dare we say grunge?).

12. Willis Ring

by Diamondere

Points for uniqueness? Ten out of ten!

You already know this ring will feature a black diamond – in this case, it’s a dazzling black diamond solitaire with coloring as dark as the furthest reaches of outer space. The setting is crafted from ethereal 14k white gold. Two bands of precious metal seem to magically balance the stone between them. It would make a striking ring for either daily wear or special events.

Men’s Black Diamond Rings

Ladies can’t have all the fun! These distinguished black diamond rings for men are sure to stand out.

13. Men’s Black Diamond Ring

by Le i bish

Impressive and imposing, this men’s black diamond ring really makes a statement. Its dramatic band is formed from platinum, featuring a styled hexagonal bezel. Within the setting rests a natural, fancy black diamond. The matte finish of the band perfectly complements the radiance of the cushion-cut diamond.

14. Men’s Black Diamond Wedding Band

by Blue Nile

Sometimes you want a wedding band that’s just a little rock and roll but also refined. This black diamond band fits the bill!

It’s largely made of 14kt white gold with an elegant brushed finish. Its width is flattering for most men, and very comfortable. Within the band are six columns, each composed of small treated black diamonds stacked on top of one another. The final look is sophisticated, but also perfect for a diehard fan of Slash from Guns and Roses.

15. Channel Set Black Diamond Wedding Ring

by James Allen

We love the look of this comfort fit band. Its rounded edges and satin finish make it excellent for everyday wear. Far from your plain-jane wedding ring, it stuns with its center band of channel-set black diamonds. We love this sleek accessory for the modern groom.

16. Titanium & Silver with Black Diamond

by Saks: David Yurman

Unapologetically cool, this titanium and silver ring is a knock-out. Its all-black exterior is crafted from titanium while the comfortable interior is fashioned from silver. Lining the two is a nicely detailed braided silver accent. For added visual impact, a black diamond solitaire is inlaid at the top of the band and offset by a striking silver halo.

17. Tungsten & Black Diamond Ring

by Etsy: LazerBoyzDesigns

Tungsten is known for being durable, and while this ring may have tough-guy vibes, it’s still very handsome.

The black band has a charming brushed finish with sleek, polished edges as part of its pipe design. Inset on the top are three distinct black diamonds, each bordered by a ring of silver to highlight their brilliance. This is a wedding band John Wick would totally wear.

18. Black Zirconium with Black Diamond Wedding Band

by Etsy: KorusDesign

Zirconium is comparable to tungsten in durability and is usually a light silver-grey. But this zirconium ring has been heated to extreme levels, oxidizing its exterior to a breathtaking black. The matte band is severed, then outfitted with a lustrous black diamond that seems to effortlessly balance between the two shanks.

The finished product is an ultra-unique ring that is bold, daring, and quite dashing, if we do say so ourselves!

Black is Back!

But did it ever really leave?

While many other colors may have tried to take its place, black is infinitely cool, timeless, and always elegant. It’s the perfect choice for brides or grooms who are edgy, a little bit rock and roll, or just want a statement-making ring that veers from the traditional.

Despite their different gem cuts, settings, and band materials, these fantastic rings all have one thing in common…their brilliant inky black diamonds!

12 Fun Bachelorette Party Games For a Night She’ll Never Forget!

I’ve thrown a couple of bachelorette parties in my time, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that different personalities mean different party vibes.

If you have the honor of organizing a gathering treating your girl to one last bash before she weds, the kind of bachelorette party games you’ll play should reflect her personality.

We’ve attempted to put as many fun PG-13 games as possible in our list here. Admittedly, some toe the line, and some are downright naughty, so proceed with caution.

You’ve been warned.

Table Of Contents

Bachelorette Party Games. Some Classy, Some Not-So-Much, All Hilarious.
DIY Bachelorette Party Games
Bachelorette Party FAQs

Bachelorette Party Games. Some Classy, Some Not-So-Much, All Hilarious.

1. Bachelorette Bash

by Lulu & You

Bachelorette BASH - Bachelorette Party Games

This fun bachelorette party game is a great way to warm up the bash (along with cocktails, of course!). It’s pretty vanilla, but that’s great if there are guests who don’t quite know each other well enough to be divulging deep dark secrets just yet. Or those who’d rather they stay just that – secrets.

It includes 205 cards in six packs with different topics such as “would she rather?” “truth or dare” and “have you ever.” It’s suitable for as many players as you like.

2. Off-Topic

by Off Topic

This game is so much fun, and it’s really easy to play! A player draws a card with a list of topics then rolls the die. Whatever letter it lands on must be the first letter of each response to the topics on the card.

You must write down the answers for as many topics as possible using the letter rolled in each timed round. When the time’s up, everyone in the group has the option to contest another’s answer if they think it’s BS. (Arguing about your answers may even be funnier than the answers themselves.)

Comes with eight whiteboards with 10 dry erase markers, a two-minute timer, 20-sided die, and 16 game cards.

3. Classic Games 3-Pack Printable Download

by Etsy: QuizzleDesigns

Ok, now we’re getting dirty. This three-pack of games will have everyone blushing.

Dirty Pictionary is played just like the classic, only naughtier. Divide the girls into groups of two or three, and watch the hilarity as they attempt to guess what inappropriate thing their teammate is drawing.

In emoji Pictionary, your guests will try to guess the dirty phrase or sex act depicted by the emojis before time runs out.

Challenge the room to match the name of the sex position with the pic in the “name the sex position” game. If you want to get really fun (and embarrassing), have the girls divulge who’s tried each. Or even better, everyone tries to guess which of them the bride has tried.

Simply download, print, and distribute. Then let the good times roll.

4. Shameless Party Game

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This game is perfect for a group that knows each other relatively well but can still be played with a newbie or two in the mix, as long as they don’t mind being put on the spot.

The cards are shuffled, then divided into piles of questions and actions, with each player receiving four question cards. The player who goes first must select a card from the action pile that indicates who should be the recipient of the first question at the table.

If that person doesn’t want to answer, they can pass, but they forfeit the points on the card to the other players. Of course, the more shameless questions you answer, the more points you’ll get, and the more you pass, the more you give away. The first player to reach 20 points wins the round.

5. Bachelorettes Against Decency Printable Download

by Etsy: PrintOutPartyGames

We’ve declared it before, and we’ll do so again:

If you haven’t played cards against humanity, your friends don’t love you.

So what better way to show your bride-to-be some extra love than to inflict upon her the version designed specifically for her hen party?

This bachelorette party game includes 80 question cards and 304 answer cards to provide you with the most inappropriate responses ever. Play your cards right (see what I did there?), and you may even win everyone’s vote for worst person at the table.

6. These Cards Will Get You Drunk

by These Cards Will Get You Drunk

I have this game, and they were NOT kidding when they named it. It will, in fact, get you hammered. So much so, I feel I should advise you to stay home to play. Or get a limo and a babysitter. Regardless, play responsibly and make bad choices in a safe place.

The premise is simple: everyone takes turns drawing a card from the pile then does what it says. Each card will pit the group against each other in some way by competing, voting, or screwing over a friend. No matter what you get, it’ll be hilarious – trust me.

Want to help your bride tribe recover the following day? Pass out hangover recovery kits. They’ll thank you for it.

7. Truth or Drink

by Truth or Drink The Game by Cut Games

This starter kit is perfect because it includes different decks for different audiences. From friendly fun to totally NSFW+, you can pick which version you think is best for your crew. No matter which one you choose, it’s guaranteed to be a hit.

Like the original truth or dare, it’s pretty straightforward. Each player takes turns drawing a card, then that person picks two other players to ask each other the questions on the card. Those players may choose to answer the question, take a drink, or use a “with a twist” card.

This is another of those games best played at home. Prepare to get drunk and learn waaaay more about your friends than you need to. Then make a peace offering with these adorable bachelorette party favors.

DIY Bachelorette Party Games

8. Panty Party

This fun game is great for throwing a little bridal shower in with your bachelorette party, because at the end, she gets to keep them all!

Request that every guest brings a pair of new panties that represents their personality. Keep in mind, this game works best if you aim for “over the top”.

Display them around the room before the bride gets there, and throughout the party, she gets to guess which panties match which guest.

Want to get really crazy about it? You can make her do it as soon as she arrives and take a shot for each one she guesses wrong. Either way, super fun and she gets a bunch of new and *interesting* panties out of it.

9. Ring Hunt

Lots of bachelorette parties feature a scavenger hunt for when the bride tribe is out on the town. This bachelorette scavenger hunt is meant to be played at your digs for the weekend.

Before everyone gets there, hide ring favors all over the house (I thought these were pretty cool, but if you want to take it to an impressively tasteless level, try these guys), and have the ladies hunt for them.

You can stop there and award a prize to whoever finds the most rings, or turn it into a drinking game where everyone except the person who finds the ring has to take a shot.

10. Booze Pong

No matter how prissy you are, you have to admit that beer pong is fun. But what if you’re not down with red plastic solo cups and stinky beer spilled everywhere? What if you want to class it up a bit?

Try prosecco pong with plastic champagne glasses instead! You can find your own, or you can find sets like this one ready to go on Etsy or Amazon.

If you’re not a fan of the bubbly (I don’t get that, but it takes all kinds), you can opt for wine pong or just find some nice clear plastic cups to hold the preferably pink drinks of your choice. Either way, it will be a very classy twist on the classic bachelorette party idea.

11. The (Almost) Newlywed Game

If you’re up for soliciting the cooperation of her future groom, the (almost) newlywed game is a hilarious way to test her knowledge of the groom-to-be.

With his help, come up with a list of questions for her to answer about him and/or their relationship. You can either write down his answers or better yet, record him answering them for her to see. If you want to involve the other guests, have them wager bets on how many she’ll get right and award a gift to the closest guess.

12. Telephone Charades

If you need a game to get everyone up and on their feet, charades of any kind is a great choice, but I happen to think this mix of charades and telephone is especially fun.

Make a list of activities (clean, dirty, or both, depending on who’s on the guest list) and split everyone up into groups A and B.

To begin, one person from group A should be designated as the “operator” for their team. Everyone in team A lines up next to the operator as Team B gives her an activity from the list (no peeking!), then she’ll have 30 seconds to present her superior pantomime skills to the next player in her group.

That player then attempts to mimic the first as closely as possible, and so on down the line until they get to the end where the last person in line guesses what the action is supposed to be.

Repeat with group B, and enjoy the show! Want to give out prizes to the team with the most correct guesses? Try some goody bags with favors like lip balms, hair ties, bracelets, etc.

Want to see some more neat accessories and decorations to make you look like a bachelorette party throwing pro? Right this way!

Bachelorette Party FAQs

Who organizes and pays for the bachelorette party?

Traditionally, the bridal party pools their talents and resources to organize and pay for the bachelorette bash. The bride pays for nothing and gets to sit back, relax, and enjoy the mayhem.

Now, if the bride’s family (or even the groom) wants to help fund the celebration, we say traditions were made to be broken. TAKE THE DOUGH…as long as they respect the guest list, no strings attached. This is the one time that a don’t ask, don’t tell policy is appropriate.

Fun side note: I live in Nashville TN, commonly known as the Vegas of the south because it plays host to unbelievable amounts of hen and stag parties every year.

So it was no surprise when, during a recent trip downtown, I saw a car with “it’s her last fling before the ring – buy the bride a drink!” painted on the windows along with what I can only assume was the bride’s Venmo info.

Do I think this is a good idea? Nope. I don’t. Do I think it’s a more clever, safer way to get drinks from strangers than dancing on the bar? Yeah, I do.

How long before the wedding should you have the bachelorette party?

The loose answer to this one is that it all depends upon everyone’s availability. That said, most people in the know about these things (like us, for instance) recommend scheduling out a couple of months in advance.

That way, the bride isn’t overwhelmed with pre-wedding commitments and planning, and she’ll have plenty of time to get away from it all for a couple of days without stressing.

Who should you invite to a bachelorette party?

The bridesmaids are a given, but anyone else the bride wants to celebrate with should be invited too, budget allowing. Keep in mind that the focus is on her, so don’t invite anyone with whom you think she wouldn’t be comfortable talking about intimate subject matter.

You know, just in case the convo turns racy. It is a bachelorette party, after all.

Do you have to bring a gift to a bachelorette party?

No! Definitely not required, but if you want to bring a little something, no one’s gonna kick you out.

For instance, a gift card for a massage or spa service is always popular. Personalized gifts are great, too. For example, a pic of the two of you on a memorable trip in a nice frame.

Whatever you choose, try to make it about her and/or your friendship! (And avoid all the domestic stuff that’s (probably) already on the wedding registry.)

Let The Good Times Roll, Ladies

The bachelorette party is a sacred ritual where members of your tribe unite in sisterhood to celebrate a woman’s passage from freedom to betrothal. Betrothal to one guy (or gal). Forever.

When you think of it that way, it’s not hard to understand why a woman needs a great last fling before the ring with some great bachelorette party games. She needs to bond with her friends and laugh all night as you make idiots of yourselves together.

In short, she needs to know that in the face of great change, some things will remain the same.

45th Wedding Anniversary Gift Ideas that are Unique and Heartfelt

If your 45th wedding anniversary is approaching, you deserve a huge congratulations! Being married for 45 years is no easy feat. Doing online research and using technology to read a virtual gift guide shouldn’t be overlooked either! 45 years ago you probably could’ve just cracked open a Sears catalog and mail-ordered your anniversary gift.

We applaud you for your commitment, both to your spouse and finding them the perfect anniversary gift to celebrate 45 years of matrimony.

If you’re shopping for your friends or parents anniversary, then make sure you let them know how incredible you think their accomplishment is – they deserve it!

Regardless of who is on the hunt for the anniversary present, this gift guide is packed with modern and traditional anniversary gifts that are sure to bring a smile to the happy couple’s faces.

Table Of Contents

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts?
45th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her
45th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Him
45th Anniversary Gifts For Either

What Are the Traditional & Modern Gifts?

Speaking of gifts, what are the traditional and modern 45th wedding anniversary gifts anyway? The answer is as simple as one word: sapphire. Traditional gift? Sapphire. Modern gift? Sapphire. Gem? Sapphire. Flower? Something blue…oh wait, what’s blue? A sapphire.

There’s basically no way you’re getting out of a sapphire-theme, sapphire-colored, sapphire-inspired gift. Or, you could, you know, just give them a sapphire…

What’s with the sapphire obsession, you may ask? For starters, this gem is often used as a symbol of longevity, especially with its deep blue color. This makes it a very fitting gift for a marriage that has lasted nearly five decades. Additionally, sapphires are symbolic of prosperity, peace, and beauty – all traits we would wish upon a marriage of 45 years.

As you may have guessed, a lot of these gifts have to do with sapphires. But don’t let that dissuade you! We thought outside the box and rounded up a lovely selection suitable for every spouse, parent, family member, or friend.

45th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Her

1. Sapphire Earrings

Sapphire and Diamond Earrings — *by Blue Nile*

When it comes to anniversary presents for her, you typically can’t go wrong with jewelry, so we’ll start there.

These sapphire and diamond earrings from Blue Nile are absolutely breathtaking. Deep blue sapphire ovals are encircled by brilliant diamonds for a dainty but dazzling appearance.

We also adore these sapphire earrings that feature simple sapphire spheres attached to an elegant silver dangle. She’ll love the versatile, timeless style of these drop earrings.

2. Blue Sapphire Tennis Bracelet

by Etsy: ChristianMint

We know plenty of ladies who would swoon over a tennis bracelet, and this blue sapphire stunner would probably make their year. Delicate sapphire cushions surround this feminine bracelet, set in your choice of silver, gold, or rose gold-hued rhodium or vermeil. Choose your size for a tailored fit.

3. Sapphire & Diamond Pendant

by Blue Nile

If your spouse is a necklace type of lady, she’ll appreciate this sentimental sapphire necklace. The cool blue pendant reflects the depths of your love while the diamond border offers the perfect touch of sparkle. It’s very elegant but also works incredibly well as an everyday accessory, making it the perfect wedding anniversary gift.

4. Sapphire Eternity Ring

by Blue Nile

Tessere Alternating Sapphire and Diamond Eternity Ring

We can’t move on from sapphire jewelry gift ideas without mentioning an eternity ring!

Eternity rings are growing in popularity as anniversary gifts, and we can see why. These stunning bands feature a continuous line of identically cut gemstones to represent the unending love your partner has for you. Swoon!

This incredible sapphire eternity ring from Blue Nile features an alternating pattern of round-cut sapphires and diamonds, set in a white gold band. This eternity ring, like your marriage, will stand the test of time and remind you every day of the love you have for your spouse.

5. Candle

by Saks: Baobab

Yes, we’ve found a sapphire-inspired candle! The sapphire pearls candle from Baobab includes a gorgeous hand-blown glass vase with delicate blue and white inlays. The huge candle has four wicks made of Egyptian cotton. When lit, its fresh and inspiring aroma carries notes of seaweed and myrtle that invoke the shores of the Mediterranean. This impressive candle has a burn time of 150 hours.

6. Flowers

by Bouqs

A bouquet of flowers, the standard anniversary offering. Bouqs has plenty of breathtaking blooms, some with hints of blue. Regardless of whether your flower arrangement features blue flora or not, she’ll adore any of their exquisite arrangements.

7. Glass Vase

by Nordstrom: LSA

Hand-blown glass in a distinctive form makes for a vase just as unique as she is. Its deep cobalt color would look striking with a vibrant bouquet of flowers. It also serves as an interesting art piece when displayed sans flowers. It’s perfect for the woman who loves fresh flowers in her home.

Just don’t make the mistake of gifting it empty!

8. Sunglasses

by Nordstrom: Tory Burch

Fashionable and functional? We love to see it! These square sunglasses give off vintage vibes perfect for creating a statement look. Their attractive tortoise coloring is understated but quite distinctive.

Style aside, they offer the best protection possible with their 100% UV-coated lenses that are even prescription compatible.

9. Blue Leather Tote Bag

by Leatherology

This bright blue bag is a stunner! It’s brilliant and bold, and did we mention big? This leather tote has space to hold all her necessities and more. Its comfortable strap, functional interior, and removable leather wristlet will be greatly appreciated.

We also love that it’s available for personalization, should you want to add a sentimental touch. If your wife has accumulated more than enough jewelry over the years, this is an excellent alternative gift for the sapphire wedding anniversary.

45th Anniversary Gift Ideas For Him

10. Watch

by Saks: Ferragamo

Ferragamo Stainless Steel Bracelet Watch

A gifts for him section wouldn’t be complete without a watch, the accessory of choice for most men.

We love this handsome watch that exudes sophistication without being too flashy. Crafted from gold and stainless steel, the durable band has a charming pattern. But it’s the rich sapphire quartz face that really makes it stand out. Of course, he’ll want to know the details – rest assured it’s water-resistant, has a chrono-movement, and is intricately Swiss-made.

11. Raw Sapphire Bracelet

by Etsy: DESERTDUSTMEN

Guys can appreciate a sapphire gem too. Jewelry isn’t just for ladies, after all.

This simple, natural bracelet is made from raw sapphires with a hue so blue they almost appear black. Silver spacers contrast pleasantly with their rich color. It is minimalistic with lovely bohemian vibes for the laid-back guy who enjoys sporting a bracelet now and again.

12. Gin Cufflinks

by Etsy: Glassoholics

“Eye-catching” is the adjective that comes to mind when we gaze upon these vibrant cerulean cufflinks. Each is made from a recycled Bombay Sapphire glass bottle, perfect for the gin connoisseur. They’re fitted on a silver plated bezel and post that complements the matte tumbled glass very well. From day job to date night, your spouse will love wearing these “sleeve buttons” – they’re quite the conversation piece.

13. Silicone Ring

by Enso Rings

If your husband sways more towards practical jewelry rather than pretty, he will likely appreciate this silicone ring as a sapphire anniversary gift. It’s durable, comfortable, and well-suited to all types of lifestyles. It comes in an astonishing number of colors (of course, sapphire is one of them). Select your width and size, then present him with a ring he’ll never want to take off!

14. Sundial

by The Metal Foundry

Ideal for his home or office desk, this sundial is a wonderful representation of how your marriage has stood the test of time. Its sleek gold edging sets off the sapphire-colored face. Modern yet timeless, it is a gift that will never go out of style.

To set it apart from standard sundials, the face is inscribed with a lovely anniversary message.

15. Fountain Pen

by Waterman

A staple in every man’s pocket, we believe this fountain pen will quickly become his new favorite. From its sleek design to its smooth writing, this is one practical gift he will love to use time and again.

You can choose from a ballpoint, rollerball, or traditional fountain pen tip, then customize the pen with gold or silver trim. It’s made and assembled in France and delivered in a very fitting sapphire blue box.

16. Sterling Silver Tie Clip with Blue Sapphire

by Etsy: SilverSculptor

Tie clips and tie bars are essential if your guy likes to have a neat and sophisticated appearance. We love how this minimalistic tie bar, outfitted with a blue sapphire, will effortlessly match nearly every color and pattern. Its silver finish can be left shiny or matte, and it can be personalized with a sentimental engraving.

17. Silk Tie

by Saks: Charvet

He just might need a new tie to go with that tie pin. Might we suggest this sapphire silk tie (that even sounds luxurious)? Opulent silk printed with a two-tone jacquard pattern won’t look out of place in either the ballroom or the boardroom. Every time you help him put on and straighten this tie, he’ll fondly recall your forty-five years of love and laughter.

45th Anniversary Gifts For Either

18. Luggage Set

by Samsonite

Women and men alike will appreciate this durable luggage set. Its strong yet sleek sapphire exterior means it can not only hold up to rough handling, but it will stand out at baggage claim, too!

The set comes with three pieces of luggage, including a standard carry-on. Each one has easy-roll wheels and a helpful handlebar. Take on the world with your life partner by your side (and one of these luggage bags)!

19. Office Chair

by West Elm

Looking for a 45th anniversary gift idea that is more useful than blue flowers or precious stones?

A mid-century modern swivel chair is both comfortable and classy for the home office. Though, we hope you and your spouse spend most of your time enjoying each other instead of working these days. After forty-five years, you deserve it!

This chair has smooth-glide wheels, plush padding, and durable woven fabric in a rich sapphire blue hue, or your choice of 30+ other colors and fabrics.

20. Bombay Sapphire Gin

by Target

Bombay Sapphire seems like an obvious drink of choice for this marriage milestone. It’s a classic favorite and comes in a distinctive Caribbean blue bottle. Whether you’re saying cheers to forty-five years or fortifying yourself for another few decades together, this boozy beverage is a fitting anniversary gift.

21. Custom House Portrait

by Minted

How adorable is this custom house portrait? What a wonderful way to commemorate the life you both have created together.

Simply upload a photo of your house, be it current or your first family home, and the independent artists at Minted will create a custom line drawing. Printed in a color of your choosing (hint, hint: sapphire) and framed with your choice of materials, this is such a sweet and sentimental gift that should be hung in a place of honor in your home.

22. Now & Then Art Print

by Etsy: PicturePerfectByJG

Oh my goodness, this gift nearly had us in tears!

Perfect for the couple who has everything, treat them to a walk down memory lane courtesy of this now & then print. A smaller current photo is inset into a large photo from the couple’s wedding ceremony. It can be printed on canvas in a variety of sizes and in color or black and white.

It’s a truly unique piece of art that is bound to bring tears of joy upon its unveiling.

23. Soap Dispenser

by Etsy: LookingSharpCactus

After 45 years some couples don’t want or need anything fancy. Maybe they just want something practical.

Despite its practicality, this pick is perfect as one of our 45th anniversary gifts. A classic Bombay Sapphire Gin bottle is outfitted with a silver soap dispenser pump. It would look fantastic in a home bar or man cave!

24. Custom Cutting Board

by Etsy: BlueRidgeMountainCo

We’re deviating a little bit from the sapphire theme a little bit, but what can you do? Blue might simply be not for you!

Nevertheless, this cutting board is gorgeous. Choose your wood with stunning selections like maple or cherry; then it will be crafted and smoothed into a charming board. Add a personalization below the delightful 45th wedding anniversary design, and this cutting board just may be too pretty for use!

25. Sapphire Blue Notebook

by Moleskine

This budget-friendly gift is so great, you might as well purchase two, one for each of you!

This signature soft yet durable Moleskine notebook has been outfitted with a sapphire blue cover. Inside, the thick and luxurious lined pages offer ample space for keeping notes, writing down appointments, or even doodling.

Simple yet so well-designed, you’ll enjoy writing each other love letters in this notebook for years to come.

Love As Deep as the Depths of the Ocean

We’re utterly impressed with the commitment 45 years of marriage takes. This anniversary is no minute milestone, and as such, it warrants a gift equally as impressive.

We hope our gift guide has led you to a wonderful choice, be it for your wife, husband, parents, or friends! Remember, you can’t go wrong with anything sapphire, whose rich blue color represents love as enduring and deep as your marriage.